Times 2Honestly, IMO (i know everyone else gave theirs)...you sent the money to Lee. Then, Lee sent you the cue. You aren't happy with the cue. Lee gave you a chance to send the cue back, and he will refund the cost of the cue plus shipping fees.
But you decided to publicly out Lee instead of trying to resolve it privately first.
I think the OP should owe Lee an apology for having this situation take the course of action that it did.
1 or 2 emails or PM's would have taken care of this problem, instead of bringing Paypal and the AZ community into this situation.
It appears that Lee was willing to make it right and the buyer hosed everything up by going to paypal.
Talk about making a mountain out of a molehill .....