No different if you are married. Lately every time I buy a new cue, my wife rolls her eyes, but then before you know it she picks it up to shoot some with it and says it's hers. So I just buy another one, but I am going to get smart the next time and buy an ugly one that hopefully plays good and maybe then she won't pick it up to try.
By the way, she did the same thing with the Rhino shaft I bought to try on my Schon. When I got it, I had just come down with covid, so while she was trying to stay away from me, she went downstairs to play some pool and put my new shaft on her cue. Next thing you know she took it to pool league that night and won the match with it. When she got home, I asked how she liked the shaft and was told to buy another one if I wanted one.
Only you know if you should get another cue, it's got nothing to do if you actually need it.