Tomorrow I'm free!!!!!!!

Jaden

"no buds chill"
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As of tomorrow, my deal with my wife to not do anything pool related more than two days a week for the rest of the year is officially over.


I'm looking ofrward to going and playing in the Hardtimes firsst of the month tourney on Sunday.

Jaden
 
TheNewSharkster said:
Is this a "why not to get married" topic?

:eek: :thumbup:


<<<-----married to a tax attorney, but I guess that's a "why I got married" topic :p ;) :thumbup:

2 days a week is more than enough for me, but try to limit golf related activities and we'd have a BIG problem.
 
Not exactly.....

TheNewSharkster said:
Is this a "why not to get married" topic?

:eek: :thumbup:


However, it is good evidence why a pool player should make sure they are with another pool player.....

Jaden
 
Yeah....

When I first started dating her, I straight up told her that I would always be a pool player and that I would never give up playing pool.....

Things were fine for the first few years and then she started to get tired of pool being one of the only things that I talked about.

Pool is the second most addictive thing I've ever done, and I've done a lot....

Jaden.

If you have to ask what the most addictive thing I've ever done is, then it won't make sense to you if I tell you....
 
Jaden said:
However, it is good evidence why a pool player should make sure they are with another pool player.....

Jaden


Be careful what you wish for. I have seen some problems with this sort of thing when a husband and wife play on the same league team.
 
husband and wife shouldn't play ANYTHING competitive together (even if they are on the same team). Being hard on yourself for not performing is one thing.....
 
Hey.....

trustyrusty said:
husband and wife shouldn't play ANYTHING competitive together (even if they are on the same team). Being hard on yourself for not performing is one thing.....


I never said anything about playing on the same league or team....

I just said that to understand they should be pool players or even have something that they are equally obsessed about themselves so that they understand...

Jaden
 
So, Jaden, did you renegotiate for 2009? If not, my dim understanding of the female/spousal mind is that you absolutely are NOT entitled to MORE time in the absence of new agreement!:D

Good luck ... I, too, am always in such "negotiations." But I find they are always conveniently forgotten. The best rule I have found in such is cases is it's easier to beg forgiveness than grovel for permission.
 
Absolutely.....

Travis Bickle said:
So, Jaden, did you renegotiate for 2009? If not, my dim understanding of the female/spousal mind is that you absolutely are NOT entitled to MORE time in the absence of new agreement!:D

Good luck ... I, too, am always in such "negotiations." But I find they are always conveniently forgotten. The best rule I have found in such is cases is it's easier to beg forgiveness than grovel for permission.

The problem started when I said that if she let me go on one Sunday to play someone that I would not do anything pool related for the rest of the year....

(today is the end of the year) Then she said that she didn't want to hold me to that, so I could do pool related things twice a week with the exception of weekends. (that had to be family time)

Now she may claim that the allowance of the two days allows the agreement to extend beyond the end of the year, but that ain't gonna fly with me)

I said the rest of the year and that's what I meant.

Jaden

p.s. That's what I meant if she lets me get away with it. LOL.....
 
Hey wait a minute my wife of 28 years is the team captain of our APA 9ball team and she got us to Vegas, and we might be headed there again this year. It's nice to share something I love so much with someone I love so much and we very rarely argue over a match win or lose ( it is a game ) not the end of the world if you lose. She never fusses when I go to DCC or US Open for three or four days since she see's how much I love pool, I even drive her Denali to Louisville every year.---Lucky Leonard
 
Luck with your new deal or no deal. I forget, have you got kids, Jaden? If not, hey, you can play all ya want! It's a "don't do the crime if you can't do the time" sort of thing, I guess.:wink:
 
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