Of course you want to beat the opponent,but ya have to beat the table at the same time. Sorta like Bobby Jones beating the Golf Course. He would go through all sorts of terrible fits of anger and finish 2 to 3 shots out, when he had it all won. Then it dawned on him,,he had to beat the Golf Course and put the rest of it out of his head. If ya can get into the zone and not miss, who's gona beat ya.