Hey AZB
Been playing pool seriously for about 2 years and I have reached a B/B+ level. I can beat the 9-ball ghost in a race to 7 quite often and I enjoy practicing for several hours. And of course I go to tournaments etc.
My problem is, that whenever I play a set with another player for practice, (we just play for the table time, 9-ball race to 9 or 11) I lose very often even by players who are significantly worse than me.
If I play a player who is better, I will do my best to play good and I usually do play good, but still, it is very hard to beat my opponent as he is better and I lose very often. Now if I play a player who is worse, I will usually be unfocused, or playing sloppy. And I will lose again. It is like I am not motivated enough to beat a player who is not as good as me when we are just practicing by playing for the table time.
But what am I supposed to do? I am trying to concentrate and play the table, not think who my opponent is etc. but I don't seem to have found out how just yet. Maybe I am still very inexperienced pool-mentality-wise, I don't know... on the other hand, I don't have this problem in tournament play. I got the motivation to win in order to advance and I usually beat a lesser player. But when I am approached by a lesser player who wants to play with me (I never say no to anyone of course) while I am practicing or just hanging around the pool room, I will play him and almost never win for the reasons I explained above. It's like I feel I have nothing to gain by beating a worse player in practice. I would actually prefer to practice straight pool alone and try to make a good run than play with another player. So in general, Lack of motivation ---> lack of concentration ---> almost certain defeat.
How can I treat that? Or I am just asking too much from myself for the brief time I have been playing pool?
I was like you for almost 27 years, never consistent during a match play, that is because i used to practice randomly without the advance knowledge in mind. I want to be frank with you, and please do not be upset. For anyone to miss
repeatedly during matches or money game usually do not have the required advance knowledge, or have it but cannot apply properly. Here is my advise to you:
Your goal should be:
Learn the advance knowledge of game (secrets)
Change to LD cue at first, when you master it, you can try HD cue, then house cues, learn your cue at all distances
Learn the true cause of why you miss, at times we blame on stroke other times on aim..etc. This critical for improvement
Since you still miss shots during matches, practicing 9 ball is not good enough, you need to shoot and master most of the 4000 shots possibilities in pool while at practice, and also during matches where possible, even if you loose try hard shots take notes if you miss.
Never practice with straight pool or 8 ball or one pocket until your shot making ability is raised to 98%, this is critical
Concentrate on harder shots larger than 1/2 ball cuts as much as you can
Know and record the best time you shoot good, or you think shoot good, try to know, something like, before meal, after smoke, before work, after work, free mind, wife is out of the way, kids out of the way, maybe when you leave pool for a day or so, what you find will help you guide your self thinking
Aim, lots of people do not agree with me, but i find that at times i do need more time to focus, so if you see your self miss, give more focus time
Never play for fun,
Have fun..