Answer: APA....which is in my opinion a social/beginners league where the object should be for having fun (hell, it says that in their motto). If you're going to take APA pool so serious that it bothers you that another SL2 is breaking for another SL2....you're probably shooting in the wrong league.
FWIW, the things you list as things you take real serious are also the things I take real serious too....just not APA (which you didn't list but seem to be serious with).
Oh yeah, and screw Vegas. I don't care if I ever go there. I really don't care about making the playoffs, but if one of my teams gets there, I'll play my heart out for them, knowing that THEY want to go. I'm just in it for a night out with my wife to play a little pool with family and friends. I just can't take it too seriously, as apparently some people do.
But alas, our opinions seem to differ, and that's okay. The world would be an awful boring place to live in if everybody all had the same viewpoints.
Maniac