Just trying to help you guys out here. If you're not interested in the truth just say so. Do you think standing up to him like this is easy? It's not. I don't enjoy one minute of it. Not even one second of it. I'd rather have root canal.
It's
easy to name call. For example you say my bio is vague--I point out how it isn't. Then you say, "grow up".
I think the issue you have is playing credentials, a good thing to discuss on this thread regarding all instructors and not just us. You are both a pro and teacher but can you accept how anyone who plays at a semi-pro level can be a good teacher? Isn't it true across a wide variety of sports that few of the best players are also the finest teachers? I'm not denigrating your teaching, I'm saying that some non-pro players in all sports are very fine teachers.
Pool students don't care if we tell them we won the all-mid-Tennessee Scotch Doubles 7-Ball Invitational while playing jacked up one-handed after our partner got killed in a freak shuffleboard accident the night before the finals, what they care about is whether they get better when they take lessons from us or not.
The students get better and I receive a steady stream of "Wow, I read most everything you post, Matt, it's so helpful" in addition to giving helpful lessons in person.
I'm aware that you plan to criticize me the moment I step out of line at AZ regarding
incorrect instruction. That's fine, as a matter of fact, I welcome it as a mature person who loves to learn. But I am asking you again for a clean slate regarding all the name calling--the "Grow up, Matt" and the "It's so hard to deal with Matt, it makes me ill" is both beneath you and not the way I'm responding back to you in kind.
I'm trying sincerely to post in ways that people find less objectionable. You can be a part of the solution and write criticism without calling me names or making vague, unsavory accusations.
Oh, and Fran, you're not the only one. I've been very tempted to call out other instructors on their
instruction but notice that whether they receive private or public messages they tend to hold grudges, name call and etc. Shame on them, especially when they have a popular teaching gig going like you or I. I have never once criticized your instruction, only your illogic.
Thanks for considering my offer.