I look at it as something like this:So saying one thing and doing the exact opposite is ok and is 'worthy of respect'???? Need to step away from the pipe bud.
Two friend groups in middle school. One boy from each group get in a fistfight on Monday after school. On Tuesday during school, the entirety of both groups are all mad at each other and say "let's meet up at the park after school for a rumble". They are all pumped up about it, mad at each other, ready to fight, and agree to meet. As the school day progresses, some of them think to themselves "this is stupid, I'll get suspended from school, possibly get my ass kicked, and be in trouble at home". After school, a few of the kids jump ship and go straight home instead of the park.
That's what Josh and others did. In the moment, they were caught up in the peer pressure, group mentality, and the testosterone, and went along with the "boycott manifesto". When push came to shove, they changed their mind, and went for the best decision for themselves.
When this all went down, I too was hard on Josh. With the emotion now gone, and more time to rationally think about it, yes, I have possibly even more respect for him than before. He made this decision knowing he'd get tons of backlash, and still did it.