its only happened to me 3 times, yesterday was one of them. anyone could have beat me I couldnt play the pain was too much so i just gave her the match, to answere the question.....no not at all, loseing sucks period, i play the table and not the player.
flip side of the coin when I beat a girl I actually feel bad about it, unless they are a pro. I played Mary Kenniston alot when she was on tour in the earily 90's and we pllayed even, that was a tough game-we didnt play for $$$. I didnt feel bad about beating her, but other girls who arnt pros that try their best then yeah i feel bad.
What I cant figure out is why do men play better than the girls?