I am in a unique situation since I own a pool room. People come to me all the time seeking advise and I do my best to help them out. While my game is not what it once was, I still have a good deal of knowledge that has been gained over the last 40 years that I freely share with anyone who asks for my assistance. I especially like working with the kids, it is amazing how many want to try and learn this sport. I also enjoy working with my APA teams, a number of the team Captains have asked me to help them and their players out.
I don't think that in most cases people care if your a Pro, Short Stop, or an average player everything depends on how you act toward others. Some good or even decent players come off in a standoffish manner, which repels others and some players are just plain arrogant which also has a negative effect on how they are perceived. I think part of being a good player is how you are accepted and interact with others. Because lets face it those who talk a big end up sharking themselves because they can't perform to the level that their mouth does and that can be seen in almost any place pool is played throughout this Nation.
So I think over all most who know me respect me and my game.
Interesting thread, thanks for starting it!!