Bummer
Being mentally defeated is the worst. Work it out and get the "Pinoy" attitude and mind set. They shrug the loss off, as they know losses are a part of the game they have chosen.
They know they will miss shots and make shots, loose games and win games, loose matches and win matches. But, in the end, they will win more then they loose and they accept it as part of doing business.
I think that attitude, mental mind set and long term out look sets them apart from other players in other countries.
I played in a small 8 Ball tournament last night at one of the local pubs, because my new Diveney LD Kiel Wood shaft arrived. I won and the tables remind me of why I would suck at golf. Almost to the man there were reasons why they missed shots and lost.
Every game I have lost was because the opponent out shot me. Granted, some times I make it easy for them do to playing poorly, but in the end they still out shot me.
I shrug losses off as a part of my pool life and it makes pool a lot more fun.