Hi Everyone,
As you can see I'm new to AZ Forums; I'm not sure what the proper etiquette is, but since I started the thread, I'm guessing it's my responsibility to address some of the responses.
Firstly, some history. I've been with my PPB for 7 years and wouldn't trade him for the world. However, it doesn't mean that he hasn't made unreasonable requests when he's been gambling. On the flip side, I haven't always been fair to him when I've played. In fact, I believe I blamed him for a loss because he gave me a look when I missed an easy shot. Hey, it was easier to blame him at that moment then tell myself, you lost because you played like crap or I was outplayed.
The pool room is a world onto itself. As someone once told me, "It's a subculture." Someone else said, "A pool room is filled with treachorous undercurrents." It's also a big dysfunctional family. It's filled with people who truly understand your love of the game like noone else can. That includes partners in life who don't play.
I wrote this to highlight the injustices I've seen over the years between couples and that includes myself. I've seen a guy walk out of a set and out of the pool room leaving his girl behind. Why? Because he missed a shot and she said, "Honey, it's just a game." She was trying to make him feel better. He went ballistic. It was her 2nd time there, maybe. Is that reasonable? Is Hilla_Hilla's post reasonable? Nope. We have all seen different situations come up with players and their partners and we have said to ourselves, "They just don't understand, wonder how it's going to work out for them." How can they, I ask? Players are all different, some want music, no music, has to talk, no talking, boy/friend close by or not at all. Who can figure out what a player wants when he's losing or just playing? I'm not trying to say that all players are mental cases, but I have to say, the vast majority are definitely quirky.

Gambing doesn't always bring out the best in people.
I'm not an abused woman, either emotionally or physically. What I am is perplexed at times.
My rules were meant to be funny, but as others have stated there is truth to them. If you can see yourselves in them, then you know you owe someone an apology somewhere because you have been unreasonable. There is more to a person than how they act when they gamble, but as PoolMaven pointed out, it's a reflection of that person. You may want to do some self-reflecting if too many of the rules apply to you.
Superstar, I think you've been hurt by a girl-friend at some point, I think people are just reacting to the way you phrased your original post, not the intent of your post. Noone want to be made a fool of in public, least of all by a boy/girlfriend.
JasonLaus, I think you understand the point of the rules.
Can we move on, please?
I want to know if that guy proposed or not to his girlfriend after his tournament.
