So I never got formal lessons until the past year, and I wish I'd started earlier...
Instead of waiting til I have like 15 years of bad habits to fix :shocked:
I mentioned in some stream how much I enjoyed his instructional videos on Youtube.. Someone who knew him
mentioned he'd be in my area in the US in a few weeks. So I contacted him on facebook and set it up.
Ralph was staying with a family (all pool enthusiasts clearly, two of them entered the MD 14.1 tourney),
so I got to have a private lesson in their basement pool room, which was quite nice.
He's very personable and easygoing, and one thing I want to stress is he seems like a real instructor.
He's not just a pro player who will show you a few things.
He's more like an instructor who happens to play at pro speed.
How good does he play? Well for example, in the last US Open, Shannon Daulton had him down,
dry broke, Ralph ran out out game 8. Made a ball but opted to play safe game 9... got ball in hand, ran out.
Game 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 - all break'n'runs.
His high run in 14.1 is listed as 218 balls.
He asked right off the bat what I was looking to do and where I was at, and how often I practiced.
I said I seldom practiced, and when I did it was the ghost.
("that's not practice. That's a game!")
He warned me that if I'm around B speed and only playing ~3 nights a week, I may have reached my limit
unless I am willing to play more and practice regularly. "Though if there was ever a stretch where
you played like 5+ nights a week, you maybe can get away with less practice."
I told him I mostly just miss balls and don't get out when I should. Like decent position play, but
not able to handle it well when a medium-to-hard shot comes up (which it will even if you play
carefully... every so often you'll overrun shape or end up on the rail or both).
I expected he'd ask to shoot a rack or watch me hit balls but he went straight for drills and
just stood to the side to watch my mechanics. I like this approach... no time wasted just watching
him shoot, he hit only like 2 shots (both breaks) the whole time. For the rest of the 2 hours he'd
have me shoot and then offer feedback.
We opened with a simple test to see how straight I delivered the cue ball. We're all familiar
with the basic version which Dr. Dave calls "MOFUDAT", the most useful drill of all time.
The basic version is to put the CB on the spot, hit through the opposite spot, and have the CB return to your tip.
The advanced version Ralph did was to set up "goalposts"... two balls on opposite sides of the footspot,
and these balls are exactly 2 ball-widths apart. Then you hit the shot much more firmly through them,
trying to get the cue ball to come back through them to the head rail, then through the goal posts a 3rd time.
Unlike the basic version, this tests how your stroke holds up under a very firm swing.
Much easier to swing straight at lag speed, but you won't hit that 6 foot draw shot at lag speed.
I consistently went to the right so we detected I had a small hook from left to right.
My stroke is straight enough to make most shots at medium speed, but the hook will come up
if I must shoot hard (or very soft). I was able to finally pass that drill when I sort of consciously held my arm inward a bit.
I'll need to practice to straighten it out. Making even 1 out of 3 is pretty good.
Next he lined up a row of 15 balls across the center of the table, from side pocket to side pocket.
This is a speed control drill and will help with all position, not just the straight-ins.
He asked how many I would make shooting from the kitchen.
"Well gee, I think all of them? I mean, I should. Probably."
"OK, then let's try something a little more interesting, how many shooting from 1 diamond further away?"
"hrmmmm, I dunno, 12?"
And that was correct. So after doing a row of 15, Ralph showed me a series of drills that all start from this row of balls.
• Try doing a perfect stop shot on each. You will notice it's almost impossible. Eventually I got a feel for how to avoid
spinning forward or back, but I noticed a little side-to-side rotation. He allowed me to move on if I could nail it just once.
But I think I needed like 6 tries and there was a tiny hair of rotation left on the cue ball. Hitting it 99% good was "close enough".
• Next, a follow drill. Use the diamonds as goal posts. So try to land the CB between the side and the diamond after it.
Then between 1 and 2 diamonds after it. Then between the 2nd and 3rd diamond after.
Finally, get the cue ball to come between the diamond and the rail without hitting the rail. That's the first 4 positions.
The next 3 involve bouncing off the foot rail and then rebounding 1, 2, and 3 diamonds back towards you.
So there are 7 total and you got 15 balls to pull it off. I needed them all.
• Draw drill, exact same principle but more difficult... draw speed control is always harder, you can't just roll the ball
without spin the way you could with the follow drill.
• Then, FML, stun follow. Replace the OB with the CB. I hate this shot and kind of suck at it. I was able to
hit several but then we moved on to stun follow #2 (roll forward about 2 ball widths) and stun draw (gently roll back 2 ball widths).
Some discoveries I made doing these drills:
- a stop shot is easy and you can hit with either center ball + firm, or a little softer with light draw.
But to get a perfect (0 movement) stop shot, I really had to focus on firm and perfectly centered tip placement.
- to stun follow 1 ball width, or do a replacement shot, I could just hit a stop shot a little weak.
But to go forward about two ball widths, it's way too hard guessing the speed where your slide turns to follow
and you'll roll forward two ball widths. Instead I had to go up a tiny bit (literally like 1/8th) above center and just shoot
at the stop shot speed I already had engraved into muscle memory.
- normally to draw short distances I went with maximum draw and a soft stroke, cuz that felt easiest to control the speed.
But it's not. I kept failing to stun draw 2 ball widths back hitting it like that. I decided to try hitting it similar to the stun follow.
Just a hair below center and then a firm stop shot. On my 1st or 2nd try hitting that way, I nailed the distance. It's just easier.
So each of these drills is 15 balls, and Ralph asks me how many balls I think I must hit to see any real improvement
in my speed control. I throw out a number... "a thousand?"
"AT LEAST. More like 3 to 5000 would be better."
So my 'assignment' is to do any combination of these 15 ball drills, 3000 times. No time limit, no rush,
I just need to do it.
Next we worked on my break. I told him I had 9b figured out but my 10b and 8b hard breaks sucked.
One easy trick that was kind of cool: do fast practice swings, and your final break will be faster/harder.
He showed me some stuff about the 10b break that I never knew. I mean stuff that isn't in Joe Tucker's video,
nor Shane's, nowhere. I never really understood how that break worked. Getting those 2nd row balls is a world of difference
compared to getting the wing ball in 9b. I won't reveal the details here cuz I want Ralph to get your business if you're DYING to know.
He's clearly studied this break and understands it inside and out. In a nutshell, rack 'em tight and hit 'em square and hard.
I guess that sounds obvious but he was able to clear up why I could get away with gaps and weak hits in 9b, but never in 10b.
It might help to think of it this way: the best in the world only hit this shot ~70% with perfect racking.
And if you hit it less than 50%, you might as well just let your opponent break.
He asked what else I had in mind and I said "well we've done all these straight in shots but really I struggle with cuts.
I just miss those semi-tough ones." So we set up a few tough 45ish degree cuts, and he went over my preshot routine.
"It's pretty good but sometimes you skip steps. Don't." is basically what he told me.
One shot in particular kept giving me fits... CB center spot, OB one diamond below the side, a ball width off the rail.
Cut it into the corner. He wouldn't let me off the hook until I made 4 in a row. On my last attempt at the end of the 2 hours, I did.
What helped me is to not skip lining up and visualizing the shot, and one very good bit of advice. When fine tuning your aim,
you have this mental dialogue that sort of goes "ok, adjust/cut more... more more... more... ok, that's good. stop."
The advice? Once your brain says "that's good" - do NOT change your aim anymore! Stop adjusting. Commit to it as-is.
Don't second guess it. Doing this I realized I was scared of undercutting and steering my shots at the end.
Once I just committed to the line of aim that looked correct, the ball would go in.
After the lesson, Ralph was a good sport and consented to play 3 racks of 8 ball with me.
I broke and ran 2 of them! I managed to win the 3rd too by asking him what to play in difficult situations.
He would give me smart advice and I executed it well, and prevented him from running out.
After the lesson I felt ready to take on anyone. Now I just need to go hit those 5,000 balls
He also did the traditional photo/autograph, and showed me his cool QPod chalk holder.
These things are for people who like Very Nice Things. It's onyx with real gold and silver inlays. If you have to ask, you can't afford it.
Anyone interested in lessons with Ralph, contact him on Facebook. The cost was $80 an hour, but fair warning,
this may change. IMO it's worth it.
Instead of waiting til I have like 15 years of bad habits to fix :shocked:
I mentioned in some stream how much I enjoyed his instructional videos on Youtube.. Someone who knew him
mentioned he'd be in my area in the US in a few weeks. So I contacted him on facebook and set it up.
Ralph was staying with a family (all pool enthusiasts clearly, two of them entered the MD 14.1 tourney),
so I got to have a private lesson in their basement pool room, which was quite nice.
He's very personable and easygoing, and one thing I want to stress is he seems like a real instructor.
He's not just a pro player who will show you a few things.
He's more like an instructor who happens to play at pro speed.
How good does he play? Well for example, in the last US Open, Shannon Daulton had him down,
dry broke, Ralph ran out out game 8. Made a ball but opted to play safe game 9... got ball in hand, ran out.
Game 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 - all break'n'runs.
His high run in 14.1 is listed as 218 balls.
He asked right off the bat what I was looking to do and where I was at, and how often I practiced.
I said I seldom practiced, and when I did it was the ghost.
("that's not practice. That's a game!")
He warned me that if I'm around B speed and only playing ~3 nights a week, I may have reached my limit
unless I am willing to play more and practice regularly. "Though if there was ever a stretch where
you played like 5+ nights a week, you maybe can get away with less practice."
I told him I mostly just miss balls and don't get out when I should. Like decent position play, but
not able to handle it well when a medium-to-hard shot comes up (which it will even if you play
carefully... every so often you'll overrun shape or end up on the rail or both).
I expected he'd ask to shoot a rack or watch me hit balls but he went straight for drills and
just stood to the side to watch my mechanics. I like this approach... no time wasted just watching
him shoot, he hit only like 2 shots (both breaks) the whole time. For the rest of the 2 hours he'd
have me shoot and then offer feedback.
We opened with a simple test to see how straight I delivered the cue ball. We're all familiar
with the basic version which Dr. Dave calls "MOFUDAT", the most useful drill of all time.
The basic version is to put the CB on the spot, hit through the opposite spot, and have the CB return to your tip.
The advanced version Ralph did was to set up "goalposts"... two balls on opposite sides of the footspot,
and these balls are exactly 2 ball-widths apart. Then you hit the shot much more firmly through them,
trying to get the cue ball to come back through them to the head rail, then through the goal posts a 3rd time.
Unlike the basic version, this tests how your stroke holds up under a very firm swing.
Much easier to swing straight at lag speed, but you won't hit that 6 foot draw shot at lag speed.
I consistently went to the right so we detected I had a small hook from left to right.
My stroke is straight enough to make most shots at medium speed, but the hook will come up
if I must shoot hard (or very soft). I was able to finally pass that drill when I sort of consciously held my arm inward a bit.
I'll need to practice to straighten it out. Making even 1 out of 3 is pretty good.
Next he lined up a row of 15 balls across the center of the table, from side pocket to side pocket.
This is a speed control drill and will help with all position, not just the straight-ins.
He asked how many I would make shooting from the kitchen.
"Well gee, I think all of them? I mean, I should. Probably."
"OK, then let's try something a little more interesting, how many shooting from 1 diamond further away?"
"hrmmmm, I dunno, 12?"
And that was correct. So after doing a row of 15, Ralph showed me a series of drills that all start from this row of balls.
• Try doing a perfect stop shot on each. You will notice it's almost impossible. Eventually I got a feel for how to avoid
spinning forward or back, but I noticed a little side-to-side rotation. He allowed me to move on if I could nail it just once.
But I think I needed like 6 tries and there was a tiny hair of rotation left on the cue ball. Hitting it 99% good was "close enough".
• Next, a follow drill. Use the diamonds as goal posts. So try to land the CB between the side and the diamond after it.
Then between 1 and 2 diamonds after it. Then between the 2nd and 3rd diamond after.
Finally, get the cue ball to come between the diamond and the rail without hitting the rail. That's the first 4 positions.
The next 3 involve bouncing off the foot rail and then rebounding 1, 2, and 3 diamonds back towards you.
So there are 7 total and you got 15 balls to pull it off. I needed them all.
• Draw drill, exact same principle but more difficult... draw speed control is always harder, you can't just roll the ball
without spin the way you could with the follow drill.
• Then, FML, stun follow. Replace the OB with the CB. I hate this shot and kind of suck at it. I was able to
hit several but then we moved on to stun follow #2 (roll forward about 2 ball widths) and stun draw (gently roll back 2 ball widths).
Some discoveries I made doing these drills:
- a stop shot is easy and you can hit with either center ball + firm, or a little softer with light draw.
But to get a perfect (0 movement) stop shot, I really had to focus on firm and perfectly centered tip placement.
- to stun follow 1 ball width, or do a replacement shot, I could just hit a stop shot a little weak.
But to go forward about two ball widths, it's way too hard guessing the speed where your slide turns to follow
and you'll roll forward two ball widths. Instead I had to go up a tiny bit (literally like 1/8th) above center and just shoot
at the stop shot speed I already had engraved into muscle memory.
- normally to draw short distances I went with maximum draw and a soft stroke, cuz that felt easiest to control the speed.
But it's not. I kept failing to stun draw 2 ball widths back hitting it like that. I decided to try hitting it similar to the stun follow.
Just a hair below center and then a firm stop shot. On my 1st or 2nd try hitting that way, I nailed the distance. It's just easier.
So each of these drills is 15 balls, and Ralph asks me how many balls I think I must hit to see any real improvement
in my speed control. I throw out a number... "a thousand?"
"AT LEAST. More like 3 to 5000 would be better."
So my 'assignment' is to do any combination of these 15 ball drills, 3000 times. No time limit, no rush,
I just need to do it.
Next we worked on my break. I told him I had 9b figured out but my 10b and 8b hard breaks sucked.
One easy trick that was kind of cool: do fast practice swings, and your final break will be faster/harder.
He showed me some stuff about the 10b break that I never knew. I mean stuff that isn't in Joe Tucker's video,
nor Shane's, nowhere. I never really understood how that break worked. Getting those 2nd row balls is a world of difference
compared to getting the wing ball in 9b. I won't reveal the details here cuz I want Ralph to get your business if you're DYING to know.
He's clearly studied this break and understands it inside and out. In a nutshell, rack 'em tight and hit 'em square and hard.
I guess that sounds obvious but he was able to clear up why I could get away with gaps and weak hits in 9b, but never in 10b.
It might help to think of it this way: the best in the world only hit this shot ~70% with perfect racking.
And if you hit it less than 50%, you might as well just let your opponent break.
He asked what else I had in mind and I said "well we've done all these straight in shots but really I struggle with cuts.
I just miss those semi-tough ones." So we set up a few tough 45ish degree cuts, and he went over my preshot routine.
"It's pretty good but sometimes you skip steps. Don't." is basically what he told me.
One shot in particular kept giving me fits... CB center spot, OB one diamond below the side, a ball width off the rail.
Cut it into the corner. He wouldn't let me off the hook until I made 4 in a row. On my last attempt at the end of the 2 hours, I did.
What helped me is to not skip lining up and visualizing the shot, and one very good bit of advice. When fine tuning your aim,
you have this mental dialogue that sort of goes "ok, adjust/cut more... more more... more... ok, that's good. stop."
The advice? Once your brain says "that's good" - do NOT change your aim anymore! Stop adjusting. Commit to it as-is.
Don't second guess it. Doing this I realized I was scared of undercutting and steering my shots at the end.
Once I just committed to the line of aim that looked correct, the ball would go in.
After the lesson, Ralph was a good sport and consented to play 3 racks of 8 ball with me.
I broke and ran 2 of them! I managed to win the 3rd too by asking him what to play in difficult situations.
He would give me smart advice and I executed it well, and prevented him from running out.
After the lesson I felt ready to take on anyone. Now I just need to go hit those 5,000 balls

He also did the traditional photo/autograph, and showed me his cool QPod chalk holder.
These things are for people who like Very Nice Things. It's onyx with real gold and silver inlays. If you have to ask, you can't afford it.
Anyone interested in lessons with Ralph, contact him on Facebook. The cost was $80 an hour, but fair warning,
this may change. IMO it's worth it.
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