Keith McCready got money from his dad to play money games against his dad. Unethical?

I'd love to see the documentary about Keith McCready.

Keith grew up in a loving Irish family and had two older brothers. The family moved from Illinois to California when they were very young. Unfortunately, Keith's mother passed away from breast cancer when Keith was 10. His father never quite got over it and turned to drink.

Keith and his brothers used to gamble their allowance money in the basement on a bumper pool table. When Keith was introduced to a big pool room as a child by his father, he would sit quietly and watch the good players gamble. He studied their moves and learned all games of pocket billiards, and back then in the '60s, gambling was the norm in a pool room, unlike today's tournament soldier culture. The older players took Keith under their wing and introduced him to the art of gambling. Eventually, he'd rather stay in the pool room with his pool family than go home, and soon he was beating the older players at their own game.

When California State got wind of a child gambling and sleeping in a pool room under the tables at night rather than going home, they removed him from his father due to negligence, I guess, and made him a ward of the state. Fortunately, Bob Wallace, the owner of Bob's Billiards, was very fond of Keith and petitioned to adopt him, and he then gave Keith a good home with three squares and a bedroom at night. Pool at this juncture—and gambling—was very much a part of Keith's way of life.

Was it unethical for Keith's father or his foster dad to give Keith monery for gambling? Well, it depends on who you ask, I guess. Keith is who he is today because of it, and those who know Keith well enjoy having him as their friend. His empathy and love for fellow man, whether rich or poor, old or young, is Keith's best trait, a trait which actually developed from seeing the good, the bad, and the oh-so-ugly side of gambling.

Photo below of 12-year-old Keith in a straight pool exhibition with Cowboy Jimmy Moore. Keith ran 37 balls, and Jimmy closed him out in 4 innings because, according to Keith, Jimmy didn't want to lose to him. Ah, the world according to Keith. Keith said he did get to 70 points. Bobby Wallace is directly behind Keith with his hand underneath his chin. Bobby owned Bob's Billiards in Anaheim, California, the pool room where Keith grew up. Bobby also ended up adopting Keith to keep him from living in a foster home as a ward of the state. Keith is shooting with Bobby's Gina cue

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Thank you for the short bio.

I just have to say..... JAM, I hope someday I get the pleasure of meeting you both. Although it is
improbable. Consider me a fan of the both of you. Best wishes for the new year.

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That fine line between gambling and wagering
To revisit the court case in Washington state....The judgement was, the two involved in the match were participating in a contest of skill. The two partners betting on the side were gambling . So the first was to be paid and the second dismissed.
Like I said, "it's a pool tournament ". Is there a state in the union that considers a pool tournament gambling?
 
gamblers are gamblers. and non gamblers are non gamblers. both have different thoughts on it.
Money players and recreation players is a more accurate label. The money is just a way to keep score, is my position as a money player. Do recreational players even keep score?
While I am a money player, I still have friends that are strictly recreation players. I can respect their religious position. It's the ones that tell me, "they don't gamble" and an hour later play my wife for money. 🤷‍♂️ I can't help but say to them, "oh I see! You don't gamble but you will steal. "🤷‍♂️
 
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I still have friends that are strictly recreation players. I can respect their religious position.
Ooops a flashback to the night I overheard a person belittling a non gambling friend with, "he shoots good but won't gamble." He complained to his date With a sneer! Of course I had to step in with, "I like to gamble". I had him in the proverbial trap. He had set out to impress his date and got his dick in the dirt...3 straight was all he could take. 🤷‍♂️ The funny part is my non gambling friend shot every bit as good as me. 🤷‍♂️ I guess he thought money would make my friend nervous? Money only excites me. 😉
 
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My parents never "forced" me to gamble. They neither encouraged or discouraged it, directly. but my mother, a very devout Catholic school girl, never tired of telling how, at the height of the Great Depression, while playing the slot machines in the corner store with her mother's change, she hit the "Big Jackpot" and became the big hero of both her family and neighborhood. New Orleans, like Biloxi, had very permissive attitudes when it came to children and gambling. From Bingo, everywhere, to poker and bourré at the annual Union picnic and Saturday nights, to the birdcage crap games at the church bazaars, and back, we gambled together as a family both with and against one another. Often, but not always, my parents funded my forays through loans.

I was also taught to gamble wisely -- to pick my spots and manage my money. The couple of times I got cleaned out, well that was just part of it. I received little sympathy when Joe Namath and his Jets beat Unitas and his unbeatable Colts in that Superbowl (and all of my paper route money from the summer and fall sat sitting in the bookie's till) but the overriding sentiment was that this was a good time for me to learn and retain the lessons about the true nature of can't miss bets -- tough, but necessary, studying, for a twelve year old, but, believe me, I got it.

I would tell you what my parents both knew -- gambling would teach me important lessons about wagering but also essential knowledge which would extend far into every aspect of my life as a Biloxi Boy -- lessons that not only did I need to learn but had to learn, if I was going to remain in the world I was in. Good thing, too, because I never left.
 
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My first gambling was at Catholic school and I think they gambled from first grade on. Moms would bake cakes or a tray of cupcakes and they would be raffled off. Didn't take me long to notice the poorest kids in the classroom were heavy winners on these deals! We lagged coins, dropped marbles, all sorts of gambling at the Catholic schools.

There have been pushy parents in every endeavor. I remember boys who couldn't play unless they were quarterback or pitcher, whomever was seen as the leader or star. I thought it was sad, a boy wanted to play first base. I was there when the dad told the boy he pitched or he didn't play.

I have to agree with maha. You think you are gambling on a pool table? Go sit down at a bank and bet everything you own and many years of hard work against a hundred thousand or a few hundred thousand to open a small business, probably more like a million now. I did make a huge bet on a pool table once when I figured the odds were my way. As a young man I didn't look at it as the money wagered but the five years of hard work I had tied up in making that money.

Keith seems to have been his own boss more than parents forcing him down a path. I can understand that being my own boss from the age of twelve. I got my driver's license the day I turned fifteen and many of my pool stories occurred long before I was legal age.

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Twin sons of separate mothers my friend.
 
playing you have winners and losers usually almost determined before the game starts.
gambling, the winners are also determined before the game starts. and it isnt the same winners as above.

as i think i said before, ive only played two people in my whole life not for any money. both are on the forum and friends.
gamblers are gamblers. and non gamblers are non gamblers. both have different thoughts on it.
Most successful gamblers I know are extremely smart people capable of reading the room and have the lock way b4 the first coin is wagered. Take as much of the element of chance as possible out of the equation beforehand.
 
Most successful gamblers I know are extremely smart people capable of reading the room and have the lock way b4 the first coin is wagered. Take as much of the element of chance as possible out of the equation beforehand.
The only gambling lesson I ever needed, was the only one my Dad ever gave. He said "scared money never bets. If you're afraid to, or can't afford to lose it, best just keep it in your pocket."
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RIP Pops.
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received little sympathy when Joe Namath and his Jets beat Unitas and his unbeatable Colts in that Superbowl

Tell me about it....Jim Kelly and his 4 in a row SB appearances ended my NFL gambling career! That's when I figured out the game was fixed o_Oand I won't put another dime on it. 😶‍🌫️
 
Im not judging them. I wonder in general if it's unethical and what the pros and cons are for a kid.

If I recall correctly the documentary presented it as unethical. And I wondered.. Is it?

Making a kid play money games with the money he earned selling lemonade: unethical. But if you give money and then obligate to play money games.. Is that unethical?
No.
 
I'd love to see the documentary about Keith McCready.

Keith grew up in a loving Irish family and had two older brothers. The family moved from Illinois to California when they were very young. Unfortunately, Keith's mother passed away from breast cancer when Keith was 10. His father never quite got over it and turned to drink.

Keith and his brothers used to gamble their allowance money in the basement on a bumper pool table. When Keith was introduced to a big pool room as a child by his father, he would sit quietly and watch the good players gamble. He studied their moves and learned all games of pocket billiards, and back then in the '60s, gambling was the norm in a pool room, unlike today's tournament soldier culture. The older players took Keith under their wing and introduced him to the art of gambling. Eventually, he'd rather stay in the pool room with his pool family than go home, and soon he was beating the older players at their own game.

When California State got wind of a child gambling and sleeping in a pool room under the tables at night rather than going home, they removed him from his father due to negligence, I guess, and made him a ward of the state. Fortunately, Bob Wallace, the owner of Bob's Billiards, was very fond of Keith and petitioned to adopt him, and he then gave Keith a good home with three squares and a bedroom at night. Pool at this juncture—and gambling—was very much a part of Keith's way of life.

Was it unethical for Keith's father or his foster dad to give Keith monery for gambling? Well, it depends on who you ask, I guess. Keith is who he is today because of it, and those who know Keith well enjoy having him as their friend. His empathy and love for fellow man, whether rich or poor, old or young, is Keith's best trait, a trait which actually developed from seeing the good, the bad, and the oh-so-ugly side of gambling.

Photo below of 12-year-old Keith in a straight pool exhibition with Cowboy Jimmy Moore. Keith ran 37 balls, and Jimmy closed him out in 4 innings because, according to Keith, Jimmy didn't want to lose to him. Ah, the world according to Keith. Keith said he did get to 70 points. Bobby Wallace is directly behind Keith with his hand underneath his chin. Bobby owned Bob's Billiards in Anaheim, California, the pool room where Keith grew up. Bobby also ended up adopting Keith to keep him from living in a foster home as a ward of the state. Keith is shooting with Bobby's Gina cue

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Love that pic. I first saw Keith play when he was 15 or 16. He was already playing with the big boys at the Billiard Palace in Bellflower, CA. I'm talking Ronnie, Richie, Eddie Burton, Jimmy Reid, Grady, Bob Ogburn, Jimmy Marino and even the owner Vern Peterson, the California Straight Pool champion. I never heard him complain about his father or anything else. He just wanted to play, play, play and play some more. And he just kept getting better. By age 18, he may have been the best 9-Ball player on the planet! That's all. Only Richie could beat him (sometimes) and they didn't play anymore. Most people don't know that Keith spotted Efren the eight ball when he first arrived in the USA (he thought he was Mexican) and beat him at the Orange County Sports Arena.

I guess I've known Keith forever and we've been down a lot of roads together. He's always lived life to the fullest and taken it one day at a time. Never one to look back or worry too much about the future. Give him a cue, a beer and an opponent and he was happy!

P.S. I only wanted to add one interesting factoid to the above. Bobby Wallace and I were born on the same day, July 19, 1944. We were exactly the same age and we both played an important role in Keith's life, Bobby much more than me. Bob Wallace was a helluva man in my book!
 
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I think it was in a video about Keiths life where I heard that his father, a pool room owner, gave Keith money to play money games against his dad.

Of course it's not great to expose a kid to gambling. But is it unethical? Would it be beneficial in some way to learn about losing and winning with money at stake at young age?
Biden pardoned his son. What’s the difference?
 
I'd love to see the documentary about Keith McCready.

Keith grew up in a loving Irish family and had two older brothers. The family moved from Illinois to California when they were very young. Unfortunately, Keith's mother passed away from breast cancer when Keith was 10. His father never quite got over it and turned to drink.

Keith and his brothers used to gamble their allowance money in the basement on a bumper pool table. When Keith was introduced to a big pool room as a child by his father, he would sit quietly and watch the good players gamble. He studied their moves and learned all games of pocket billiards, and back then in the '60s, gambling was the norm in a pool room, unlike today's tournament soldier culture. The older players took Keith under their wing and introduced him to the art of gambling. Eventually, he'd rather stay in the pool room with his pool family than go home, and soon he was beating the older players at their own game.

When California State got wind of a child gambling and sleeping in a pool room under the tables at night rather than going home, they removed him from his father due to negligence, I guess, and made him a ward of the state. Fortunately, Bob Wallace, the owner of Bob's Billiards, was very fond of Keith and petitioned to adopt him, and he then gave Keith a good home with three squares and a bedroom at night. Pool at this juncture—and gambling—was very much a part of Keith's way of life.

Was it unethical for Keith's father or his foster dad to give Keith monery for gambling? Well, it depends on who you ask, I guess. Keith is who he is today because of it, and those who know Keith well enjoy having him as their friend. His empathy and love for fellow man, whether rich or poor, old or young, is Keith's best trait, a trait which actually developed from seeing the good, the bad, and the oh-so-ugly side of gambling.

Photo below of 12-year-old Keith in a straight pool exhibition with Cowboy Jimmy Moore. Keith ran 37 balls, and Jimmy closed him out in 4 innings because, according to Keith, Jimmy didn't want to lose to him. Ah, the world according to Keith. Keith said he did get to 70 points. Bobby Wallace is directly behind Keith with his hand underneath his chin. Bobby owned Bob's Billiards in Anaheim, California, the pool room where Keith grew up. Bobby also ended up adopting Keith to keep him from living in a foster home as a ward of the state. Keith is shooting with Bobby's Gina cue

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I always read that his sidearm style was developed because he started so young and that was the way to reach shots, but he looks conventional here...
 
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The only gambling lesson I ever needed, was the only one my Dad ever gave. He said "scared money never bets. If you're afraid to, or can't afford to lose it, best just keep it in your pocket."
Message received.
RIP Pops.
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That's one of the best I've heard in a long long time!!! Solid. Mad respect to your Pops!!👊🏻
 
That's one of the best I've heard in a long long time!!! Solid. Mad respect to your Pops!!👊🏻
Here was another one of my Dads more "affable" colloquialisms. I asked him ONCE, when I would begin to progress as a pool player. His response?

"When you get tired of racking."
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