Nope I would not disagree with Snead.....But I also follow the entire intent of his comment, not just the selected verbiage that you have chosen.
I believe goes on to state something to the effect that you need to hold the bird to ensure that it does not fly away either...
His complete intent is that although you don't want a death (to the bird) grip you want enough of a grip to make sure you have complete control of the club.
At any rate...If my reading is correct...I was not the one that brought up the Golf analogy... I believe you brought it up and that JoeyA made a more accurate statement in that the right hand grip that has "less" grip pressure than the left would be more closely matched to that of a pool grip......(I probably should have just left it at that)
I was only trying to eliminate any potential confusion that might have been caused by others that frequent this board that may be both Golfers and Pool players and read your post and think to themselves that...Oh my left hand golf grip pressure is what I should use on my pool grip.....(I would say no to using the left hand grip pressure...more the right hand grip pressure..of a golf grip...to estimate the pressure on a pool cue grip)
I am in TOTAL agreement with you on a relaxed grip pressure..I am in total disagreement on the snatching or jerking away a club or cue...In both Golf and Pool that Club or Cue is an extension of my left arm...(I play pool left handed BTW) .....I am of the belief that I am going to always be the one in complete control of my left arm at all times....
Now for pool it could be a little different because you never come accross any "high impact" situations...(deep rough)....but I still want just enough grip pressure that I know that I am in complete controle of my cue.....(I tend to think that even slip stroke players are still doing it in such a way that they are in controle of the cue)
I won't argue your name dropping...they are very respected professionals...and the course you play on is very nice as well...I am happy for you..You sound like a successful individual...
Unfortunatley...I am stuck in Arizona.....so I am kind of limited when it comes to nice golf courses or big name professionals......