I've always used my real name with my screen name, even before the internet. I'm not hard to find at tournaments... I am usually eavesdropping on conversations around the flow chart - you'd be surprised at some of the things some people say.
If anyone wants to know what I look like - plenty of pictures to include my avatar pic - and if they want to see me play - videos are on youtube. Any questions - then my phone # is displayed on my website.
I don't hide very well these days.
Where's your phone number? i need at least 2 more people to drunk dial.