I wasn't really trying to shut the other sites down, just make sure they never hosted more attacks on my site. Mine was a highly moderated site, let us talk about politics, race, religion, all of the things that send most sites up in flames. Mostly my explanation for editing was simply ROE. Twelve rules of engagement. Obey them or get your post whacked!
It was funny, a career military friend of mine couldn't stand an unfair attack on the military and blistered another poster. He immediately contacted me. "Sorry I made a mess for you to clean up." "No problem, I will clean it up as soon as I see it. Gonna make a point to not see it for a few hours though.(grin)" I didn't like the wrongful attack on our military either!
I had a canoe stolen. A burglar working the neighborhood. A neighbor had a high dollar chow puppy stolen. As it happens I was an early breeder of chows in the area. A friend of mine called me, a friend of hers showed her a beautiful chow puppy her boyfriend had given her. I called my neighbor, "I can retrieve your puppy, as long as you promise to press charges and never drop them." Didn't get my canoe back but I got the thief!
These days that is the plan if wronged, get even legally. In the old days I didn't sweat breaking the law myself to pay back as long as there were no witnesses. One bit of strong arm theft was without thought and funny looking back on it. I had loaned a friend a magnesium racing hub until I needed it. When I needed it, he had loaned it out! I chased my hub through about six different hands in the next two weeks before it just disappeared into the void.
I was about to order a pricey new one when somebody that knew I needed a hub called me. He still didn't know where mine was but he knew where I could buy a used one. I called up a stranger and got directions to his home with a shop behind it. I was alone, just going to buy a hub. When I got there, three strangers were there and one old friend. "I'll be damned if you will sell me this hub, it is mine!" I picked up my hub, turned around and left. No room for discussion! I doubt I was there a full minute. It didn't occur to me until later that there could have been immediate or later legal issues for taking my own hub.
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