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I am not in favor of a negative iTrader for a deal in which no money is lost because their was no missed opportunity.
All internet grading systems have their drawbacks and deficiencies when it comes to being accurate and fair to those involved. Bad ratings can be left in the heat of the moment for miniscule reasons. Positive ratings and reviews by friends, family or the seller themselves.
My rule has always been, when in doubt, to evaluate the other party through communication. A simple dialog with a seller or potential buyer gives a very good indication who you are dealing with. It will give you a sense of how responsible they are through a timely response (or no response at all), their intelligence through how they write or speak, and their demeanor and attitude by how they answer questions.
I often sell personal unwanted items on eBay and their feedback system is broken. Buyers now can only have a 100% feedback rating, so the only way to evaluate the integrity of a bidder or buyer is through a review of the feedback they leave for others.
I recently saw something on eBay that shocked even me: A buyer who, with only a few exceptions, leaves only negative feedback. Nice. Thank you for winning my auction. eBay should address this type of situation. This buyer has over 20,000 positive feedbacks but endless pages of negative feedback left for others. Who is right here.
iTrader
One aspect of trading on AZ in comparison to an eBay auction is that I would argue there is not the same degree of the missed opportunity on AZ for an uncompleted deal. This is because trading here is for a fixed or agreed price and it is not an auction. Therefore, it is not a situation where the second highest bidder is left to lose interest after the end of the auction.
I have only had one disappointing experience on AZ. I did not lose money, but I paid for a cue, a rare cue, and had my funds returned because the seller sold it after-the-fact to another buyer for a higher price a week later. I wasn't happy but did not leave a negative because inherently the seller is alright, just wrong in how he handled that matter and on the flip side, I didn't want to be left a negative in an unregulated system.
In another trade, in which I acquired one of my most valued Palmers, the seller had a tremendous iTrader rating. He was totally professional in both his communication, speed of shipping and packing. Then several months later he was banned from AZ. Go figure.
So my long-winded point is that the missed-opportunity doesn't apply here on AZ. If a seller wants a deal wrapped-up in 24-48-72 hours it should be so stated. If the seller agrees to wait 2-3 weeks and then the buyer backs-out, I'm not saying that is right and proper but let's face it, there were two on that dance floor.
Jay
You Palmer collectors are all alike><:smile:
Are you ever going to post pics of that old Wico thing I sold you?
The confusion over being a man of your word vs. the Itrader system astounds me.
We are all men and we all try to keep our word.
People screw up, get high, get excited about something, and later realize they have to pay rent, or they may realize that the cue was way overpriced.
I wish I would of backed out of my first trade on AZ, the guy was a known certified nutjob, and a known hated AZ bully, I didn't know it.
What would I of done if I found out about him before I sent my cue out?
Then wives get involved, like the time I sold a cue to a pro player during a tournament, his wife went nutz, so I gave him his money back.
I may look him up and leave negative feedback for having a wife that needs to pay bills.
Backing out gracefully takes a little savvy, some people just disappear, oh well, move on.
I am not going the bully someone in that situation, it doesn't happen very often, and I am not going to force or shame a guy into completing the deal if he doesn't want the cue.
No transaction therefore no Itrader, in fact I have never ever considered using the Itrader system to punish a guy for not keeping his word.
But then again, my first job in '67 at 15 was in a notorious pool hall, so I was exposed to the real world when I was young.