The WPBA used to have a policy where if you paid your entry fee and had to cancel, they would refund your entry if they were able to fill the spot. If not, you wouldn't get your money back and your name would remain on the chart. I think that's the most fair way to do things. Nobody would question that type of policy.
She needs to refund that man his entry or she is stealing, IMO.
Gotta wonder if there aren't others.
Lou Figueroa