A similar note in my mind and, being from a Navy family always living on the water I moved from up north/Colorado Springs and retired along the AK river, close to the Pueblo reservoir.
This man I met in our small town of 3,800, he found out I was the best player in Fremont county.
Because of that, HE wanted to hang and be cool/like me/tho I wasn't cool I was just me.
Hanging around criminals, made his actions were very similar to card players/pool player$ who are always trying to get in your pocket.
This man was a retired Supermax prison guard who heard I moved here, & tried to be my friend.
He'd been groomed/around inmates for 25 yr/Supermax Prison, similar to being in the Rack in Detroit in the 80's or in any place where you didn't have trust.
He had everything in life but the next thing.
He saw the boat I got, for my grandkids, and to be as good as me, in his WORLD he purchased a nice, small fishing boat with a good motor.
He had to have me over to show me his new/used boat, and when I looked it over, it was like the cue you have.
He purchased this boat knowing the lower unit had hit a rock, and BENT the lower unit 90 degrees.
I laughed silently knowing only to well, what was next.
One final note, we played pool ONE time, and he was thee only person since I began playing in 61-62 that would not play with rules/period.
That was very strange....now I only smile and acknowledge his presence when we cross paths.