I SUFFER from Performance Anxiety

I'm sure almost all the posts will be the same here, play out more. Find some tournaments, play in some cheap games (for practice we usually play $5, 10$ races to 5 which is not enough to get you nervous about losing but enough that you want to win), but above all, play when it counts for something.

You may also want to play in front of people more, that tends to put some extra thoughts in your mind and gives you an evironment much like a league or tournament. Sooner or later you will learn to keep your mind on the contact point and stoke rather than "oh my god there are 6 people watching me shoot this, don't miss" that is probably going through your head when you fall apart during a match.
 
I've read a lot of good advice here and I'd like to echo all of it, but I will put it in different words.

I think the problem of "Performance Anxiety" stems from our natural tendency to want to control everything that happens in a match. We are taught that we have to control the cue ball in order to play well. That's not bad advice, but it's not entirely correct, either. What if something that is definitely out of our control occurs that diminishes our ability to control the cue ball? Something like: un-level table, bad cloth, dead rails, dirty balls, heavy cue ball, tight spaces? And what about the mental interferences that are out of our control? Things from our opponents like: sharking, bad racking, poor sportsmanship?

When we really think about it, there is very little that we actually have control of, so why do we try to control everything? We will always get better results when we stop trying to FORCE things to happen to our own satisfaction, and just LET them happen naturally.

This is all explained in Bob Fancher's book, Pleasures of Small Motions.

Roger
:D (For you, Spidey Dave)
 
8up, I had the same problem, only mine went deeper: I couldn't even walk INTO a place to play alone.:o If you can read through this long story, it may help you to think of me when you shoot, and know that you will never muff up like this .... ever.

I was talked into doing a tournament. At a biker bar. For money. And the person who invited me to play (saying it would be good experience), didn't show up for about 45 minutes after I'd already signed up. I'd been playing this game for fun for 6 months. I've been playing 7 months now, and I truly do live up to my nickname, 'Banger Sister'.

Nerves? Big Time. Voices in my head? Rock concert loud. Audience? 50 heads swivel to check out the new chick who lost the break on a coin toss. Thank God.

Did it get ugly? OH YES. :eek:

He broke, ran a couple of balls, I got up to shoot. There was a clump of balls around the 8 that stayed put. I had solids, and only one good shot, which I took and made, but the CB rolled into that clump in the middle. (Note to self: learn to control whitey).

Well, there was a nice cut shot to the side, and as I was lining it up I got this boost of confidence. I had made this shot a few times and thought I could get things going again. I took the shot, and it went in allright.........

AND THE WHOLE BAR GOT DEAD QUIET.:confused:

My opponent walked over and said real soft: "Next time you shoot, you might want to use the Cue Ball.":yikes::yikes:

I had lined up on the 9 ball, which was in the clump with the stripe barely showing, and shot that into the solid which went in. I turned around and yep, there was the CB in the clump and the 9 sitting all shiny and lonely by itself!

Does it get any worse than that? I can't think of anything except tripping and ripping my shirt off on the way down.;)

After that, I said to myself that I will never be as ridiculous as that again no matter what I do or how easy a shot I miss and the nervousness flew away. The rest of the game fell easily and I won by sinking the 8 with his 2 balls left on the table.

Once you're mortified in front of a crowd, the rest is gravy. A few weeks later and I'm walking into places alone, playing alone and with whoever wants to play, I am focused and never think of what goes on around me. It's just me and the table, and everything else is insignificant. Maybe I'm lucky, but that little faux pas made a huge difference in my game.:thumbup2:
 
Another good book to check out on the mental game, The Pro Book. Don't recall the author but I read it a few times. And The Monk has some neat writings about the mental side of the game.

I've read a lot of good advice here and I'd like to echo all of it, but I will put it in different words.

I think the problem of "Performance Anxiety" stems from our natural tendency to want to control everything that happens in a match. We are taught that we have to control the cue ball in order to play well. That's not bad advice, but it's not entirely correct, either. What if something that is definitely out of our control occurs that diminishes our ability to control the cue ball? Something like: un-level table, bad cloth, dead rails, dirty balls, heavy cue ball, tight spaces? And what about the mental interferences that are out of our control? Things from our opponents like: sharking, bad racking, poor sportsmanship?

When we really think about it, there is very little that we actually have control of, so why do we try to control everything? We will always get better results when we stop trying to FORCE things to happen to our own satisfaction, and just LET them happen naturally.

This is all explained in Bob Fancher's book, Pleasures of Small Motions.

Roger
:D (For you, Spidey Dave)
 
http://www.drstankovich.com/

One of the contributing columnist at AZ, Dr. Chris Stankovich is a sports psychologist has created an audio download called "Mind of Steel" for pool. It has several useful techniques plus more to help with the psychology of pool. I bought the download and it was very informative.

Darryl
 
Congrats 8up, I pleased to say that you are half way to overcoming this "issue" simply by admitting there is a problem. Now we need to setup a plan of action. I believe the Boston Method http://www.bostonmethod.com/ can and will work for you. Open your mind and let those creative juices flow.
 
I had MAJOR performance anxiety for the first 2-3 weeks of my league session. I wasn't at all used to playing with 14 sets of eyes watching my every move. But after I'd lost a few matches, seen teammates lose some, and generally got comfortable with the environment and protocol, the major stuff largely went away. (I do however still get some during very important matches).

So the major stuff - sweating, trembling, muscle weakness and stiffness, heart beating faster etc. - went away.

What didn't - and hasn't - gone away is the more minor symptoms of stress due to being watched/evaluated combined with the pressure of being expected to win at something.
I'm talking about muscle tension/stiffness, stiff/tense cue action, lack of smoothness, inconsistency, and a certain amount of mental fogginess - where you don't consider the shot in as much detail as you normally would because you just want to get the damned thing over with!

I've discovered I play my best under two conditions, and ideally a combination of the two:

a) when I am being watched only by the other player
b) when nothing is at stake in the game (no league point, no tourney, no money, nothing)

In such situations I can play like I am a totally different person than when I play league. The other night I was practising alone in a billiard hall and I was running a lot of balls, playing and stroking smoothly, almost effortlessly. Good shot selection. Moving around the table quickly and confidently. Knocking in bank shots I wouldn't dare attempt on league night. Everything just seemed to be working in harmony.
No muscle tension or weakness, thus totally relaxed stance and cue action, everything smooth, fluid and consistent, brain feeling good and totally focused on the shots.
That's how I'd like to be when playing league. In an ideal world, that's how I SHOULD be. But somehow the old grey matter gets in the way.

I can get the same feeling when playing for no stakes against an opponent. A while back I played against a guy I knew was way better than me, but I was totally relaxed, felt good, and no one was watching us. I had no stakes at all on the match - and that fact that he was expected to win made it even easier - the pressure was on him! I totally stuffed him the first three games. It must have got to him as after that he stepped up several gears and I didn't get a look-in after that. But the point is, when totally relaxed and with nothing at stake, I can play my best, which is several notches above how I typically play on league night. Guys who are rated or considered better than me in the league, I can beat in off-hand games (sometimes quite comfortably).

I had a similar experience playing a tournament (my first, actually). I'd already shelled out the best part of 100 bux to enter, so I felt I had nothing to lose. That money had already gone, now I was playing for pride and fun. I was undoubtedly one of the weakest players in the tourney, maybe even the weakest, but I had nothing to lose so I played my heart out, making a number of high ball-runs under pressure. I came out of the tournament with a good feeling, and feeling that I understood a little more about competitive pool, the mental game, and how to approach these things. Plus more experience. Experience is a great calmer.

My advice is: play as much competitive pool as you can - local tourneys, small stakes, or similar. Keep the entry fees or stakes small, but play a lot. Just as the more experienced players above said, you'll be surprised how much doing this can help. Keep those observing you to a minimum.

I can't promise this will take the nerves away (see above), but it will certainly calm you down so you can play a lot better.
 
You just need more confidence in you shot making abilty. In practice all of your normal shots should go in 100% of the time. So when you are playing, all of your normal shots should go in 98 or 99% of the time. Dont worry, you are going to miss, its normal , dont worry about it, part of the game. Now play the table, not the player, not the leage, not the tounament.
 
i posted something similar a few weeks back and the responses were pretty much the same. I took everything everyone said and tried it out.

I brought my MP3 player with me popped it in and tried to drown everyone out, it helped ALOT. I did that 2 days then went down to the pool hall the next time without the MP3 i went a little before it usually gets busy and just played... as it got busier and busier i noticed i was still able to block out some of what was going on around me.

When i saw people were watching it didnt bother me as much. If i felt i was starting to get a little anxiety i stopped grabbed a sip of my water and got back on the table. Since i started really trying to just concentrate on my game and not whats going on around me i have been running more and more balls and playing alot better.

1 other thing to remember is the other people watching probably arent much better than you, so if you miss a shot don't get upset...they probably would have missed it too! and if they are stupid enough to say something to you about it, tell them to rack em!! :)
 
If people truly understood what an anxiety attack is, they'd never give some of this feel good fluff advice.

If it isn't truly anxiety issues, then just take the advice. If it's truly anxiety attacks, see your doctor.

Fred <~~ lifelong anxiety sufferer
 
Thank you all for great advice. Small money games I think would help if I could afford to lose more than what I am already spending for league.

I should have said I have anxiety problems even when not playing pool. I take Xanax daily just not right before league. Maybe it would help to adjust my schedule. Other than that only more experience will help I guess.

Trying not to think about the anxiety is like saying "don't look down" :grin:

I'll bookmarked the links. (Boston method LOL)

Thanks everyone
 
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Pfizer needs a new mix of chemicals Viagra won't help my problem. I shoot good at home and good before league starts. Then league starts and I have problems running more than 2 balls at a time. I miss shots I make 90% of the time when not playing in league. I blow position by miles and miss some shots by 8". The game before league I broke and ran at 8-ball. League starts and all shots become shaky. I find a way to lose if I even get close to winning. This just makes my anxiety worse and it snow balls.

After my break & run before league started. I find out they have we may not even have enough players showing up and OH we are not playing there but away. This was after I ordered my 1 beer (my limit) tipped the waitress and stuck $2 in the jukebox.

While this may seem like nothing to some people it was enough to start the anxiety problems for the night. Part of the reason I joined a league was try to get over my anxiety around people. Next week I might resort to using Xanax before league. If that doesn't work I will have to go back to the basement until break and run is the norm

ok my tale of a serious problem or a pity party is over.

Ron


If it's one of the first times you're playing in a league, or a tournament, or for money, or maybe just playing someone you'd REALLY like to beat, chances are you're going to experience the pounding heart and sweaty shaking hands syndrome -- that's just normal. (You may also cease to mentally function and just experience brain lock :-) The solution is really pretty simple: repeatedly put yourself in the same situation until the unusual becomes normal. Eventually, you'll walk up to the table to shoot the money ball just as relaxed as you would take a stroll through the park. A good thing to do is to understand the psychological side of playing pool and for this I recommend Dr. Faucher's "Pleasures of Small Motions."

The second part of what's going on revolves around unrealistic expectations. This boils down to simply believing that it is within your ability to make shots that you cannot. The problem for most of us is that we watch the pros in person, or on television, or perhaps on an Accu-Stats tape, and we see the good players at our local room and they make it look so easy. They make it look *so* easy we lose sight of how crushingly difficult the game actually is and we become disappointed in ourselves when we can't do this simple thing. I recall watching Willie Mosconi run a 100 and I literally rushed to my pool hall thinking, "Well, that's so easy -- anyone should be able to do that!" Of course when I got there and couldn't run more than 10 balls...

And then in practice, in the absence of pressure or distractions, we set up our easiest and favoritest shots, on our preferred table, and fall into a selective memory trap, remembering the shots we whip in (with BIH) and forgetting how many times me missed it or blew the position. From this stems a totally unrealistic set of personal expectations. The next time you think you're "running racks," pay closer attention. Are you really breaking and running out? Or are you just spreading the balls around the table with no clusters, or balls on the rail? Are you starting with an easy BIH? Are you really doing it repeatedly? After all, think of all the shots you'd have to have mastered to do it consistently. It's one thing to break them, sinking a bunch of balls, having a wide open spread, and being perfect for your first shot. It's another for the balls to bunch up, with several on the rail, and a long thin cut to start off with...

A few days ago I gave a lesson to a guy who was beating himself up saying, "I can't make a ball today." I had been watching him play and told him that one thing every good pool player has is good probability and risk assessment skills. Setting up a moderately difficult cut shot he had missed in a match, I asked him if he thought he should be able to make it. He said, "Of course." I told him that I guessed he was actually something like one in five for the shot AND if he tried shooting it with the position that he had attempted during the match, he was more like one in 12. He looked at me like I was nuts and I told him to go ahead and shoot it without position -- to just cinch the ball.

One in six.

The third part of the breakdown is getting into a pressure situation and just trying too hard -- unconsciously changing our pre-shot routine and stroke mechanics. In trying to be more careful and precise in our execution, we change the way we shoot -- often times, the changes are subtle, but significant enough to throw off our alignment and stroke. I believe everything from the pre-shot routine to finally pulling the trigger :-) is an organic whole. In other words, you can't just say I'm going to use a certain bridge, a certain grip, with a certain stance and head position. It's also the movements you employ to get into your stance and the motions you employ during your pre-shot routine that impact the final outcome. When we slow down and try to be more careful, everything gets altered. The answer here is to pay attention to the motions and rhythms that work best for you in practice and try as best you can to stick with them in actual play.

Lastly, as we're mid-match and we realize "the wheels are coming off" and we watch them go spinning merrily down the road, we start to think negatively. The mind becomes filled with questions: "Man, why am I playing so bad?" "What am I doing wrong?!" "Why me?!" Of course every bad roll we get (and every good roll our opponent gets) contributes to the toxic sludge that starts coming out our ears. The real problem here is that in thinking about these things, we stop thinking about the shots and our execution. Instead of thinking, "I need to be careful about hitting this shot too hard and may have to apply a bit more english to compensate coming off the rail" we're still thinking about the last shot we blew. Think about the bad stuff after the match, not during.

So here's the thing: playing good pool is hard. Real hard. Playing good pool under pressure is even harder. To compete successfully in the arena you have to step into the arena as often as you can until it becomes your second home. And, you need to have a realistic set of expectations about yourself and your game. Playing good pool demands perfect, consistent precision -- not just once or twice, but on every shot. And to do that, you must have developed a body of knowledge and muscle memory that takes years of play to achieve. It's hard work, concentration, study, experimentation, and hitting thousands upon thousands of balls. And lastly, you have to have your head on straight and a clear thinking mind...

Lou Figueroa
 
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Pfizer needs a new mix of chemicals Viagra won't help my problem. I shoot good at home and good before league starts. Then league starts and I have problems running more than 2 balls at a time. I miss shots I make 90% of the time when not playing in league. I blow position by miles and miss some shots by 8". The game before league I broke and ran at 8-ball. League starts and all shots become shaky. I find a way to lose if I even get close to winning. This just makes my anxiety worse and it snow balls.

After my break & run before league started. I find out they have we may not even have enough players showing up and OH we are not playing there but away. This was after I ordered my 1 beer (my limit) tipped the waitress and stuck $2 in the jukebox.

While this may seem like nothing to some people it was enough to start the anxiety problems for the night. Part of the reason I joined a league was try to get over my anxiety around people. Next week I might resort to using Xanax before league. If that doesn't work I will have to go back to the basement until break and run is the norm

ok my tale of a serious problem or a pity party is over.

Ron

I have gone through the same things myself.

You can see why so many pool players turn to drugs but you don't need drugs.

Work on your mental game in practice.When you play focus on what you are doing and enjoy the doing not just the results.You can learn to ignore distractions by practicing your concentration.It is important to have fun but you don't have to make it look like you are just goofing off.Remember when it is your turn at the table nothing and no one else exists.Trying to shut out distractions by focusing on that person is futile so focus on the table.
 
Thank you all for great advice. Small money games I think would help if I could afford to lose more than what I am already spending for league.

I should have said I have anxiety problems even when not playing pool. I take Xanax daily just not right before league. Maybe it would help to adjust my schedule. Other than that only more experience will help I guess.

Trying not to think about the anxiety is like saying "don't look down" :grin:

I'll bookmarked the links. (Boston method LOL)

Thanks everyone

I was thinking this before You posted. And wondered if you sleep well . Not being able to shut the mind off not uncommon. Do you exercise ? eat right ? under stress ? These could all have a role in good mental health ?
 
I was thinking this before You posted. And wondered if you sleep well . Not being able to shut the mind off not uncommon. Do you exercise ? eat right ? under stress ? These could all have a role in good mental health ?

I sleep well once I can fall asleep. Exercise not really but stay busy. Eat right? probably not. under stress? is there another way?

But specifically the last 2 weeks when I have shot the worst in league have been while I was under more stress than usual and been working and busy more than normal. Which also worked out to less table time. This could be part of the ugly beast that appeared under pressure at league.
 
Pfizer needs a new mix of chemicals Viagra won't help my problem. I shoot good at home and good before league starts. Then league starts and I have problems running more than 2 balls at a time. I miss shots I make 90% of the time when not playing in league. I blow position by miles and miss some shots by 8". The game before league I broke and ran at 8-ball. League starts and all shots become shaky. I find a way to lose if I even get close to winning. This just makes my anxiety worse and it snow balls.

After my break & run before league started. I find out they have we may not even have enough players showing up and OH we are not playing there but away. This was after I ordered my 1 beer (my limit) tipped the waitress and stuck $2 in the jukebox.

While this may seem like nothing to some people it was enough to start the anxiety problems for the night. Part of the reason I joined a league was try to get over my anxiety around people. Next week I might resort to using Xanax before league. If that doesn't work I will have to go back to the basement until break and run is the norm

ok my tale of a serious problem or a pity party is over.

Ron

ron : don't be to hard on your self , we all fight different problems in our
game, unless your name is earl s or johnny a . i have read quite a few post
where people are struggleing with there game . my game is not so great
i may be a weak 5 or a good 4 not sure. my worst problem is not being consistent. wanted to tell you and anyone else that is interested that i am working on a few pratice drills to help build ones confidence level .
and bring up consistence level as well . to make this come togeather i am working on a scoreing system that will make it easy to track progress.
it may be a few days before i have it ready to post , be sure to check back later. johnQBS : anderson sc
 
If people truly understood what an anxiety attack is, they'd never give some of this feel good fluff advice.

If it isn't truly anxiety issues, then just take the advice. If it's truly anxiety attacks, see your doctor.

Fred <~~ lifelong anxiety sufferer

That's a good point Fred. If the OP (or anyone) has true anxiety problems outside of the adrenaline/nervous/everyone-is-watching kind of anxiety, then I doubt any of these suggestions are going to help.
 
Pfizer needs a new mix of chemicals Viagra won't help my problem. I shoot good at home and good before league starts. Then league starts and I have problems running more than 2 balls at a time. I miss shots I make 90% of the time when not playing in league. I blow position by miles and miss some shots by 8". The game before league I broke and ran at 8-ball. League starts and all shots become shaky. I find a way to lose if I even get close to winning. This just makes my anxiety worse and it snow balls.

After my break & run before league started. I find out they have we may not even have enough players showing up and OH we are not playing there but away. This was after I ordered my 1 beer (my limit) tipped the waitress and stuck $2 in the jukebox.

While this may seem like nothing to some people it was enough to start the anxiety problems for the night. Part of the reason I joined a league was try to get over my anxiety around people. Next week I might resort to using Xanax before league. If that doesn't work I will have to go back to the basement until break and run is the norm

ok my tale of a serious problem or a pity party is over.

Ron

Have another beer! And forget about everything but having a good time! :thumbup:
You'll be fine after that.
 
Propranolol. Ask your doctor for it. Tell him you have anxiety or that you give speeches at work. Take it an hour before your match. Paypal me $20 for the info, it's worth $500.
 
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