I'm no golf expert, but if my understanding is correct that's a terrible analogy. A ball on a tee is the same as a ball in the 'D' waiting for you to strike it with the tip. You can do what you like with it before you've struck it with the tip. Only then is it in play, and then everything is 'live'. It is not the same in golf I believe. I understood that if a golfer swung at a ball on the tee and missed, it still counted as a shot. Correct me if I am wrong.
When the golf ball is out there it's just like snooker. You cannot touch it other than striking it unless expressly stated in the rules. I also understood you are penalised for hitting your opponents ball with yours when on the green. That's why the etiquette is to remove yours if it's even close to the line of the other player.
Similarly you can't even touch the sand in the bunker with your club without penalty, never mind a ball.
Basically the point is, no matter what the game is, once you start the instant you strike the first shot, you operate to the letter of the rules. Part of the skill of games like snooker is being able to play a shot from a difficult leave such as bridging over balls just as well as with your elbow on the table. Nobody should intend to move other balls in any situation, therefore if you touch a ball you have clearly failed to carry out your intention, and are rightly penalised for it. It's meant to be difficult. It's why your opponent left you there. I personally can't see what's unfair about it. Bumbling oafs get punished in other sports. Why not cuesports?
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