The same 'obsolete' safety rule he is quoting is also in http://www.playbca.com/Downloads/Rulebook/CompleteRulebook/tabid/372/Default.aspx
No, it is not. There is no such thing as BCAPL Rule 4.12. While most of the intent and effect of the applicable BCAPL rules is similar, the specific wording and effect of the applicable BCAPL rules differs from the pre-2008 version of WSR - significantly, in some respects.
The applicable BCAPL references for the issue in this thread are BCAPL 8-Ball Rule 2.8, "Safety Play" (p. 37), the BCAPL definition of "Safety" (p. 14), the BCAPL Applied Ruling for the definition of "Safety" (p. 67) and BCAPL Applied Ruling 1.45, "Unsportsmanlike Conduct" (p. 85).
So you're trying to get them to erase the obsolete link AND change the rule in the 'Officail Rules of the BCA Pool League'?
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You speak of "them" as if the same party is responsible for the obsolete link and the content of The Official Rules of the BCA Pool League. That is not true. You are making the common error of equating the BCA and BCAPL. Please refer to my disclaimers at the end of this post for details.
I do ask, and have asked various contacts at the BCA on multiple occasions, to remove the obsolete material from their server. No luck to date.
As far as the BCAPL rules, I don't recall asking anyone to change anything. That's not my job. BCAPL referees are not in the business of making policy. (Again, please see the disclaimers for details.)
What I intended to convey was that the OP's specific situation would be looked at by the BCAPL National Office. The purpose of such a review is for the National Office to consider addressing the situation in an Applied Ruling, or possibly revising the applpicable rules themselves to specifically cover the OP's situation. If I was not clear in stating that, I apologize.

Buddy Eick
BCAPL National Head Referee
BCAPL Director of Referee Training
Technical Editor, BCAPL Rule Book
bcapl_referee@cox.net
Find the Official Rules of the BCA Pool League here:
http://www.playbca.com/Downloads/Rulebook/CompleteRulebook/tabid/372/Default.aspx
Buddy Eick
BCAPL National Head Referee
BCAPL Director of Referee Training
Technical Editor, BCAPL Rule Book
bcapl_referee@cox.net
Find the Official Rules of the BCA Pool League here:
http://www.playbca.com/Downloads/Rulebook/CompleteRulebook/tabid/372/Default.aspx
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