I want to know how everyone on AZB deals with the majority of players you meet in bars. I ask this as a serious question because, I frankly can't stand some of the ignorance, disrespect and lack of pool etiquette i've encountered with some people. Is it ridiculous to want a decent rack if you're breaking? Why is the ball-in-hand rule such a big deal to people if it's your table in 8-ball?
I'm not much of a drinker, but I go to bars due to the relatively cheap cost of pool, light atmosphere, good tables, etc. I love to gamble and play even better when there's money on the line, but i'm almost to the point of where I don't want to play any schmoe joe for a free game because he'd rather argue with me about, "well this is the way i've played it for fifty years" or, "this isn't how this bar plays 8-ball" or, "how about we get a neutral racker since you're racking your own rack and you could be cheating" crap. I know patience is a virtue, but i'm on the edge and have been verbal with some of these players lately, simply because I feel like i've seen enough of it and would rather not even waste my time. On the other hand, I know not every person is the same, you should invite a new experience, and give someone the benefit of the doubt. Maybe my odds with strangers have been against me for too long and it always screams a bad game before it begins. AZB, how have you dealt with these types of situations? I'll even pull up Wiki pages on games like Eight-ball so my opponent can't argue with reality.
Edit: I just want to go out and say that I don't go asking for games, these are people that ask me for a game.
Edit #2: It seems that the most common advice is to not have such high expectations. I didn't know wanting a decent rack was one- I may be in a lot of trouble
I'm not much of a drinker, but I go to bars due to the relatively cheap cost of pool, light atmosphere, good tables, etc. I love to gamble and play even better when there's money on the line, but i'm almost to the point of where I don't want to play any schmoe joe for a free game because he'd rather argue with me about, "well this is the way i've played it for fifty years" or, "this isn't how this bar plays 8-ball" or, "how about we get a neutral racker since you're racking your own rack and you could be cheating" crap. I know patience is a virtue, but i'm on the edge and have been verbal with some of these players lately, simply because I feel like i've seen enough of it and would rather not even waste my time. On the other hand, I know not every person is the same, you should invite a new experience, and give someone the benefit of the doubt. Maybe my odds with strangers have been against me for too long and it always screams a bad game before it begins. AZB, how have you dealt with these types of situations? I'll even pull up Wiki pages on games like Eight-ball so my opponent can't argue with reality.
Edit: I just want to go out and say that I don't go asking for games, these are people that ask me for a game.
Edit #2: It seems that the most common advice is to not have such high expectations. I didn't know wanting a decent rack was one- I may be in a lot of trouble
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