when I decided to get back into playing pool, I called a pool hall that I used to get mailings from about Ladies tournaments to see if I could get back on a mailing list or an email list. well, there are no more Ladies tournaments (except for league ones and I wasn't in any leagues at the time) but the room was sponsoring an Invitation only event and the room owner offered to invite me. I told him right up front that is was well past my speed but hey, send me the invite. I did entry (for $80) just to see what it was like. When I got to the venue (1.75 hrs away), and went into the pool hall, it got kinda quiet but I just wandered up to the counter. The room owner spoke right up to me and called me by name. I was kinda curious as to how he even knew my name. Well, it turned out I was the only female in the event. I heard some of the older gentlemen saying how they hadn't been to the room since being there with Boston Shorty and such. The men were from all over New England. There were maybe 2 gentlemen playing that I knew slightly as well as 1 really good local (to where I live) guy who came in very close to start time and somehow he knew me because he nodded at me when he saw me. Then they had the Calcutta and drew the brackets out. They must have just put me in the first slot being the only female and had me play my first match on the first table...right in front of where most of the spectators were sitting and I thought OH GREAT.....my first opponent walked up and looked at me and asked if I was playing at that table and I responded YES. He then said...>There must be some mistake and proceeded to go check out the brackets again. I did kinda chuckle then!....So, here I am, just trying to get back into playing and NOT having done any really practicing before this even, and dealing with cataracts playing with the big boys. I can recall trying to figure out if I can even make it past a ball in the way of the 1 and just going for it and nailing in one of the racks and hearing someone behind me whispering....I didn't think that could be hit....If they only knew, I didn't either! LOL. Well I beat the guy 9-3. Then I moved to a table out back and to this day, it seems that if I play away from an audience I don't play as well. I lost then. I got thru another match though and it was getting late and as I was sitting around people staring asking me, Are you still in this? And telling other folks...hey that girl is still in! so with 1loss and 2 wins, I had to play a guy who was a local. I GAVE him two racks when I rattled the nine and lost 7-5. That tournament gave me incentive to get back into pool....I would play a tourney like that over most any.....best thrill I had in a long time!