The more experienced, more advanced players sometimes expect and assume too much, especially of the real beginners, the SL2's and 3's. And sometimes stuff you guys just take for granted gets left out.
I agree with this. To be a great coach in a live match situation, you not only have to understand what the best shot is, but you must also know with great detail what your player's skill level really is.
Here are some of my personal experiences with coaching:
When my APA skill level reached the max, and I was basically precluded from playing on a "regular" team, I decided to start a new type of team. With the help of one other maxed out player, we started forming 8-ball teams consisting of two 7's, and five 2's. These were the most enjoyable APA teams I have ever participated in. We had to replace the 2's each season because all the 2's became 4's and 5's. It was GREAT!
Each league night, one of us would play, and the other would coach. We learned a lot from those seasons. Hopefully, our experiences will help other high-level players to become more effective coaches.
1. Most important: You must know the true skill level of your player. This includes their strengths, weaknesses, and personalities. When you approach the table to provide coaching advice during a match, stay relaxed and light-hearted. Feel free to explain what you believe would be the ultimate shot, but be sure to let them know that some of the other alternatives could still be very effective.
2. Communicate. Don't force a solution on them. Help them to find the appropriate solution by asking the right questions. For example, "How would you feel about trying to hit this ball and leaving the cue ball here?" LISTEN to their answer and adjust your recommendation as needed. If they end up dogging a shot they had little chance of successfully completing, they will not have a positive coaching experience, and may not be as receptive to advice in the future (especially when under pressure).
3. Be cooperative, not dictatorial. HELP them find an offensive or defensive shot that aligns with their current strengths and weaknesses, and perhaps offer a general strategy for the remainder of the game. If your player is a little uncomfortable with a proposed solution, but you believe they can successfully execute it, TELL THEM that. Offer encouragement and your full support, no matter which option they choose.. Tell them "I really believe you can do this, and it's worth a try, but if it doesn't work out perfectly, IT'S OKAY."
4. Be more aggressive in regular league play, and more conservative during tournaments/playoffs/end-of-season. Push them to try defensive or offensive shots that are a little bit beyond their skill level during regular league matches (and be sure they understand that it is OK if they don't quite get it right), but during more important matches, lean more towards the conservative side, and encourage to them shoot the easier shot if they are nervous, even if it is a bit less effective. If you explain the options well during league, then they will be receptive to having multiple options when the pressure is on. In fact, they will appreciate the opportunity to choose their option (with your guidance).
5. Try to remember each timeout during league night, and quickly and casually review the timeout with the player after the match. "Hey, remember when you asked me about banking that 3-ball? I was thinking we could try some of those options real quick so we can see which ones work best for you." Then spend a few minutes at the table, explaining to your player WHY certain options offer better potential or risk, and why others may be mediocre but somewhat effective.
6. Never criticize a shot you coached DURING a match. If they screw it up, smile and tell them, "It's okay, you were really close." Encourage them to stay positive and let them know you would be happy to work on it with them later.
7. My secret APA weapon: Sometimes, during a match, if your low-skill-level player is doing well, and everything is okay, but they begin to get a little nervous, call a timeout, and GO TALK TO THEM. "Hey, I just wanted to say, I'm impressed; you are really shooting great tonight. How are you feeling?" Don't be afraid of wasting a timeout for this. I have used this at all levels of play, from regular league night, to the National Championships, and it is very effective when used in a genuine, friendly, supportive way. There are no rules that say your timeout must discuss a specific shot.
8. Flip it. (similar to #7): When YOU are in a match, and come up with a cool solution to a layout problem or strategy, call a timeout, and ask your low-skill-level teammate to be YOUR coach. Discuss the situation, let them take a crack at a solution, then tell them what you were thinking, and ask them how they feel about it. This is GREAT for team-building and building trust between top players and low-skill-level players because there is absolutely NO pressure on them, but they get to analyze a real live match situation with a very experienced player. Plus, occasionally, you will discover a great move from the naivety of your rookie.
I hope some of these guidelines will help you. If you would like more detail on any of these, or more advice, please let me know. I'd be happy to help. I have a lot of ideas.
Best of luck, and HAVE FUN!
-Blake