Anyone who has looked at the ebay listing can easily see in the VERY first photo that the butt sleeve had a poor finish. After looking at the photo, I'm convinced that the buyer was completely negligent.
I'm sure that first photo contributed to the final purchase price being less than the OP was willing to pay (his words).
So, the OP is the bad guy even though the seller admitted he missed it. Yep, that's right, that is evidence at hand right now. He admitted it on this thread that he just missed it.
So, how could the buyer be negligent and not the owner. My god, at least attempt to look at both sides, and your side ADMITTED he did not accurately describe the cue, and thus should have made it right.
And if this was only about MONEY, like many of you have accused the OP, then why would he NOT take my money when I offered to cover the repairs? That's seems odd, no ? He REFUSED free money from me, up to $75 for the refinish. So, it appears most of you were wrong in regards to his motives. But, did that really surprise any of you with the insults you have thrown at the guy. I've responded numerous times in this thread and have not made one negative comment regarding the seller. If you got facts, state them, when you don't, throw a flame thrower and think you're smart.
Bottom line, is he bought a cue in Great Condition, the seller admitted he missed the "damage" and now the buyer has to refinish a cue, which many folks don't like refinishing cues. Heck, I got crap from some folks when I refinished by 35 year old Burton Spain
Personally, I would have sent the cue back, because I would not want a cue in this condition, if I spend money on stuff, It's going to be in GREAT condition or I don't bother. Unless I'm buying to be specifically refinish (Willie Hoppe)
But, the seller should have done someone to make this right other than taking it back in the hopes he could just resell it for more. Thus, who really win's on the deal? The seller, because of his honest mistake, is now going to make more money putting it back on Ebay. Sorry, that's seems a bit off to me. Why should he profit from his own mistake ??
Buyer: Hey, this cue has a some refinish issues.
Seller: Crap, I missed that (which he admitted)
Buyer: I need to get it fixed, gonna cost $100
Seller: I'll split the cost with you or you can send the cue back. Your choice.
At least you are negotiating and showing some signs of customer service. Now, it puts it back on the buyer of what he wants to do. I mean, my God, the seller ADMITTED he missed it, and thus, he now should have skin in the game.