I hate to admit it, but I'll be honest.
Back when I thought I was a hotshot D player, I had a really short temper.
I've rapped my cue on the rail, Earl-style, many times in the past. I (almost) never really blamed a bad shot on the equipment, but I was pretty hard on myself, and acted out my frustrations on whatever was nearby.
About 12 years ago, I got so upset about losing a set that I walked outside and slapped a support post so hard I broke my thumb. Having to play pool with a cast on my bridge hand for several weeks was a wake-up call to me - I obviously had some pretty serious anger issues.
Over the next few years, as I learned about the game, appreciated its beauty, and worked on my anger issues, I really changed, and I now enjoy pool (and life) WAY more now than I did back then.
Today, it's not an issue at all. I'll still occasionally tap my tip very lightly on the table after a miss, but I don't get angry like I used to. It's almost like I'm just disappointed that I didn't get to see a really delicate shot. I'm much more likely to crack a humble smile after a miss.
Enjoy the game, go easy on yourself, respect your equipment (and others' equipment), and just try to be thankful that you have the opportunity to experience such a beautiful game.
-Blake
It is hard to imagine that story about you being true. You are so mild mannered.
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