The person who said go find some grass to watch grow may be more correct than he thinks.
LESSON NUMBER ONE ... Don't think of the game as a game of pocketing balls. If you do, you will lose your patience before your opponent, not a winning mindset. If you want to bang balls around, play 9 ball. Think of it as more a mind game of yours vs his. Moves and counter moves. Think more of the game as where the cue ball is going and not so much where the object balls are going.
Patience is the name of the game and putting the concept of pocketing balls out of your head is a good start. Image how frustrating it would be for a three cushion billiard player to be trying to pocket balls, I mean, the table doesn't even have pockets.
What I'm trying to say is don't push yourself in that direction. Realize it is a different game all together. A game of moving and trying to keep your opponent on the defense. Baby steps, high percentage plays that whenever possible can do more than one thing. For example, moving a ball very near your pocket is nowhere as good as moving it there (perhaps not as close) but in the process you prevent your opponent the opportunity to knock it away.
Its a wonderful game. Full of thinking, patience, and finesse.
Everyone enjoys different games. This game and 14.1 are my favorite games and to me, 9 ball is way too finite a game that reduces the depth and beauty of what pool is. (as does any game that you don't use the whole set of balls to play)