Pool isn't really gambling. The game is usually won or lost before the flip of the kern.
This is a major reason I very rarely gamble after coming back to pool. I have played with thousands of strangers. Never took over five minutes to negotiate a game. The game, the amount, the rules we were playing under, flip a coin.
Now I see people negotiating for over two hours to agree to a race to five nine ball. Thirty minutes or so and the pool is over. WHATDAF_K! After watching this over and over, no, no, and hell no!
The most fun I ever had playing pool was a battle with Danny Medina when we were both young. All the place had was bar boxes and the only games were eight and nine. If nobody specifies nine it is eight ball. The bet was small. Danny introduced himself with a front and back name, neither of which were his. He stalled three or four games forcing me to win. Pissed me off for him to think he had to hustle me so I turned back the same thing on him. Three of his balls left, all hanging where a six year old could make them and I had jawed the eight ball when I "missed". He caught an angry look from me and a minute later called me over. "My name is Danny Medina. I am a road player from Las Vegas." I was still Hu so we were set to go! I played Johnny Archer, a handful more road players of the day. After The Color of Money almost everyone that could run three balls was lying about their name and background so it didn't matter what they said. You made a game and rock'n'roll!
Now I see a stranger walk through the door. They see my case and come over. "Wanna hit a few?" The game and the bet gets lined out pretty easy but now they want a spot. Dude, neither one of us has seen the other hit a ball and you want to negotiate a spot? Go back to sucking on your momma's tit!
I guess what turned me off of gambling on pool was this...
Almost every time I did gamble, the DSOB's would wait till I got down on a difficult shot on the 8, and would stop me and want to raise the bet. I would say, "No. We agreed on $--.-- and that's what it was going to be".
I know it's a sharking move, but it pisses me off. Play for what we agreed on and raise the next game or set. Not in the middle of it. This has happened to me more then once, and it's GD irritating.
So I just won't gamble anymore. Maybe I just need to search out better quality people.
Definitely need better quality people to play with. You should be able to fade what you half suspect is coming meantime. Best to not shoot your shot while distracted. Stop, talk to them, take a swig of whatever you are drinking, amble off if you feel like it. Make it plain you have all the time in the world and will get back to the game when they want to. I would tell them the bet is set but you will bet twenty or whatever on the side on this shot. Gotta teach them they are wasting time messing with you.
One thing, with very rare exceptions, when most much lower skill level players come over and want to play I usually play them free. I do it for the game, and I do it to pay it forward to the people that helped me that I can never pay back. If there are very specific reasons I can't play that time I explain and tell them to catch me another time. If we want the game to thrive we do have to give something back sometimes.
Hu