I pity myself for buying from ipitythefool

8/27/10: Mr. Simsek informs me that the package has been sent - providing a foreign looking tracking #. I attempt to track it using various known carriers. Nothing works.

*** Ira, the tracking numbers from here do NOT and should not look foreign, whatsoever. There is a standardized system among most post offices around the world. For instance, a sample tracking number of USPS would be something like:
CP123456789US. They sometimes start with CL, or maybe other letters, but always ends with "US". In comparison, a tracking number that was originated from Turkish Post office would look something like:
CP123456789TR. Notice the difference as to "TR" vs. "US". Or, if it was shipped from DHL/Deutsche Post of Germany, it would end with "DE". From Belgium, I believe "BE". That is the ONLY difference.

I would like to ask at this point. Have you ever received a package from outside US, and if yes, have you ever tried to track it at USPS site, in the immediate days that follow the shipment date?

Excuse me, but I will use another analogy in this case. This reminds me of an American friend who comes visits me at my home, sits at the couch, grabs the remote and goes: "Hey, how come I am not getting any ESPN Sports here? WTF?"

Ira, the tracking number (usually) shows at USPS track&info site, AFTER the package enters into US and comes into posession of the USPS. Say, I bought something on the internet/ebay, etc. And I was given a tracking number. I DO NOT immediately try and start trying to track it at the (delivering company of) Turkish Post's website! It takes time 10-12 business days waiting (whether sending or receiving to/from US) has ALWAYS been my experience. And I would like to point out to the fact that, 10-12 business days, translates to a good 15-16 days.

Now, there are exceptions. Sometimes, a given tracking number will NOT pop up at the USPS tracking site whatsoever, and delivery of a given package would be made. And sometimes, I order something on Ebay, and same (standardized) info, I find both at USPS and PTT (Turkish Post) websites, simultaneously. Sometimes, for no apparent reason, a package gets stuck at the customs stage (Before the carrier company takes posession of a package, it must first clear the customs. and sometimes, things can get delayed even few more days)

People who are experienced with tracking things from internet purchases, shall relate to things I've been trying to explain.

Conclusively: You just should have been patient with receiving the package from 10K miles away.


9/1/10: Mr. Simsek gives me a turkish postal link which provides no meaningful information about the package whereabouts. Mr. Simsek pastes me some lines that he apparently cut out from his search results. Says the package is in the US now and that I should be able to track it with USPS. Not true.

*** You said, the Turkish Post's website provided no meaningful information. Well, I apologize on Turkish Post's website, if their crooked way of explaining things in the English language did not conform to you. But knowing that it would make little sense to you, I remember, I explained it in clear English, judging by what you wrote, that, the package was sent to US and that you should be able to track it. IF the status read that the package was SENT TO US, it means, it WAS sent to US. And, on a normal case, few days after, you should be able to track it at your USPS site! This is the core of the matter. Now, if the Turkish Post was acting in a fraudal manner, by scanning your package's barcode and notating in their system as it was sent to US, but in fact they were holding your package, and all the customs police were busy watching the carom DVDs when they were supposed to be working...I don't know anything about that :) I am just joking. Ira, have you received anything from abroad, say, Korea, France or etc?

9/6/10: Still no package. No info from the turkish postal tracking #. Mr. Simsek suggests me to wait till Friday 9/10/10. Friday comes and goes.
A week later 9/17/10, the package arrives at my parent's house. (I was moving at the time so I had the package shipped there). When I open it I am angry to see a bunch of cheap handwritten bootleg DVDs - I want a refund right away. Still, I try hard to play them, but most don't even play. I spend the next couple of days trying different video players and computer software. Even as bootlegs, most of the DVDs had problems being incomplete and broken.

***There can be issues as to different formats, PAL (Euro and rest of world) vs. NTSC (US, Japan, etc) as it was discussed at that dvd sale thread that I created. However, you should have had NO problems with playing them on computer.

9/21/10: I send a message to Mr. Simsek explaining my problem and expressing my objection to the pirated videos (being represented as originals). I offer to buy the "2 bonus DVDs" he sent me (the ones I didn't even order) for $20 and ask for $80 back for the broken bootlegs.

I actually think the quality of those videos is good - they at least PLAYED.

*** Did you think that the quality of the videos were good?
Wow, I am a little surprised to hear this :wink: Thank you for your candid opinion.

He responds saying that he will forward my complaints to his "friend" and see what he says. Already, I am feeling a bit uneasy. But at least Mr. Simsek informs me that his friend happens also to be a close friend of Semih Sayginer - as I am.

*** I immediately forwarded your complaints to this non-English-speaking friend that I met in a local hall. His response, which I explained several times before. He is a friend of Saygıner. He is even very close with national team related group of people.

9/23/10: No response from Mr. Simsek yet. I send another message asking if his "friend" has responded. Nothing.
9/24/10: I send yet another message to Mr. Simsek to find out if his "friend" has responded. He responds by apologizing to me that his "friend" declined my refund request. Mr. Simsek offers to give me $20 (the amount of his commission) and to select more match DVDs.

*** $20 was not my commission. This is not something I made money. (And the period of time it took so far in order for me to read and reply to this OUTRAGEOUS thread, and the wages that I make pertaining to this period of time, far exceeds such figures being talked here)

I offered so,
I RESPOND CLEARLY STATING THAT I AM NOT INTERESTED in that resolution (more DVDs) and that I WANT A REFUND. This is the LAST communication that I will receive from Mr. Simsek.

*** I responded several times, that the seller is not interested in paying 85 bucks back to you -10 bucks went to shipping, around 5 bucks went to Paypal. And I dont feel compelled to paying a benjie out of my own pocket for someone else.

9/28/10: I send a message to explain my position clearly to Mr. Simsek - that I felt deeply saddened. Within the message, about his friend I say this, "I don't know his name as you have shielded me from his identity. All I know about him (from you) is that he is a "close friend" of Semih's.

*** You have NEVER asked the identity of him from me.
 
What I know about you (through our brief dialog) is that you seemed to share the same enthusiasm about the game as I do which gave me the first impression that yours would be a positive association.

*** Ira, Mr. Lee, I try and share the same enthusiasm about the game with you, and I wish I was as good of a player as you are. I love this game. Like with other people with whom I corresponded, I love discussing all everything about the game, about your visit to Turkey back in the day w/ the great Sang Lee, about cues. I was myself, "chatty and friendly" in your terms, that I was trying to learn MORE about you, how you play, what size of tips/cue etc you play with, and that you may have information that I may not have. I admire the level of game you play (OK, enough with the sugar coating :grin:) You know, I was even interested in purchasing cues from you (In fact, I would still be interested to purchase a cue from you. And let me know if somehow we could turn it into a deal, so that I can somehow take care of "your losses" from this deal) Mr. Lee, I wanted to hear more about the cues you have for sale. I mentioned this several times/along with how often I mentioned that I admire your game. But somehow you shut the door on that. You first mentioned that you or your friends might have cues and dense grain Adam shafts that I seek, but then I never heard from you. In my perspective, you simply ignored me. It might be because, you were "uncomfortable" about this ongoing dvd deal, and that translated into you ignoring me about my cue purchase request. But that translated to me, as you are acting snobbishly on me. That is where snobbishness came relevant to me. In either case, I apologize for such pre-judgment of your character.

Unfortunately, I am getting the sense that you have chosen to take his side on this issue at the end of the day." I get no response from Mr. Simsek.
*** I have not taken nobody's side. I am not in close contact with the seller, whatsoever.

10/4/10: Still no response. I send a final message to Mr. Simsek to let him know that I feel stolen from. <crickets...>

I apologize if that is what you think. I am not a thief.


I actually never had any problem with content or quality of the "bonus" DVDs that your friend recorded.
*** Yes, they are nice, and those "only table" shots have been a lot of fun and educating to my game...I could sell them to members here (not the Kozoom vids) and I believe almost everyone would like them. But I either got busy or lazy to get back to people.

As for the Caromtv videos, you are entitled to your opinion about them.
I am probably biased because I am a co-founder. The most important thing about them is that their production is a labor of love (of the announcer, Jan Carl) and every penny of profit (and then some) is donated to fund tournaments (i.e. Sang Lee International Open) in order to promote the game.

*** Since it is internet environment, again I will be frank, Mr. Lee. Caromtv videos are nice. Not as nice as the new Kozoom way of multiple-shooting things. But they are nice. But, they are old stuff. It is all about Ceulemans, Sang Lee, Blomdahl, Semih, Caudron and etc. I would like to watch, say, that Kim Roul from Korea, Kasidokostas, Taşdemir, and all the new generation. Maybe there are no new tournaments going on in NYC/US. But those vids need some refreshing, in my opinion.

Moreover, again my opinion, but I am not much interested in hearing irrelevant narration throughout the game. Or if there will be narration, it could be made by pros, such as yourself, or better by the likes of Jaspers, Caudron (maybe not Caudron, I have no idea when he speaks English), etc. They come and narrate the game and their perspective. I think it is way better than the uneducated comments that I often hear on caromtv stuff.
I rather prefer to hear the only tournament/hotel background music. Just wanted to give my 2 cents, since I realize you were a co-founder.


Your opinion about me personally is irrelevant here. I have been known to act out snobbishly with people that I believe are stealing from me.

*** I explained above, where and how my perhaps-wrong pre-judgment of you was either correctly and wrongfully translated into all this, imo.

And just because you assumed the delivery time would be 12 days doesn't make it so.

*** 12 business days. But I agree, what I assume can be wrong in terms of delivery. But in my case, it has always been 10-12 business days. 2-3 weeks. Do not ask me. Ask to people around you. Ask, how long it takes to receive stuff from Europe, from Asia, etc. Ask if you can start to immediately track things on USPS. Please.

The timeline shows that you took a very long to send the package - far more than a "few days" - you repeatedly apologized for the delays that you were creating. I remained extremely patient throughout as you dragged the entire process out far longer than it should have taken. At the end of the day, it was I who got stuck.

***Explained above.

I would like to believe that you didn't intentionally orchestrate the delay so that I could have no recourse through PayPal,

***Absolutely, no "intentional orchestration" delay as it appeared to to you. I realized that you tried to get a refund, when I saw a message to my inbox from paypal. I don't know the time period either to ask for such refund, but if I recall from such paypal msg, it may be 45 days. 45 days should have been well enough for you to ask for a refund, so that I would be the one whacked in this deal. (And I still do not think you are whacked in this deal. Because you produce such vids and wholeheartedly believe against privacy issue, that is why you are after this, correct?


but from any other side of the fence than yours, you must understand that the actions themselves don't appear as noble as you say. I'd like to be proven wrong in the end.

If you have any serious intention of resolving this issue with me then I welcome your dialog.

***Likewise, I welcome your dialog as well :)

Bear in mind, I don't wish to be coerced into buying more of your friends DVDs, regardless of their quality.

*** I am a top dog salesman. But I have no wish, nor energy, nor willingness to sell you anything whatsoever, Mr. Lee. Au contraire, as I explained above, perhaps you could sell me a decent Blomdahl cue :) And in the end of the story, perhaps you end up hitting me in the head with a baton? LOL Just kidding. But I am serious about purchasing a cue from you, just a note.

To be clear, I am interested only in getting a refund for the DVDs that I paid for, but never received. If this happens I will post here under this thread, that a successful resolution was made.

*** I understand, I will bug the seller one more time. As for you mentioning under this thread, whether a successfull resolution was made or not, that will NOT clear my name on this billiard forum. And I do not care much, either, as I have been scapegoated "for being frank, imo" in more than a few occasions. I will say arrivederci to the carom community friends pretty soon. Thanks.
Until that happens, Mr. Simsek, I'm afraid dinner is out of the question.

-Ira

Just now, I noticed a private message in my inbox from you. Composing this message response has taken some time and it clarifies most of the points that you threw up. Therefore, I shall post this before opening my inbox to see what your message says.[/QUOTE]
 
ipitythefool.


I played couple of times in Turkey ,Ismir, Ankara & Istanbul,

Turkish billiard community has really a large of international respectful players ,
Semih sayginer ,
Lütfi Berk Çenet (Lütfi Berk)
Murat Naci
Tayfun Tasdemir
Adnan Yüksel
Hakan Incekara
Selim Ozden
Yusuf Özesmer

& many..............

Don't compare US # of 3 cushion Players (1000) to Turkey # of 3 cushion players(10000)


School US players,&send them back!!!
Nobody school no body,This is SPORT ,and keep it as a sport!!!

I remember when Mr Sayginer played Mr Sang lee in Vegas ,,
Sayginer was the world champion at that time & very hard to beat,
he was leading Mr lee, 2 sets to nothing , Sang lee came back to the game and win the tournament!
Do you mean SANG lee Schooled Sayginer and send him back to Turkey.

No MY Friend and Dear friends ,
Talking trash against any player on this website is ILLEGAL !!!

Carom is cue sport , respect it.

:) Hi. I wholeheartedly agree with you. In fact, all these players are friends with each other, as this is a small community. In fact, the whole world three cushion is a small community. (I wish, it was broadcasted/popularized for 1/10 of the amount of other cue sports such as pool and paid 1/10th of snooker)

I understand and clearly believe in what you are saying. However, you know, the internet environment brings some comfort zone -and frankly that brings people some additonal courage- and also, it makes it a little fun, imo. Have you ever watched old movies, like Rocky? Ivan Drago of Russia vs. Rocky Balboa from USA! You know what I mean? :) And "schooling", come on, maybe players are so respectful of each other in US carom community, that they don't even joke around as to who is better. But in this side of the world, the word "to school" another player is the most respected form of a fun way trash talking. I have seen players whacked in head with cue butts, to resolve a conversation which initially started as "who is better" lol.
Can we have some fun here? :p
P.S: I would love to chat more with you, in order to learn more from your experiences.
 
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Hi Ipitythefool
I want to clarify this: I didn't buy that book and dvd from you.

I've bought this dvd and that book via the link and email he put in this forum, and again I don't want to expose his name, it can harm his reputation or to get money back.

I just want to put my comment like www.Amazon.com to let the people know the items I bought from this forum. (for ex: shipping time is too long (5 month and information in book and dvd is not accurate)
Waste of money.
 
did not sell anything to anyone

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I did NOT sell anything to you, whatsoever. In fact, I did NOT sell anything to anyone (with the exception to Ira, on behalf of the local seller) in this billiard forum. And I refused to sell (by not responding/delaying etc) to all the other members who contacted me, once I realized that two or three Kozoom vids that I have are pirated. I could still sell the other match DVDs, but frankly, I either got busy, or lazy for doing so. (One exception other than Ira, someone from this forum requested that I buy a cue from a local cuemaker, I have been paypaled approx $450, and in return I shipped the cue to such friend from this forum.
...

Lots of exceptions...

Note that the gentleman hadn't accused you of wrongdoing.

On the other hand, I have. You state that "you did not sell anything to anyone" - but that must include me. As far as I am concerned, you did not sell to me. Selling should involve some sort of exchange but our dealings did not. You defer all blame to an unavailable local seller "friend", but it does not mean that you fulfilled your end of our transaction.

From my perspective, your sales approach with me was "Bait and Switch": I was, in effect, lured in to buy original Kozoom videos and then coerced into taking something else instead of getting my funds returned. Very plainly: I paid your PayPal account and you sent me a bunch of incomplete, non-working bootlegs. After I called you out on the PIRATED products, you threw up your hands, pointed fingers to a non-english-speaking "friend", and made lots of excuses. Then, you refused to refund my money and instead expect me to accept, in replacement, selections from your library of "high quality" homemade handheld match DVDs. I understand that you wish to me to feel like you are doing me a favor. This is not reality.

Even if selling billiard stuff on the internet is only a hobby (which I generally admire), if one decides to accept customers' money, then one ought to be prepared to accept the responsibility. What is a seller's reputation worth?

-Ira
 
. . . you can kiss my bloody ass to hell :wink:

I think I speak for all English speaking folks on these 2 points. . .

1) Nobody likes a bloody ass!

2) . . .Before you throw your bucket in a pissing match, learn the f'in language! I mean. . .c'mon my Japanese teacher could whip you in an English web war. Flame out and go back to screwing locals.
 
I think I speak for all English speaking folks on these 2 points. . .

1) Nobody likes a bloody ass!

2) . . .Before you throw your bucket in a pissing match, learn the f'in language! I mean. . .c'mon my Japanese teacher could whip you in an English web war. Flame out and go back to screwing locals.

It is a British saying. So, blame the Brits.

Now this type of message is where it starts falling into childish and harassing side of the ethic rules. Do NOT send me a private message again.
 
As is usual with threads that ipitythefool gets involved with... it has turned into a disaster. Although, it is very nice to hear from everyone else, and especially exciting to hear from one of our brothers in Japan. Welcome! I hope you'll join us again on another thread.
 
Since its seems pretty obvious what book/dvd you're talking about, rabitvu, would you care to tell us what material is wrong and how you determined it was incorrect?
 
"To be clear, I am interested only in getting a refund for the DVDs that I paid for, but never received. If this happens I will post here under this thread, that a successful resolution was made."

*** I understand, I will bug the seller one more time. As for you mentioning under this thread, whether a successfull resolution was made or not, that will NOT clear my name on this billiard forum. And I do not care much, either, as I have been scapegoated "for being frank, imo" in more than a few occasions. I will say arrivederci to the carom community friends pretty soon.

If I am made whole by you, I will post the fact in order to clear your name. Let's start there.

I think that you do care about the community here. They are generally good people and these are rare and fragile things, you realize.

-Ira
 
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