dquarasr, I think I mentioned this before, but I'm going to be a little more forceful here. You're in a trap. Right now, you're like a ship that's taking on too much water.
Between all the opinions here and the ones you're getting privately, and all the how-to videos you've watched, you're losing your identity at the table. Each of the pros that you watch have their own distinct identity that makes them who they are.
Learn who dquarsar is at the table. Get familiar with that person. Learn your tendencies. What's your style? What do you like to do? What makes you happy? Then build on that, one brick at a time. Slowly.
Taking in everyone's varying opinions and recreating yourself once a month won't move things forward for you. For example, I wouldn't be surprised if you left behind several things that might have supported your particular style, but you may not have given them enough of a chance, or the combinations you had them mixed into didn't work.
I appreciate your comments, Fran, but I have to respectfully disagree.
It's true. I do watch a lot of instructional videos. But I do believe I'm savvy enough to incorporate pieces of various styles into my own style of play. In the last year or so I've tried a number of things with the goal of becoming more consistent. I've worked on my head position; my feet position; how I step into the shot; how I align with the shot; how I grip the cue; how I hang my forearm from my elbow; my shoulder position, stroke timing and acceleration, etc.
I did all these things taking the best of various ways I see others shoot, and incorporating them into my game. Some things worked. Many things did not. I had to fix so many things, and I'd try something and give it a few weeks before deciding it did or didn't work for me. I had a crazy S-shaped stroke forever, from when I first started playing pool casually over 20 years ago. Now that I have become more serious about the game in the last 18 months or so, I realized I had to fix these quirks. The "S" stroke was fixed by thumb position and by resisting the tendency to squeeze the cue. I also had experimented with various stances, from very closed to open like a snooker player. I found that my particular style is closer to Mark Wilson's stance, but not exactly. I worked on it then tweaked it for my tendencies (I am almost but not quite left of the shot line with my back foot. Mark promotes having the toes on the edge of the line. I am closer to having the shot line under the ball of my foot. Only 2 or 3 inches different, but enough to impact my performance.)
I had to fix a tendency to chicken-wing, which I believe I have done.
And the biggest thing I've done to improve my game recently, in the last four months or so, is to find my own rhythm in an attempt to quit being so g-damned robotic and mechanical. I watched Efren, how he does practice-practice-pause at CB address, then one last little practice stroke before firing. I don't mimic his exact routine, but I did experiment, using the idea that it's OK to find your own rhythm, and settled on my own particular cadence, that I try to follow every single shot. For me it's align, and pause as long as it takes me to verify I'm aligned, then stop thinking. Then practice stroke, practice stroke, pause at CB address, 1" feather, 1" feather, backstroke and shoot. I stopped thinking about it. Now I just do this every shot. If I even start thinking about this cadence or these steps, my consistency goes out the window.
So what I am trying to say is that I've researched and applied what I think are aspects from many sources, trying to craft a style that is working for me.
Progress is slow, but I do notice that it is coming. I know it is because I keep track of how I do.
Fran, I will keep your comments in mind as I work on refining my game even further, with the goal of continuing to incorporate suggestions and advice into MY game. Oh, and I do know when not to follow suggestions, too, evidenced by coaching I've received but decided wasn't for me.
As always, thanks for your input and being an ambassador for the game. BTW, you can call me Doug. My handle here is dquarasr, I'm Doug Quara, Sr.