I wonder if today's average slob would be impressed by seeing his doctor walk into the exam room in an old T-shirt and levi's?
I think they already have been because his name is Dr. Gregory House
I wonder if today's average slob would be impressed by seeing his doctor walk into the exam room in an old T-shirt and levi's?
bell said:No disrespect but why? There is a functional reason for wearing the cap correctly but what is the reason for turning it around. (dysfunctional?) Is it sports related, (baseball catcher) or is is just "funky" style thing. Just curious.
seymore15074 said:I wear my hat backwards nearly always, and forwards if: a) it's raining to keep my glasses dry, b) it's bright outside, or c) I'm shooting pool and the bill presses into my back--which drives me crazy.
curlyscues said:the one that gets me is these morons that wear their pants just about at their knees so they can hardly walk across the room.
i haven't met one yet that looks like he could spell his own name.
M.C.
gulfportdoc said:There's been some discussion in several threads about the way people dress these days. I'll be happy when the current "styles" pass: rumpled T-shirts with idiotic messages on them, ghetto outfits, baseball caps worn backwards, and the like. Also, women dressing like two bit whores is getting old.
But clothing is an expression of a society's collective mentality. Over the past 25 years self respect seems to have been replaced by "you'd better respect ME..." But many people do not present themselves in such a way as to justify any respect.
I wonder if today's average slob would be impressed by seeing his doctor walk into the exam room in an old T-shirt and levi's? If his bride showed up at the altar in a 12 inch skirt and tank top with no bra? If he went to buy a car, and the salesman walked over in flip-flops and dirty shorts?
When character, personal standards, and good education return to society, you'll see the clothing improve as well.
Doc
bell said:No disrespect but why? There is a functional reason for wearing the cap correctly but what is the reason for turning it around. (dysfunctional?) Is it sports related, (baseball catcher) or is is just "funky" style thing. Just curious.
bell said:No disrespect but why? There is a functional reason for wearing the cap correctly but what is the reason for turning it around. (dysfunctional?) Is it sports related, (baseball catcher) or is is just "funky" style thing. Just curious.
crosseyedjoe said:Dang, I thought you're also gonna call me out for wearing mine at night.![]()
DaveK said:It sounds like some judge books by their covers, and old people always seem to complain about young people, not that either is that new of a phenomena.
Dave
bomber said:Another of my favorite quotes...this one by Mr. Albert Einstein:
If most of us are ashamed of shabby clothes and shoddy furniture, let us be more ashamed of shabby ideas and shoddy philosophies.... It would be a sad situation if the wrapper were better than the meat wrapped inside it.
frankncali said:One of the few quotes of Einsteins that I disagree with.
If he had been a man of average intelligence then I think many of his views about life would have been different or slightly adjusted.
He was revered so highly that no one ever said much about his dress and
his actions. He got all his respect from his mind.
If we are not up to his level then what do we do to distinguish ourselves and give us a leg up. After all almost everyone is within the average range
of most things.
I think people can wear and act however they want but they should not be pissed when other discriminate, profile, exclude and expect less due to their tastes.
In my life I have hired at least 500 people. We only have a short time to judge someone and clothing, actions and articulation are the basis.
Last week I had a guy show up wearing a vest with no shirt on underneathHe was a decent guy but I couldnt get it out of my head that he showed up in a pair of decent pants with just a vest and no shirt. Not a big vest but a regular v cut vest.
You have to draw the line somewhere as I dont have time to figure out if the wrapper is better than the meat.
That line is interesting becuase in the retail merchandising and packaging world its a general thought toget the "wrapper better than the meat". Never knew where it came from.
Drew said:So why even have an interview? Seems to me you can pick your guy from a line-up.
Our society has become solely based on image. Who cares if you're doing a good job? So long as you look good while you're doing it. We think it's silly when kids in high school judge each other by what they're wearing. But it happens everywhere. Appearances can be deceiving and often they are. That's why I make it a point not to have first impressions. I don't care if you're black, white, or green. I don't care if your pants are 3 sizes too big, or 3 sizes too small. You all get the same treatment until you open your mouth.
I know that everyone has a story. There was a time I lived in my car for 4 months. If you thought less of me because my clothes were wrinkled, then **** you.
frankncali said:So if I am chosing between a guy in his car and a guy who dresses well and has an address then I should hire the guy living in a car????
I guess I should if I dont want to go &^% myself.
Thats nuts. I interview people and then you have to decide and determine who moves on and who doesnt. There are other things that I look at as well. First impression are hard to overcome.
My problem isnt with the guy in a pool room not dressed well and acting well but rather with people going to interviews or other locations to meet someone where you will be viewed.
I simply wont hire the person because they arent smart enough to know to wear something decent.
One thing I wont count against a guy is if he is trying. If he dresses as well as he can afford and puts forth the effort to look and act right then he is ok.
We have gotten very complacent in the work place over the years as everyone thinks they have the right to be themselves whenever they feel like it. I just dont believe that to be true especially in the work place.
I don't know how you got the impression that I was referring to "younger people". My comments were about society as a whole. Of course I suppose there are some younger people who are self-conscious...Gregg said:Yesterdays hippies who attended events like Woodstock in the 60's (like my parents) are todays doctors, lawyers, bankers, etc.
Take the time to get to know and understand younger people; you may learn where they are coming from.
gulfportdoc said:I don't know how you got the impression that I was referring to "younger people". My comments were about society as a whole. Of course I suppose there are some younger people who are self-conscious...
Doc