Relationship Problems No More!

RBLilly

RBLilly

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As many of you know I ended my relationship and she was supposed to move out this weekend. Well she has finally moved out! She has about 99% of her crap out of here as of last night, and she is coming to finish the job this morning. The locks have been changed, and I am ready to start playing some serious pool! No ties, no commitments............I don't know if I will remember how to act! I have already started shooting a lot better since the break up, and I guess it is due to the no stress thing, but I guess we will see how good I play this week at league. Thanks for anyone who offered some advise to my relationship problems.

P.S. For the record I don't think she is going to be lonely she already spent the weekend with some 27 yr old Navy dude! So I guess she will be alright! :rolleyes:
 
I'm glad we could help. It seems to have gone better than we all thought. Now, don't do what I always do and take her back...no booty calls!
 
cuesblues said:
I'm glad we could help. It seems to have gone better than we all thought. Now, don't do what I always do and take her back...no booty calls!
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Nope no booty calls from her anyway! LOL
 
txplshrk said:
I have already started shooting a lot better since the break up, and I guess it is due to the no stress thing, but I guess we will see how good I play this week at league.
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Shark-man,
Good news. Now if you will just quit that damn day-job, my money will be on you at next year's U.S. Open.
 
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txplshrk said:
As many of you know I ended my relationship and she was supposed to move out this weekend. Well she has finally moved out! She has about 99% of her crap out of here as of last night, and she is coming to finish the job this morning. The locks have been changed, and I am ready to start playing some serious pool! No ties, no commitments............I don't know if I will remember how to act! I have already started shooting a lot better since the break up, and I guess it is due to the no stress thing, but I guess we will see how good I play this week at league. Thanks for anyone who offered some advise to my relationship problems.

P.S. For the record I don't think she is going to be lonely she already spent the weekend with some 27 yr old Navy dude! So I guess she will be alright! :rolleyes:
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Sounds like it's time to make it up to the Waco $50 Mid Level 9ball Tournament!

Ray
 
txplshrk said:
As many of you know I ended my relationship and she was supposed to move out this weekend. Well she has finally moved out! She has about 99% of her crap out of here as of last night, and she is coming to finish the job this morning. The locks have been changed, and I am ready to start playing some serious pool! No ties, no commitments............I don't know if I will remember how to act! I have already started shooting a lot better since the break up, and I guess it is due to the no stress thing, but I guess we will see how good I play this week at league. Thanks for anyone who offered some advise to my relationship problems.

P.S. For the record I don't think she is going to be lonely she already spent the weekend with some 27 yr old Navy dude! So I guess she will be alright! :rolleyes:
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Who gives a rats azz who she is banging? Don't have another thought about it my friend. Think how this is giving you a chance to be you without any pressure to be somebody else. Hallelujah brother !!!!!!!!
It's growth time. You must have been praying about this a lot because this in going to be a big one. Be who you are, do the best you can and be as honest as you can. Some day when the time is right, bam!! you are going to meet somebody who will accept you and love you for who you really are. Someone that you will grow together with and not apart.
You get what's called unconditional love and learn how to give it. When you get that, you won. That's the grand prize! There is no more better place to be. ;)
Purdman :cool:
 
Williebetmore said:
Shark-man,
Good news. Now if you will just quit that damn day-job, my money will be on you at next year's U.S. Open.
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Well many a job ruined great pool players..........or something like that.

I am an RF Engineer by trait, and a pool player by choice! LOL

I will play in whatever I can, but I am not quitting my day job.............it keeps my belly full! LOL Besides I still have college holding me back too, and I don't plan to quit that until I get my masters.
 
Purdman said:
Who gives a rats azz who she is banging? Don't have another thought about it my friend. Think how this is giving you a chance to be you without any pressure to be somebody else. Hallelujah brother !!!!!!!!
It's growth time. You must have been praying about this a lot because this in going to be a big one. Be who you are, do the best you can and be as honest as you can. Some day when the time is right, bam!! you are going to meet somebody who will accept you and love you for who you really are. Someone that you will grow together with and not apart.
You get what's called unconditional love and learn how to give it. When you get that, you won. That's the grand prize! There is no more better place to be. ;)
Purdman :cool:
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I don't really give a crap who she is doing either, but I had to post that for anyone in here that knows her, and might think that I am the bad guy in the situation.

I hate being the bad guy! Besides her other 3 hubbys couldn't last more than a 1 1/2, and I lasted 5. I guess that is a record for her! Or at least taught me some patience. Or maybe I was just stupid. I don't really know. LOL

I know what you mean about finding the right one, and trust me one day God will place that right in my lap!

I know that I am good to go, and I am ready to close that chapter of the book and get on to bigger and better things!

Wonder if Scott Lee will be in TX anytime soon? LOL
 
txplshrk said:
I don't really give a crap who she is doing either, but I had to post that for anyone in here that knows her, and might think that I am the bad guy in the situation.
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One can never be faulted for putting their own happiness over another's. I'm very happy this ended well for you man. Life is too short to be with someone if you're not able to be happy!
 
Bastian said:
One can never be faulted for putting their own happiness over another's. I'm very happy this ended well for you man. Life is too short to be with someone if you're not able to be happy!
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Thanks! I appreciate that greatly!
 
Bastian said:
One can never be faulted for putting their own happiness over another's. I'm very happy this ended well for you man. Life is too short to be with someone if you're not able to be happy!
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You right, it is too short, but the syndrome is that people are usually happy in the beginning, although there may be 1 or 2 'little things', and over time when the sex calms down some, life comes in more, routine day in day out, the
'unhappiness' manifests itself when those 1 or 2 little things become much bigger and more often, but the plain fact of it is most people getting divorced today were not committed to their partners 100% to begin with, maybe to themselves, and marriage takes 'working together' as a team to solve problems, whatever they be.

As you get older, you tend to lean towards someone that you can talk to, get along with, and that means domestically on a daily basis, get laid when you have the urge, and not have your life filled with ongoing hassles, and that is committed and has faith in you, and still believes you are human.
 
Snapshot9 said:
You right, it is too short, but the syndrome is that people are usually happy in the beginning, although there may be 1 or 2 'little things', and over time when the sex calms down some, life comes in more, routine day in day out, the
'unhappiness' manifests itself when those 1 or 2 little things become much bigger and more often, but the plain fact of it is most people getting divorced today were not committed to their partners 100% to begin with, maybe to themselves, and marriage takes 'working together' as a team to solve problems, whatever they be.

As you get older, you tend to lean towards someone that you can talk to, get along with, and that means domestically on a daily basis, get laid when you have the urge, and not have your life filled with ongoing hassles, and that is committed and has faith in you, and still believes you are human.
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That sounds pretty good actually! Know where I can find one of them? LOL
 
This couldn't ring more true.. my first marriage was a disaster, but I stayed in it for the kids. I knew exactly what I wanted by the end of that one, and commited myself to settling for nothing less. Two years into marriage number 2, and I find myself more and more content with life every day. A partner should be a friend, someone you enjoy doing the most boring of life's chores with. Find someone with whom you enjoy everything more when you're together, and it can withstand the trials life will abuse you with.
 
txplshrk said:
P.S. For the record I don't think she is going to be lonely she already spent the weekend with some 27 yr old Navy dude! So I guess she will be alright! :rolleyes:
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Doesn't take leeches usually long to find another....

Shane
 
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