Where does reality come into play when discussing one's mental game?
We see all this talk about improving your mental game but maybe the reason someone's mental game isn't very good to begin with is because they aren't honest with themselves when it comes to rating their own skill level.
This knife cuts both ways and it probably hurts me much more than it does those that I play with. Here's what I mean -- when it comes to assessing my own abilities I know where I really stand. I know that I'm not an elite player, although I am getting better and I'm beginning to believe in myself more and more but really my mental game is tied to what I KNOW I can do on the practice table and not some pretend version of myself -- the guy that never misses a ball and constantly runs out.
I play with some other guys that THINK they are much better than they actually are. What often happens is they get so frustrated with their game when they miss balls that I've seen them miss quite often. I always think to myself that I've seen them miss that shot so often why do they expect otherwise? But at the same time, these guys often times perform better in tournament settings than you would think they would. They come through and manage to run out some tables that they really weren't the favorite to complete. So in a sense being overconfident can be an advantage because these players think they should never miss a ball and they step to the table with that thought in their head.
I don't know really. I'm starting to think that having this overconfidence is probably a good thing when it comes to competing but it's a bad thing when it comes to improving. I suppose I care more about improving at this point but I sure could use a bit of their confidence at times.
We see all this talk about improving your mental game but maybe the reason someone's mental game isn't very good to begin with is because they aren't honest with themselves when it comes to rating their own skill level.
This knife cuts both ways and it probably hurts me much more than it does those that I play with. Here's what I mean -- when it comes to assessing my own abilities I know where I really stand. I know that I'm not an elite player, although I am getting better and I'm beginning to believe in myself more and more but really my mental game is tied to what I KNOW I can do on the practice table and not some pretend version of myself -- the guy that never misses a ball and constantly runs out.
I play with some other guys that THINK they are much better than they actually are. What often happens is they get so frustrated with their game when they miss balls that I've seen them miss quite often. I always think to myself that I've seen them miss that shot so often why do they expect otherwise? But at the same time, these guys often times perform better in tournament settings than you would think they would. They come through and manage to run out some tables that they really weren't the favorite to complete. So in a sense being overconfident can be an advantage because these players think they should never miss a ball and they step to the table with that thought in their head.
I don't know really. I'm starting to think that having this overconfidence is probably a good thing when it comes to competing but it's a bad thing when it comes to improving. I suppose I care more about improving at this point but I sure could use a bit of their confidence at times.
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