Put together it's about 58 inches, plus 1/4 inch for the bumper portion of the cue at the back. I also tried to measure the diameter of the tips of the shafts. I'm not good at measuring diameters with a ruler, but it appears that one is about 13mm, and the other about 14mm.
I think the weight is about 19 oz., but I have a friend with a scale that can weigh these kinds of things, so I'm planning to go over there tomorrow so I can weigh it.
I don't have any problem with an escrow service; seems like a rational way to proceed. It looks as if the escrow services cost about $100-$200, but as long as I can recoup my cost from several years ago including all other selling expenses/effort, I'm okay with that.
I understand the older Tascarella cues are very much in demand, so that's why I'm estimating that it should be worth over $3K, and I hope to get at least that much if I put it on eBay. But if someone's interested, make me an offer.
Also, let me know if you need more details, photos, measurements. I'll do the best I can in terms of trying to measure things.