so i'm the mysterious friend.
i want to thank Steve first off, for posting this. i'm kinda a n00b here, with only 2 trades, and Steve posting the question will likely get a better response, since he's widely known as a good guy. thanks, Steve!
and i want to thank Lou, who i know only via postings here, but i understand from those that he's as trustworthy as the day is long in midsummer, for what sounds like a good offer.
what i had been looking at is this set on Seybert's:
http://www.seyberts.com/products/Aramith_Super_Pro_Value_Pack-390-184.html
i don't care about the Rempe ball, but how does the rest of it compare with the ones from Lou? i have to admit some confusion with all the different versions of Aramith balls. one of the things i like about that set is that it comes with a measle ball, which my girlfriend really, Really covets. and there's no shipping cost.
my overall goal is this: i'm strictly a 14.1 player, and the rooms i get to most often have balls ranging from lousy to hideous, making breaking the rack open almost impossible. most of them have also been used for 9-ball for decades, so even the sets that Aren't totally mismatched (or crummy balls to start with) won't rack really tight as a result. so i want to end up with the best set i can find for straight pool, and one of those soft cases to carry it around.
i guess i hear y'all saying (and Steve in a pm) that Lou's offer is a good one. i'd just like to understand a little more before deciding what to do.
thanks again to everyone for chiming in!