Pool's Deepest Level of Competition - Learning From Defeat, and Our Own Negativity

Of course you want to beat the opponent,but ya have to beat the table at the same time. Sorta like Bobby Jones beating the Golf Course. He would go through all sorts of terrible fits of anger and finish 2 to 3 shots out, when he had it all won. Then it dawned on him,,he had to beat the Golf Course and put the rest of it out of his head. If ya can get into the zone and not miss, who's gona beat ya.
 
You used to value my opinion? Well, what the hell kind of existential bullshit is this? (See above)
We are competing against "us or them?" Who is them? Are they imaginary, or do they really exist?
"Own it, or it will own you" What are you talking about, the government or a credit union. None of this crap makes any sense.
Many of us are so disconnected from internal negativity that we can only see it's reflection.....through other people.
You're the one who needs to do some reflecting.

I AM reflecting .......
 
overcome and simply observe our mental activity

CJ,40 years ago, when on the roads all over, meditation was the very thing that helped bring my focused being into life. It was amazing in events, when someone would come up to me and ask about a certain shot that had taken place, and I had no recollection of what had transpired,,even though I had laid down rack after rack after rack after rack. Meditation was one of the key points for me,,and the focus on breathing is not lost,,though it's been along time since practiced.

Yes, I prefer the anapana mediation, and practice it 20 minutes, twice a day (before bed, and immediately upon rising).

It's refreshing to overcome and simply observe our mental activity isn't it?


'the GAME is the teacher'
 
Yes, I prefer the anapana mediation, and practice it 20 minutes, twice a day (before bed, and immediately upon rising).

It's refreshing to overcome and simply observe our mental activity isn't it?


'the GAME is the teacher'

CJ young man...If you are going to do it 'twice a day'..shouldn't you at least learn to spell it ? :confused:...Observing your 'mental activity'..should not take over a few seconds !..You could spend the other
19 minutes, learning to spell, and maybe also learn how to form a sensible dialogue with people !..
..(your thoughts do tend to wander off, ya know) ;)

PS.."Anapana"...Isn't that a brand of toothpaste ? :groucho:
 
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I AM reflecting .......


Well, reflect on your own time. We need you here, wide awake and alert.
For some reason we're short of Pro level advice, and experience, on this website so keep that existentialism in a bottle. Your input should be direct and understandable, so that even guys like me can benefit from your knowledge of the game and the people who play it, both currently and historically.
TOI does not mean Touch Of Insanity. ;)
 
How would you spell it. Dad?

CJ young man...If you are going to do it 'twice a day'..shouldn't you at least learn to spell it ? :confused:...Observing your 'mental activity'..should not take over a few seconds !..You could spend the other
19 minutes, learning to spell, and maybe also learn how to form a sensible dialogue with people !..
..(your thoughts do tend to wander off, ya know) ;)

PS.."Anapana"...Isn't that a brand of toothpaste ? :groucho:

How would you spell it. Dad?

I have a feeling you couldn't do it for more than a few minutes without a drink. LoL
 
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play all shots as if they're the same, and except the outcome.

In pool it can be difficult to see where your ownership in losing lies. If a guy breaks and runs a couple 3 packs in a race to 7 to win it can still be your fault for letting him to the table. After a loss I have learned the benefits of looking at it objectively. Mostly your poor safety play or taking risks in being too offensive is why your opponent had more opportunities. Pool is a game of opportunities for opportunists. You have to create your own opportunity to excel improve and win. To do it you need the skills. If you fail to practice you practice to fail.

I just played a big gambling match two days ago and the guy ran the first 3 racks. Then, he also had me 7/4 (going to 9) and didn't get to shoot again. My mind started getting negative a couple of times and I had to apply a conscious, mental technique to stay grounded. Without my knowledge of breathing and mediation I may have got frustrated because of the "rolls" and appearance of losing the set.

You just have to play one shot at a time, that's all we can ever do. And, also, try not to have any expectations, just play all shots as if they're the same, and except the outcome.
 
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