You need to have a set of rules that you are playing by. I suppose since there is no referee to declare a stalemate, you have to continue with pointless shots until he gets bored.I knew a lot about his character before the game. I am not surprised.
That's why I was hoping someone like Bob would Chime in, or someone else who has been in the same situation. As I said, I'd be a lot more butt hurt if there was cash or something on the line.
Here's the CSI take on a stalemate:
If a referee judges that the table is in a position such that any attempt to pocket or move a ball will result in loss of game on that shot, or that the game is not progressing because the position of the table has not significantly changed through three consecutive innings by each player, the referee will declare a stalemate and the game will be replayed with the player who broke the game breaking again. (AR p. 104)
Here is the World Standardized Rule, which is about the same:If the referee observes that no progress is being made towards a conclusion, he will announce his decision, and each player will have three more turns at the table. Then, if the referee determines that there is still no progress, he will declare a stalemate. If both players agree, they may accept the stalemate without taking their three additional turns. The procedure for a stalemate is specified under the rules for each game.
If he goes by the rules of Chinese 8-ball (now called heyball), intentionally playing on one of your opponent's balls is loss of rack. So, you should get clarity about which rule set is in use.
Personally, I would avoid him.