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CreeDo: "I's also more difficult to slam dunk a basketball with weights on your ankles."

With this reasoning we should all play on Barboxes and not 9 foot tables.

I'm not trying to pick a fight (especially after you have help me with my computer). 30 years ago we didn't have fast cloth, limited deflection shafts, and quick draw cue balls. It was more difficult to play at the highest level and thats whey there were only a handful of players at the top (Sigel, Varner, McCready, Hall, and a few more). These few players had an exceptional stroke and talent.
 
#1, I would say is almost true. A lot of house cues in my area are very poorly balanced, it's tough (but not impossible) to maintain a straight stroke.

No way. Are you saying saying your stick goes more vertical or 'rollercoaster' on a house cue? If so, I'm inclined to say you're not doing the "0 elbow drop by the book" stroke. Obviously the balance point isn't going to make you steer the tip left or right, that's all you. I'm not even convinced having the 'rollercoaster' effect is so bad. Anyway, I can draw a table length on a house cue, the only things that really prevent me from doing it as consistently are A. The tip will be beat to hell (cured with a tip tool) and B. The glossy shaft will chafe during my stroke (need to find a nicely worn cue or else buff the crap out of it for a minute).

If you are used to a well balanced cue, picking up a cue where the balance point is 8-10 inches from the butt will be challenging. Certainly you can learn to play well with it, but you can also play well with a warped cue as well, just ask Ken Doherty. Any non-player that I have ever let try my cue has noticed that it feels better without even hitting a ball.

P.S. I wasn't saying that I can't play with a house cue, it's just a bit more difficult. Earlier in the year I had a 54 ball run with a cue off the wall.
 
Fairly new to pool so I will only comment on what I use.

Gloves rock, no house cues, the only tables in town are bar tables so I can't say much on the 9 footer.

Have to learn a lot more before I comment on too hard/too soft etc...
 
Ive hit with some good house cues, but I have yet to find one that hits as good as my Scruggs or Schon(titlist cues excluded;)).



Joe
 
Bob: I get what you're saying about only the really talented stroke guys rising to the top. I guess the question is, do we really want that? Fewer big names in pool, less competition?

I could argue that the faster cloth forces a player to have better touch/speed control. In the old days, if they hit 20% harder than they meant to on round-the-table position shots, they only travelled 6 extra inches. Now hitting a hair higher or lower than intended leaves you out of line by a foot or more. You could also get away with having too much angle, because slow cloth let you hold a ball. Now a player HAS to get the correct angle or he's gonna have to travel across the table. Like in this old strickland vs. buddy hall match.. they get angles that made me wince but they still could hold the ball. At 2:19 here... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YqlbpCxxOW4&feature=PlayList&p=1EB36ED66DC44D1E&index=0
Doesn't it look like earl has to float across to the other side of the 9? But he actually overcuts the ball and still held whitey. So on that slow cloth he just had to cinch it.

Making some stuff more difficult (like playing 10 ball instead of 9 ball) makes sense to me. But other changes are just adding arbitrary difficulty to a game that's already tough enough. Right now there's a balance. Faster and slower cloth exists but we've settled on 860. Larger and smaller tables exist but we settled on 9 (mostly). We can make it harder but we already tried harder and the players (even most pros) decide they don't want 10 footers with slow cloth.

Cameron: You may have a point and it sounds like you play sportier than I do. I tried playing with a house cue some during my 10 ball session and it wasn't the balance that messed with me so much as the shaft/tip/weight difference.

JRT and others:

Why is it heart to bet on a 50/50 proposition? If I bet my car in a coin flip is that heart or just stupid? What about the dudes who blow a few bucks every day for most of their adult lives hoping to win the powerball? They are gambling like a thousands bucks a year when they have only a 1 in 100,000,000 chance of winning! Do they have ULTIMATE HEART? =)

About hustling vs. stealing - you have a good point... after The Hustler and TCOM, even total dummies have to know they could be getting hustled. But dumb people still get hustled. I think stealing from stupid people still counts as stealing.

24. People who soak their tips are nuts and may also be a special form of googan. yeah - no. if they think it makes them play better and they go out and play better - it's their deal

I had a friend just put it the same way to me the other day (about golf clubs). The guy who can't hit a ball somehow plays better with his $1000 clubs just because it's a psychological thing... he hits 'em more confidently. I guess that's one way to get a less experienced player to shoot better, but I'm a big fan of not lying to yourself and understanding everything about your game. If a guy thinks he shoots better because of his herbal goat's-milk marinated tip... and nobody calls him out on it... he will also think that when he shoots worse, it's the equipment's fault. He will start saying he missed that ball because he doesn't have the right ferrule or some other BS. A player needs to know exactly what he's doing wrong or right and not rely on superstition.

9 ball being lucky even at the highest level: Let me just say I'm not talking about when a pro slops a ball in, like he meant to play it in the side and it goes in the corner.

Here's where there's luck in 9 ball:
- The break. Yes, corey can do a controlled break and make a specific ball and turn the break into a skill shot. But what about when they force you to break from the box, and don't allow soft breaks, and rack with the 9 on the spot? All you can do is hit'n'hope and getting a look at the 1 when you hit so hard is random.

- I can miss a shot and very easily get safe. There's only 1 legal ball to hit and many blockers. This doesn't happen nearly as often in, say, 8 ball because there's several targets.

- I can kick a ball as well as any human can be asked to (hitting a specific side of the ball with good speed) and still sell out.

- I can (under most rules) get the 9 in on the break, or get an early 9.

- People can run out 4-6 racks in a row. Not saying it's easy or that anyone can do it. But seriously... they say a race to 11 in this game is too short for the top players. And for serious money they are racing to 100 in ten ball (which everyone agrees is less lucky) If the race needs to be 100 GAMES to determine the better player, I'm gonna say the game has some luck issues. Doesn't mean it's not fun or people should stop playing it.

you can always look at shots and make choices - one rail up and down, three rails around, cut it bank it, what do you feel comfortable with. what way do know where they cue is going. no, one right way only is an ignorant statement

No way, it's an educated statement. It's just something you disagree with. Doesn't mean I pulled it out of my ass. Let's say you have the shot below. Poll some top pros which pocket to play this in, and it's the 9 ball, 20 out of 20 will say play it in the corner. Yes you can play in the side, and even in the other corner. But there's clearly only 1 correct pocket.

Some players will shoot it in the side and just say it's their personal preference. That's the same thing as saying it's their "style". But even make it in the side like 75% of the time, it's still the wrong shot. Some guy somewhere might truly make it in the side here more often than the corner due to some aiming problem, but he can't cop out and keep shooting the side pocket shot and just call it his "style", he needs to fix that problem.

Not all choices are as clear cut as this one, but there will always be a cue ball path that is at least... call it 5% better for some reason or other.

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BigPerm: Now I know the correct term for the funny little shakes I've had forever =) I have small shakes sometimes during my practice strokes, and maybe even during my final backswing. But when I stroke they disappear. But it sounds like plenty of people have a similar problem and it WILL affect their stroke/swing. If alcohol fixes that, then I stand corrected. But keep in mind I said "drunk". I'm not talking about a little alcohol to smooth out the shakes.

TJlkihjlembkr: I never know how to read your name. I mentally read it as "timberlaker". Anyway, I gotta see it to believe it =) Everyone I've met "knows a guy". But I never personally knew a guy who shot better drunk.

28. Straight pool is the most pure pool game, even though it's mostly dead.
-this is just your opinion


Dude, it's a scientific fact. Straight pool: More balls sunk than any other game and uses all of the pockets. How much more proof do you need?!! lol.

SKcues: Why does life have to be about gambling and taking risks?! Who said? Maybe in cheesy hollywood movies, you aren't living life unless you ride on the roof of a train, ask the incredibly hot girl out and risk painful rejection, or spend your last dollar on a european backpacking adventure while being chased by professional killers with martial arts skills. I think it's a perfectly good life to wake up, go to work, pay bills, not get shot at, and play some serious pool for bragging rights in the evening. Why is it ignorant to avoid risk? I think betting 10K on a coin flip is ignorant, if we're gonna throw that word around =)

You DO understand that the vast majority of pool is played for free, not for stakes, right? Parents with their kids, boyfriends and girlfriends, buddies after work, kids in the college rec room... and yeah, guys like me who are serious about pool but don't care to gamble.

Re... Hand powder is lame: Sure, I'll say it to Gabe's face. Just because he can beat me even doesn't mean anything. John schmidt can beat me and uses a glove. Earl can beat me and uses ankle weights and batting gloves. At least one of these guys has to be lame by someone's definition :P

~~~Huh? So I can set up the balls anyway I want to? That would be like setting up a trick shot. Random chance should be fair and equal for everyone. That's what we aim for in the rack.

When I say racking I mean... racking order. They're still in the usual triangle shape. I'm not saying set up the butterfly rack lol :D I want random too, within the triangle.

Many good players are addicted to drugs (ie pain killers) and won't play unless they got their juice.

This is a good point. Sort of like how some guys need something to control the yips... a guy who already has a habit may need a fix to get control of himself.

The hustle has entertainment value and that's what most people are paying for.

Well, if the fish volunteers his money but knows he is probably playing a hustler, maybe. But if I see a guy who can't make 3 balls, and I put up my money, I am not 'paying for' his entertainment value =) I plan on not paying for anything! And I will be mad if I do.

It depends on where you're from. The Filipinos lay everything on the line to acquire skill and get a ticket into the 'bigtime', or at least 'bigtime' compared to their daily lifestyle. Here in America, it is much different.

That's a good point. What I might call 'crappy' money can be a fortune in the phillippines.

27. The top women can't beat the top men. I have no idea why, it should be possible, but the best men give the best women 2 or 3 balls. I don't want it to be that way, but I think it's true.

-That is your biased opinion, and it clearly displays how little you understand about life.


I think it shows more bias and ignorance on your part to assume you know me based on that one statement. I thought I worded it carefully enough for everyone to understand that
A: I don't look down on women and
B: I believe they SHOULD be able to play as well as the top men.. but for some weird unknown reason they just don't.

Could be physical, could be mental, could be some societal thing that is keeping women players down. I don't know. Pool doesn't need brawn and women are our equal in other departments. Maybe being able to hit harder on the breaks really matters that much. I have no doubt the top women can plan a runout or execute a safe as well as the top men. But if you put Allison against Johnny Archer, he's got to give her weight to make it a fair match. If you need stats instead of "what-ifs" then look at any record you care to name... highest run in straight pool, longest consecutive string or racks in 9-b or 10b, most money won by playing tournaments, largest trophy collection, etc... it's all guys. The one thing they have done better is market themselves. They're on ESPN more.

If you think any of this is an ignorant and biased opinion that's based on hatred of women rather than plain fact... go poll any 10 pros and see if a single one disagrees. Go ask a few women even! I'm not saying I'm a top pro and my opinion counts as much as theirs, but my opinion about women was formed by reading (and in some cases listening to) actual honest-to-god pros. I'm not pulling this out of my ass. I'd rather see a world where women are neck-and-neck with men and they all compete in the same events. If things ever reach that point I will be thrilled.

There is a distinct difference between Busti and SVB in the last match up they played. [snip...]there are other options available that would also work well should be taken into consideration depending on the traffic on the table, and the percentage of the shot.

To me this just proves the point. Busti and Shane don't have different "styles". Playing better shape is not a style, it's playing better. And when I say there's one right shot, that is AFTER those factors like traffic and missability are taken into consideration.
 
No way, it's an educated statement. It's just something you disagree with. Doesn't mean I pulled it out of my ass. Let's say you have the shot below. Poll some top pros which pocket to play this in, and it's the 9 ball, 20 out of 20 will say play it in the corner. Yes you can play in the side, and even in the other corner. But there's clearly only 1 correct pocket.

Some players will shoot it in the side and just say it's their personal preference. That's the same thing as saying it's their "style". But even make it in the side like 75% of the time, it's still the wrong shot. Some guy somewhere might truly make it in the side here more often than the corner due to some aiming problem, but he can't cop out and keep shooting the side pocket shot and just call it his "style", he needs to fix that problem.

Not all choices are as clear cut as this one, but there will always be a cue ball path that is at least... call it 5% better for some reason or other.

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There is a distinct difference between Busti and SVB in the last match up they played. [snip...]there are other options available that would also work well should be taken into consideration depending on the traffic on the table, and the percentage of the shot.

To me this just proves the point. Busti and Shane don't have different "styles". Playing better shape is not a style, it's playing better. And when I say there's one right shot, that is AFTER those factors like traffic and missability are taken into consideration.


I don't agree with the one shot is right for everybody idea. Here is a counter example:

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In a tournament with jump cues banned and $50,000 on the line, Earl Strickland has probably a 90% chance of jumping the ball in and getting out. Efren on the other hand has a 1% chance of jumping the ball in and getting out. Is the jump still the right shot for Efren? Now this is a sickeningly simple example, and the only one I care to come up with for now, but whether you admit it or not, players have different strengths and weaknesses. Even if say somebody like me works on my banks all day long for a month, I will still be inclined to cut a ball in spots where Shannon Daulton probably has a bank he makes more often than the cut. Not everybody can control their draw as well as Allison Fisher, not everybody can cut balls in like Fong Pang Chao and when it comes down to it the right shot is the shot that gives YOU the highest percentage of winning, not the shot that the fictional combination of Strickland, Efren, Sigel, Mosconi, etc. would pick.
 
JRT and others:

Why is it heart to bet on a 50/50 proposition? If I bet my car in a coin flip is that heart or just stupid? What about the dudes who blow a few bucks every day for most of their adult lives hoping to win the powerball? They are gambling like a thousands bucks a year when they have only a 1 in 100,000,000 chance of winning! Do they have ULTIMATE HEART? =)

About hustling vs. stealing - you have a good point... after The Hustler and TCOM, even total dummies have to know they could be getting hustled. But dumb people still get hustled. I think stealing from stupid people still counts as stealing.

24. People who soak their tips are nuts and may also be a special form of googan. yeah - no. if they think it makes them play better and they go out and play better - it's their deal

I had a friend just put it the same way to me the other day (about golf clubs). The guy who can't hit a ball somehow plays better with his $1000 clubs just because it's a psychological thing... he hits 'em more confidently. I guess that's one way to get a less experienced player to shoot better, but I'm a big fan of not lying to yourself and understanding everything about your game. If a guy thinks he shoots better because of his herbal goat's-milk marinated tip... and nobody calls him out on it... he will also think that when he shoots worse, it's the equipment's fault. He will start saying he missed that ball because he doesn't have the right ferrule or some other BS. A player needs to know exactly what he's doing wrong or right and not rely on superstition.

9 ball being lucky even at the highest level: Let me just say I'm not talking about when a pro slops a ball in, like he meant to play it in the side and it goes in the corner.

Here's where there's luck in 9 ball:
- The break. Yes, corey can do a controlled break and make a specific ball and turn the break into a skill shot. But what about when they force you to break from the box, and don't allow soft breaks, and rack with the 9 on the spot? All you can do is hit'n'hope and getting a look at the 1 when you hit so hard is random.

- I can miss a shot and very easily get safe. There's only 1 legal ball to hit and many blockers. This doesn't happen nearly as often in, say, 8 ball because there's several targets.

- I can kick a ball as well as any human can be asked to (hitting a specific side of the ball with good speed) and still sell out.

- I can (under most rules) get the 9 in on the break, or get an early 9.

- People can run out 4-6 racks in a row. Not saying it's easy or that anyone can do it. But seriously... they say a race to 11 in this game is too short for the top players. And for serious money they are racing to 100 in ten ball (which everyone agrees is less lucky) If the race needs to be 100 GAMES to determine the better player, I'm gonna say the game has some luck issues. Doesn't mean it's not fun or people should stop playing it.

you can always look at shots and make choices - one rail up and down, three rails around, cut it bank it, what do you feel comfortable with. what way do know where they cue is going. no, one right way only is an ignorant statement

No way, it's an educated statement. It's just something you disagree with. Doesn't mean I pulled it out of my ass. Let's say you have the shot below. Poll some top pros which pocket to play this in, and it's the 9 ball, 20 out of 20 will say play it in the corner. Yes you can play in the side, and even in the other corner. But there's clearly only 1 correct pocket.

Some players will shoot it in the side and just say it's their personal preference. That's the same thing as saying it's their "style". But even make it in the side like 75% of the time, it's still the wrong shot. Some guy somewhere might truly make it in the side here more often than the corner due to some aiming problem, but he can't cop out and keep shooting the side pocket shot and just call it his "style", he needs to fix that problem.

Not all choices are as clear cut as this one, but there will always be a cue ball path that is at least... call it 5% better for some reason or other.



BigPerm: Now I know the correct term for the funny little shakes I've had forever =) I have small shakes sometimes during my practice strokes, and maybe even during my final backswing. But when I stroke they disappear. But it sounds like plenty of people have a similar problem and it WILL affect their stroke/swing. If alcohol fixes that, then I stand corrected. But keep in mind I said "drunk". I'm not talking about a little alcohol to smooth out the shakes.

TJlkihjlembkr: I never know how to read your name. I mentally read it as "timberlaker". Anyway, I gotta see it to believe it =) Everyone I've met "knows a guy". But I never personally knew a guy who shot better drunk.

28. Straight pool is the most pure pool game, even though it's mostly dead.
-this is just your opinion

Dude, it's a scientific fact. Straight pool: More balls sunk than any other game and uses all of the pockets. How much more proof do you need?!! lol.




o.k. let me clarify the 50/50 proposition statement i made. it shows heart to put yourself in a situation to gamble not be stupid. i consider it a gamble when you are trying to match skills evenly. coin flipping is for retards who hate thier money. that takes no heart it just takes no brain - like betting on a sport if you don't know anytihng about the game or the teams playing.

in regards to the stealing - if you are dumb and you get hustled it's still your fault. your in a pool hall a place where you know it can happen. no one called you at home and scammed you on the phone. let me use this example if you are in the worst part of town in the dead of night waving around a hundred dollar bill and someone takes it from you i don't blame them, i blame you. it's a rough world and it's your job to protect yourself best you can. it's not stealling if you're giving it away, you gotta be smart enough to protect yourself.

superstition gets all kinds of athletes through the day. a guy in the batter's box who has to tap the bat three times, do and undo his velcro on the batting glove six times and then spit before he settles in - and then hits a home run - i say if it gets you through, then do it.

here's where there's the same luck is in all games. you go to break in one hole, everything goes sweetley towards your pocket, exceprt one ball - you get a bad roll and it leaves a tough shot, but a shot for your opponent - and he runs four or five off of it. you go for a safe in straight pool and you just don't quite get there you leave a little opening and boom you just started a 40 ball run for the enemy. once the table is open in any game you can get a good roll and luck a safe - it may happen more in 9ball but it happens in all games. i can go back and forth all day on this but i will concede that so can you. i just like 9ball and hate when people attack it for being a know nothing's game. it takes a great deal of skill to work that rack of balls just like any other game. and there are sellouts in every game, especially one pocket and straight pool - all you have to do is miss once against a good player and it can go horribly wrong in a hurry.

i should not have called your statement ignorant - that was ignorant of me. i still think it is wrong even with your explanation. yes there are some shots that may have one clear path, but when trying to get shape there may be a few different avenues you can travel. and no the shooter is not wrong to play the side. again that's you saying that the corner is the only correct shot and no 20 out of 20 may not say the corner. i can argue the side is a safer bet because if you miss that corner you just sold out, you miss that side and the nine rolls down to the middle of the bottom rail somwhere while the cue sticks near the side. i know one pocket player that hen they play other games will takes bank shots all day over hard cuts because it's their preference. and that's what i'd rather call it. not a style but a preference. if you do something better, say banking over cutting, or hard short cuts to a side pocket over a long smooth cut to a corner it's not a style it's a choice and the one that gives you the higher percentage of making the shot is the only right one, not the one 20 railbirds will look at and say it's the right one.

i need more proof than it uses all six pockets and there are more balls sunk. i like straight pool and and i may agree with you but i'm not sold and you didn't me with that argument. i need more and judging by your avatar you should be able to convince me with more.

in closing i hope you don't read my answers as attacks. i like this thread. i think it's good healthy discussion about the game we all love. and i apologize again for calling your opinion ignorant. that was my ignorance showing it's ugly head.
 
1. The stick hardly matters at all. If it's straight and has a decent tip, and the shaft isn't all sticky... a house cue is pretty much just as good as a thousand dollar cue.

I Agree, if you mean that one stick can't do what another can. I disagree in that better cues will feel better and are more enjoyable to use. Also, using the same stick every time, even a $50 Players, will enable you to get used to the deflection characteristics that would be very hard to do changing cues all the time. To be fair, this is also true for guys who buy a new cue every month.

2. You don't need to gamble to get good (yes, even pro) at pool.

I Agree that you don't have to gamble to get good. But playing well under pressure does require a certain something, and gambling can help you to strengthen it. So can tournaments and league play. I think you can also get this in training, when you're trying to break your record against the ghost, or top your high run, or complete a difficult drill, but you don't get the pressure as often that way, at least most people don't.

3. There's no such thing as a "nit" or a "locksmith". People who only book winners and only play safe games are smart. People who play games where they're 50/50 to win or worse are insane and hate money.

Po-TAY-to, po-TAH-to

4. If you ever said "I hit it too hard/soft" after missing a ball, you're a dink. Speed hardly affects the cut angle.

Technically almost exactly correct, except that throw will affect the object ball path more with a softer hit, via english or collision induction. I get your point, though, and most people who say this every time they miss are just kidding themselves. Most players will not stroke as well when hitting the ball hard though, so in that sense they could be right.

5. On the same subject, collision induced throw is overrated. It's barely going to affect your shot.

It's not an insignificant issue, it's just that you are probably already compensating for it subconsciously.

6. Tight pockets are overrated. This game is better and more fun on pockets where 2 balls can fit easily.

"Better" gets you in trouble here. "More fun" depends on who you are talking about. Probably true for 80% of players, though.

7. Silver Cup chalk is ass.

No personal experience, but a nearly 100% agree rating by previous posters doesn't make me want to even bother trying it.

8. Cloth colors other than green or tournament blue are either ugly to look at or hell to play on.

I like the tradition associated with green, but tournament blue has better contrast against the balls without being ugly, imho. I played on tan once and it was fine, just uncommon. Black, red and purple are worse than green re:contrast, and are ugly to boot. I noticed you didn't slam two tone tables; what about them?;)

9. Simonis is still the best, even though other guys have come a long way and might beat their pricing.

Not enough personal experience. That and room owners often will dissemble about the kind of cloth in use.

10. The guys who insist it's more "skillful" to play on slow grungy nappy cloth like in olden times are nuts.

It does take more stroke to move the cue ball around the table, but it requires less touch on shorter shots. My personal preference is for the newer, faster cloth. It certainly has not ruined the game in any way, nor has it made it easier to turn pro.

11. 760 is better than 860 or anything else for playing straight pool.

No personal experience

12. Hand powder is lame. Get a glove.

"Lame" is in the eye of the beholder. My view is you can use anything on your hand you want to, but keep it off the table.

13. Jump cues are fine, they don't need to be banned and extra-hard tips don't need to be banned unless it's literally going to chip the cue ball.

Jumping is a skill, just like kicking. Use one or both, your choice. Should break cues should be banned too?

14. In 8 ball, racking order doesn't matter. The end result is gonna be random anyway.

Non-random racking doesn't guarantee a non-random result, but it sure helps. A random racking will also avoid the appearance of impropriety, also a good thing. Like always putting the one ball as the head ball in 8 Ball, instead of the six ball.

15. Nobody really plays better drunk or high, they just say they do because they think it sounds cool or funny. Even if ralph greenleaf really was drunk when he shot well, he'd shoot EVEN BETTER dead sober.

The closer a person is to being an alcoholic or drug addict, the less true your statement is. If they eventually dried out and were no longer addicted or affected by shakes/DTs whatever, then you might be right. And there are a lot more people who imbibe heavily than you might think.

16. There's no such thing as a "rack mechanic", that's just a derogatory term people made up for the smart guys who learn how to read a rack vs. the dummies who just hit'n'hope.

Sounds to me like you just haven't played against one.

17. Cuetecs wouldn't be bad if it weren't for the shiny crap on the shaft that chafes on your bridge when you're stroking with 'em.

No personal experience

18. Paying a ton of money for a custom cue just to have it and rarely (if ever) play with it is a little nuts. Not a lot, just a little.

I don't do it, but I don't expect other people to be like me. What people spend their money on is their own business. What they do with what they buy is too. Is having a nicer home nuts, or a nicer car? To each his own.

19. People who hustle are pretty much just thieves and con artists, but for some weird reason we look up to them anyway. I guess because sometimes the shark turns out to be the fish and we all dream of being the guy who sends the road warrior home broke.

Hustling depends on lying and fraud in order to work. Only a low life person thinks this is in any way a good thing. Anywhere in life, not just in the pool hall.

20. The money in pool is so crappy it would never make sense to have it as a career. Better to treat it like a hobby that you make a living from only if you're incredibly lucky, and even then not for the rest of your life, and even then you better have a Plan B.

The money is low except for a very few. That agreed to, so what? Why do you insist that what makes sense to you is what's best for everyone else?

21. Even though bar boxes have their own set of skills and can be interesting for gambling or whatever.. for the most part playing on little tables is not "real" pool.

You sure do think a lot of your own opinion. I'm not fond of 7 footers either, but I don't think less of those who prefer them. Do you think less of people who like beans instead of corn?

22. We're well rid of 10 footers. 9 is just right. 8 and 7 are too small.

And you have lots of those strong opinions too, I see.

23. If you don't run multiple racks every night and you own 500+ bucks worth of pool stuff, you're a googan.

While you decry the dearth of money in pool, you mock the people who buy the products from the companies that put in most of the money. Do you know how the world works?

24. People who soak their tips are nuts and may also be a special form of googan.

Never tried it, so I can't say it doesn't work. Did people say this about the guy who first used a layered tip?

25. Ultimate googaning includes specifying a custom cue weight to the half ounce, worrying about how the inlays might affect the hit, and obsessing over the joint.

If you're going to buy something specifically to be exactly what you like, shouldn't you do exactly that?

26. You can stick a LD shaft on pretty much any butt and your cue will play great. The butt doesn't matter much.

Other than matching them together so the balance is right for you, I think you are correct. But you went further than you had to. Any good shaft would be sufficient, it doesn't have to be LD.

27. The top women can't beat the top men. I have no idea why, it should be possible, but the best men give the best women 2 or 3 balls. I don't want it to be that way, but I think it's true.

You are correct that the top men are better than the top women, but I think you may be a little high on the spot. I also thought you were quite clear that this was not intended as chauvanism. My 1st guess as to why is that so many more men play than women, it makes sense that the cream of the much larger crop is a little better. A 2nd reason is that on average women are shorter and have to use the bridge more or play more difficult positioning to avoid needing the bridge.

28. Straight pool is the most pure pool game, even though it's mostly dead.

I'm not a fan of "What I like is good, what you like is crap."

29. 9 ball is a lucky game even at the highest level.

Not true at the highest levels. More true as player proficiency declines. Is this meant to bolster your elevated opinion of Straight Pool?

30. There are no 'styles' in pool. Those guys who say playing a shot one way vs. the other is a matter of preference... they're dead wrong. There is a single right shot for any situation, which has the highest chance of success and has the best risk/reward ratio.

This too is crap. All players have different strengths and weaknesses, and the smart ones will take those into account when they choose how to play each shot. I watched Tony Crosby play a difficult drill a few times yesterday, and the first time he ran the ten balls he drew the cue ball with english, going one rail across the table each time. The very next time he ran the same drill and ran the cue ball forward two or three rails around the corner to get his shape. It seemed like he was just having fun with what to me was a very difficult drill. My point here is that those two approaches are completely different styles of play that both worked equally well. He got his shape perfectly on every ball. Now, some of us mere mortals will prefer one approach to the other because we are better at that approach and will be more confident. When playing they should go with what will work best for them. Later, in practice, they might want to work on their weaknesses, so that they have more options.

Thanks for the very interesting thread, and your willingness to say what you think, even if controversial. Green to you.
 
SKcues: Why does life have to be about gambling and taking risks?! Who said? Maybe in cheesy hollywood movies, you aren't living life unless you ride on the roof of a train, ask the incredibly hot girl out and risk painful rejection, or spend your last dollar on a european backpacking adventure while being chased by professional killers with martial arts skills. I think it's a perfectly good life to wake up, go to work, pay bills, not get shot at, and play some serious pool for bragging rights in the evening. Why is it ignorant to avoid risk? I think betting 10K on a coin flip is ignorant, if we're gonna throw that word around =)

Why does life have to be about gambling and taking risks? Because to live life is a risk everyday. Otherwise, you should just stay in your house and never do anything or go anywhere. Life on today's standards are on somewhat low standards because too many people lack the understanding of what it truly means to take a chance, wouldn't you agree? Wake up, go to work, pay your bills, come home, feed the dog, watch TV, occasionally play some pool, and do it all over again day after day, after day, after day, right? That isn't a bad thing, it would be nice to look back in your life at 98 yrs old and say, "Man! I am proud of my life's work." By life work, I mean finding the gift that God gave you and manifesting that into a reality. We don't see enough of that today, and to pursue that is a gamble. Look at all the people who risked their life to become truly great on the stage of history: Christopher Columbus, Mathama Ghandi, Martin Luther King Jr., Henry Ford, Jesus Christ, Isaac Newton, Alexander the Great, Genghis Khan. I'm not saying you have to be like in the movies or ever close to what these great people have done, but it is in the power of the human spirit that we must move forward with confidence without letting the fear of losing dominate us. We should all aim to think big and consider what is the ultimate destiny in our life and pursue that. Anyone who's started their own business knows that they have a considerable chance of losing everything they own. Anyone who goes out and buys a house is taking a huge risk. Having children is a gamble and incredibly risky. To say that it isn't is plain ignorant. We should all be on top of our gambling and risk taking skills when it comes to life. Playing it safe and staying inside our little comfort zones is why many people never go anywhere in life. Anyone of these wonderful cue makers here on AZ took a huge risk to do what they do to buy the supplies, equipment, and make the commitment to get up everyday and manifest their dream into a reality. That is a gamble that could lead to either direction, but, because they have love for what they do, and love for their family, they get their ass up everyday and go into the shop. That is the essence of life. Listening to your heart out of love, but that is a huge risk to live that way, or we can just play it safe and wake up everyday and do something that you know in your heart you really don't want to do.:yeah:


You DO understand that the vast majority of pool is played for free, not for stakes, right? Parents with their kids, boyfriends and girlfriends, buddies after work, kids in the college rec room... and yeah, guys like me who are serious about pool but don't care to gamble.

Sure, I understand that, but if and when you do decide to lay even a dollar on the line, that will separate you from the rest of the one's who lack the power to control their fear of losing.:thumbup2:



27. The top women can't beat the top men. I have no idea why, it should be possible, but the best men give the best women 2 or 3 balls. I don't want it to be that way, but I think it's true.

-That is your biased opinion, and it clearly displays how little you understand about life.

I think it shows more bias and ignorance on your part to assume you know me based on that one statement. I thought I worded it carefully enough for everyone to understand that
A: I don't look down on women and
B: I believe they SHOULD be able to play as well as the top men.. but for some weird unknown reason they just don't.

Could be physical, could be mental, could be some societal thing that is keeping women players down. I don't know. Pool doesn't need brawn and women are our equal in other departments. Maybe being able to hit harder on the breaks really matters that much. I have no doubt the top women can plan a runout or execute a safe as well as the top men. But if you put Allison against Johnny Archer, he's got to give her weight to make it a fair match. If you need stats instead of "what-ifs" then look at any record you care to name... highest run in straight pool, longest consecutive string or racks in 9-b or 10b, most money won by playing tournaments, largest trophy collection, etc... it's all guys. The one thing they have done better is market themselves. They're on ESPN more.

If you think any of this is an ignorant and biased opinion that's based on hatred of women rather than plain fact... go poll any 10 pros and see if a single one disagrees. Go ask a few women even! I'm not saying I'm a top pro and my opinion counts as much as theirs, but my opinion about women was formed by reading (and in some cases listening to) actual honest-to-god pros. I'm not pulling this out of my ass. I'd rather see a world where women are neck-and-neck with men and they all compete in the same events. If things ever reach that point I will be thrilled.

I am not saying you are a woman hater, and I don't assume to know you, because I don't, but by revealing that statement shows how little you understand about life. Not saying that I am so much smarter than you either, just pointing something out. I recognize that women are weaker than men in some ways, but in other ways, they are more powerful. To understand this is to understand human nature and should therefore be accepted by those who understand this principle. To comment like you did shows how immature and young you are in your thinking and proves the simple fact that you do not have enough life experience to understand the difference between men and women. When it comes to most anything physically demanding, or sporting in nature, men have the women beat. To publicly say that though, is not necessary and should be avoided because it is a negative comment and has no real purpose. Men are external beings, and women are internal beings. Think on that.

There is a distinct difference between Busti and SVB in the last match up they played. [snip...]there are other options available that would also work well should be taken into consideration depending on the traffic on the table, and the percentage of the shot.

To me this just proves the point. Busti and Shane don't have different "styles". Playing better shape is not a style, it's playing better. And when I say there's one right shot, that is AFTER those factors like traffic and missability are taken into consideration.

I agree about the final shot, that there is 'one right shot' with the highest percentage of making the ball and the lowest percentage of getting out of line, but that all depends on your experience which translates into style. A novice can't do the same things that a person of Bustamante's skill level and will have much fewer options, but a confident and superior player can choose to do things that are impossible to imagine on a recreational level. So, in essence there is a professional style of play, and a recreational style of play, and within the professional style, there are different styles of play including getting shape. Busti's stance, stroke, bridge, and attitude demonstrate a clear difference of style compared to SVB. Style is in the way they wear their clothes, the type of hair style they have, they way they walk, talk, and act. The way they stroke the cue ball and the result that is created from that is included under all of that. If it is a person's tendency to get bad shape, we can call that their style. If it a person's tendency to break like king kong, it is considered to be part of their style. If it is a tendency for Busti to come two rails out of the corner, it can be called his style, or his way of getting around the table. Style, method, way, mean all the same things, or very similar in my book.:yes:

Very stimulating post. No offense taken here, either. It's nice to finally have some worthy material to get gritty about without someone's panties getting all in a bunch. :eek:

Note to all members: What wee should all learn from this post is to overcome the tendency to get defensive remembering that this is a forum for discussion and try and investigate all the facts before pointing the finger.
 
Masayoshi: I like the way you think and make your point. I admit I sometimes a player to do what they're comfortable with rather than doing the absolutely right shot.. because they're in a tournament or league match or whatever, and it's the wrong time to try something unfamiliar.

I'll say if you can win with the wrong shot and winning the match in front of you is really important, then go with what you know. If you're interested in bettering your overall game, and you can afford to lose.. do it the correct way. If efren's playing for fun he should jump it, but for 40K of course he can afford to let this "practice opportunity" pass and maybe work on those jumps later.

jrt: don't sweat it about the ignorance comment =) At least you weren't as offensive as sk cues ;D

Gambling: If it's matched so evenly that it's a dead even guess which player is gonna win, isn't that more or less the same as flipping a coin (only more fun and it takes longer)? When the outcome is totally uncertain, betting a lot seems ..unwise. You can play your best and still go home broke.

Some guys would argue "maybe it's normally 50/50, but one guy might choke on the money while the other really bears down and plays his best". I guess I'll buy that.. then it might make sense to gamble if you already know you have that edge, the 'choke factor'. That means it's not truly 50/50 going in. But if I didn't know who played better under stress, I wouldn't bet big money just to find out (or to get respect).

Hustling vs. stealing: This isn't really about whether the victim is smart or stupid. What I'm saying is that the guy doing it is sleazy, no matter who the victim is. You wouldn't say it's ok to be a rapist just because a woman walked around in a bad neighborhood with a miniskirt, (I hope) so why is it ok to hustle just because the victim 'should have known better'? Are those guys who try to scam people out of thousands with junk emails dirtbags, or are they basically cool people since you have to be an idiot to fall for that stuff?

Superstition: I guess as long as someone is clear that they're being superstitious, they can do whatever =) My problem is not with guys who (for example) choose a certain inlay because they convinced themselves there's a real scientific reason that they won't hit the ball as well with one inlay vs. a different one. If they want to choose it because they won their last tournament with it, or it just looks pretty, that's cool.

9b: I'll admit there's plenty of luck in other games. It's just worse in 9 ball than those other games. Is it so bad the game's totally unfair and not fun? Nope.. But there's so much luck that the race has to be really long compared to other less lucky games. That's why pros are moving away from 9b and going to 10b (both in tournaments and gambling). To be more clear, I'm not saying it's ALL luck or anything. I'm not one of those guys who never gets out so I think the game sucks. I've run many racks and can appreciate the skill involved. I know the better player comes out on top over a long enough race. But who wants to play 120 games just to be SURE it's not a fluke?

1 right shot: i can argue the side is a safer bet because if you miss that corner you just sold out, you miss that side and the nine rolls down to the middle of the bottom rail somwhere while the cue sticks near the side.

I wasn't clear maybe. When I say there's 1 right shot, I don't mean there's just the cue ball and object ball, and nothing else. I mean a real game situation where you must factor in traffic, make %, chances of selling out, risk of bad shape, and 1000 other little things. Your brain factors in all those little things and comes up with a best option. The better players know more of those "little things" and they're better at estimating the odds on a shot (like they might know the side pocket shot is really 80% when the amateur sees it as 95%).

When two pros see the shot differently, it isn't because both options are just perfectly exactly just as good as the other, and both require the exact same skill level in speed control, shotmaking, spin, judgment, etc. It's because one of the guys sees something a little 'off' compared to the other guy, like he thinks the speed on route A is easier than route B but it's actually harder, or whatever.

Straight pool purity: I was mostly being a wiseass in that reply. Of course I can't prove this, it's opinion =) I think that if you are trying to sink 150 balls in a row, that's a LOT of shotmaking and a LOT of position play. You can't let up mentally for a second. And you can't even TRY to do something like that in other games. And every break shot is its own little test of nerves and shooting ability and control.. something special that comes up every 15 shots. I just think that's pretty neat. And there's more controlled cluster breaking, which is one of the best tests of brains and CB control. And you have to move in a ton of traffic and occasionally make a tester because you can't easily hide the cue ball from every other ball on the table. And there are some weird little skills like spotting tricky dead balls in the middle of a large cluster, and at least a few combos.

I wouldn't disagree if someone said "but there's hardly any banks, kicks, jumps, or 3 rail position shots, and those are all an important". But you'll see some of that stuff (and a fair number of combos) in straight pool.

grampa: You should be my real grampa because we agree on a lot. I especially like what you had to say on hustling. I never saw two tone cloth but I've seen cloth with logos on it. Sounds awful.

That agreed to, so what? Why do you insist that what makes sense to you is what's best for everyone else?

You seem too bright to say that =( "insist" implies I'm kinda ramming my way of seeing things down other people's throats. I'm not trying to force anyone to do anything. I'm offering opinions (some of which are apparently too bold for you) on various pool topics. Absolutely nobody on earth has to do what I say, or even agree with me. They don't even have to read it, they can leave the topic after reading one line. Some of the stuff I think is more fact than opinion, but I mixed in a few debatable ones because that's what makes forums fun.

You sure do think a lot of your own opinion. I'm not fond of 7 footers either, but I don't think less of those who prefer them. Do you think less of people who like beans instead of corn?

Well, you say that like I'm some kind of a-hole :) But of course I believe my opinion is best. If I felt someone else's opinion was better... I'd switch to their opinion. I wouldn't hold on to mine even though it's not as good as someone else's. Sometimes, this actually happens... I have an opinion, and then someone else has an opinion I think it's better, so I switch. This happens through the magical process of forum debate, which can't happen unless someone is willing to look like a real jerk by expressing opinions.

As for beans and corn... it's more like beans vs. smaller, less tasty beans in a harder to open can.

While you decry the dearth of money in pool, you mock the people who buy the products from the companies that put in most of the money. Do you know how the world works?

No grampa, please explain it to me since you are smarter and apparently a better human being than I am! If you think there's hypocrisy here, so be it. But there's money in golf and if a noob drops 2 grand in clubs and he has no idea how to use him, I'm gonna call him a googan too. I think golf is where the term came from actually.

If you're going to buy something specifically to be exactly what you like, shouldn't you do exactly that?

Sure, I'm just skeptical when someone claims they know what they like to the half ounce or fraction of a millimeter. It's like... "standard 24 fret guitars aren't good enough for me. I need 48 frets so I can play notes in quarter steps". Past a point it gets silly.

My 1st guess as to why is that so many more men play than women, it makes sense that the cream of the much larger crop is a little better. A 2nd reason is that on average women are shorter and have to use the bridge more or play more difficult positioning to avoid needing the bridge.

Height's a really interesting point. No idea if it's a major factor or not, but that's the first time I've seen it. Most people go straight for the "they can't break as hard" routine, but then a woman would have run 200-400 balls by now in straight pool if that was the issue.

I'm not a fan of "What I like is good, what you like is crap."

And I'm not a fan of dudes putting words in my mouth >_<
Where do I say or even imply that the other games are crap? Maybe I rag on 9 ball a bit but I never everything else is CRAP. Sheesh. What's more presumptuous, me telling you how much to spend on a stick... or you implying I should keep some of my opinions to myself? In any case I bet you have formed your own personal opinion on what the best game is. It's ok if you don't want to share it with me for fear of offending me.

SK:
I can see you feel strongly on the subject, and maybe you're on to something. I can certainly afford to bet a dollar now and then. So if that's enough to fit your definition of getting out and living a little, I'm game =)

Here's where I personally can't get into gambling - the reward is never as nice as the risk. When I win, I am not all that happy. I am merely satisfied. I expected to win and my expectations came true. If I don't win, I start to get pissed. Multiply that by 10,000 bucks. When I win, I might be happy, but to be honest it's more like I'd be "relieved". Winning 10K wouldn't be like hitting a lotto jackpot. It'd be closer to the feeling of "oh shít, where'd I put the baby? The baby's missing! Oh my god stress stress stress stress OH WHEW THERE HE IS"

And if I lose? It'd be the worst sinking feeling of despair and self-hatred and rage. I'd be royally pissed for weeks. I'd have to fade being upset and broke at the same time.
Maybe it's a flaw in me and other people get this amazing wonderful feeling when they win a big set.

I am not saying you are a woman hater, and I don't assume to know you, because I don't, but by revealing that statement shows how little you understand about life. Not saying that I am so much smarter than you either, just pointing something out. I recognize that women are weaker than men in some ways, but in other ways, they are more powerful. To understand this is to understand human nature and should therefore be accepted by those who understand this principle. To comment like you did shows how immature and young you are in your thinking and proves the simple fact that you do not have enough life experience to understand the difference between men and women. When it comes to most anything physically demanding, or sporting in nature, men have the women beat. To publicly say that though, is not necessary and should be avoided because it is a negative comment and has no real purpose. Men are external beings, and women are internal beings. Think on that.

I think between the two of us, you are showing your ass (and misperceptions) a bit more than I am :)

The only thing I think a woman can't do in this sport is hit 'em hard. You kind of imply they're weaker in other ways aside from physical strength. Like what? And you also go out of your way to say we not only have them beat this sport but ANYTHING sporting in nature. Holy crap, that's a bold and seemingly misogynistic statement!

Of course I don't think you hate women any more than I do, and you mean well, but it's super condescending to talk to me as if you're the wise and worldly sensitive guy who gets women and understands the differences on a deeper level than I do. You're merely the guy who is more willing to throw out seemingly deep statements like "Men are external beings, and women are internal beings." The goofiness of that statement reveals a lot about you. Where I am the brash and insensentive youth who has a lot of growing up to do before he can understand women, you are the aging armchair psychoanalyst who aspires to be fully in touch with his feelings and surroundings.. someone who wants come across as wise and emotionally mature because you really hope that shtick can get you laid.

How's it feel to be judged based on one sentence. Pretty awesome?
But in all seriousness, thought we're on the same page, you're still doing it. You're acting as if you know more about me than you do, and you're coming across as smug and superior. It's super irritating and I don't envy those around you who can't avoid it... but you're probably an alright guy otherwise.
 
I've commented on the ones I had thoughts on.

2. You don't need to gamble to get good (yes, even pro) at pool.
Extremely True. But playing $1 games has gotten me in the zone a few times.

4. If you ever said "I hit it too hard/soft" after missing a ball, you're a dink. Speed hardly affects the cut angle.
It does if your stroke is still shitty like mine!

5. On the same subject, collision induced throw is overrated. It's barely going to affect your shot.
Throw definitely affects your shot...

6. Tight pockets are overrated. This game is better and more fun on pockets where 2 balls can fit easily.
Actually I find it more challenging. My school's tables suck. When you learn how to play pool with buckets for pockets, you SUCK when you go to a real pool hall. I don't mind the tighter pockets.

7. Silver Cup chalk is ass.
Master's ONLY.

12. Hand powder is lame. Get a glove.
Hand powder is lame. Get a glove. Better yet, clean your hands.

14. In 8 ball, racking order doesn't matter. The end result is gonna be random anyway.
Agreed. I don't care what 'house' rules you learned or what your dad taught you. If you hit them they will scatter enough to be random.

16. There's no such thing as a "rack mechanic", that's just a derogatory term people made up for the smart guys who learn how to read a rack vs. the dummies who just hit'n'hope.
I can only read a rack for one shot in 9-ball. I'd love to learn how to read the rack in 14.1

17. Cuetecs wouldn't be bad if it weren't for the shiny crap on the shaft that chafes on your bridge when you're stroking with 'em.
My first cue was a Cuetec Excalibur. Fiberglass wrapped wood core. I bought it because it was warp resistant. I scratched it on a metal bridge and its broken for life. I also warped it after practicing my break for 3 hours straight.

18. Paying a ton of money for a custom cue just to have it and rarely (if ever) play with it is a little nuts. Not a lot, just a little.
I'll collect anything. Started on pokemon cards and if I can afford it, I'll do the same to cues.

19. People who hustle are pretty much just thieves and con artists, but for some weird reason we look up to them anyway. I guess because sometimes the shark turns out to be the fish and we all dream of being the guy who sends the road warrior home broke.
Because its funny to take money away from people who can't limit themselves when gambling :D

20. The money in pool is so crappy it would never make sense to have it as a career. Better to treat it like a hobby that you make a living from only if you're incredibly lucky, and even then not for the rest of your life, and even then you better have a Plan B.
I'm a Network Engineer!

23. If you don't run multiple racks every night and you own 500+ bucks worth of pool stuff, you're a googan.
I just did a rough tally of the money I've spent on my case and cues. It's roughly $1600. I've only run maybe 2 games of 8ball and 9ball [each] I am the king of googans.

24. People who soak their tips are nuts and may also be a special form of googan.
Everest + Milk ?

25. Ultimate googaning includes specifying a custom cue weight to the half ounce, worrying about how the inlays might affect the hit, and obsessing over the joint.
If I'm paying for it, I'll specify the knots, the figure, and even the way it cuts through the air when I stroke.

26. You can stick a LD shaft on pretty much any butt and your cue will play great. The butt doesn't matter much.
True. Keyword much. Cause if your joint collar is literally falling off due to shoddy workmanship, then the butt does matter. *cough*

28. Straight pool is the most pure pool game, even though it's mostly dead.
I have a love hate relationship with this game.

29. 9 ball is a lucky game even at the highest level.
Shape play? You can get lucky all you want on the bench if you can't play shape.

30. There are no 'styles' in pool. Those guys who say playing a shot one way vs. the other is a matter of preference... they're dead wrong. There is a single right shot for any situation, which has the highest chance of success and has the best risk/reward ratio.
There definitely are 'styles'. They are as follows: good, great, pro, decent, sloppy, shitty, WTF WERE YOU THINKING, ballbanging.
 
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A novice opinion....

I haven't been playing for long, so I don't exactly have much to say.

But one thing I found interesting...like tennis, there are styles, or tendencies people have towards the game. Some people are pure baseliners, serve and volley, and counter punchers, while some can play an all round game.

Personally, I feel that your 'style' is a reflection of what you're capable/confident of and comfortable with.

30. There are no 'styles' in pool. Those guys who say playing a shot one way vs. the other is a matter of preference... they're dead wrong. There is a single right shot for any situation, which has the highest chance of success and has the best risk/reward ratio.
There definitely are 'styles'. They are as follows: good, great, pro, decent, sloppy, shitty, WTF WERE YOU THINKING, ballbanging.

With that all said....I think my game is of the 'WTF WERE YOU THINKING' variety.
 
SK:
I can see you feel strongly on the subject, and maybe you're on to something. I can certainly afford to bet a dollar now and then. So if that's enough to fit your definition of getting out and living a little, I'm game =)

I have a huge reason to feel the way I do and if I come across as offensive, I apologize, but that's not my intention.

Here's where I personally can't get into gambling - the reward is never as nice as the risk. When I win, I am not all that happy. I am merely satisfied. I expected to win and my expectations came true. If I don't win, I start to get pissed. Multiply that by 10,000 bucks. When I win, I might be happy, but to be honest it's more like I'd be "relieved". Winning 10K wouldn't be like hitting a lotto jackpot. It'd be closer to the feeling of "oh shít, where'd I put the baby? The baby's missing! Oh my god stress stress stress stress OH WHEW THERE HE IS"

I certainly understand your point of view and agree with you, and acknowledge that everyone has their reasons for doing what they do, but if a person doesn't learn to control their emotions, they can never really master themselves. It appears that you could use more development in conditioning your emotions.

And if I lose? It'd be the worst sinking feeling of despair and self-hatred and rage. I'd be royally pissed for weeks. I'd have to fade being upset and broke at the same time.
Maybe it's a flaw in me and other people get this amazing wonderful feeling when they win a big set.

I don't know, at least you can be incredibly honest with your feelings, and that's not easy to do. I admire you for that.


I am not saying you are a woman hater, and I don't assume to know you, because I don't, but by revealing that statement shows how little you understand about life. Not saying that I am so much smarter than you either, just pointing something out. I recognize that women are weaker than men in some ways, but in other ways, they are more powerful. To understand this is to understand human nature and should therefore be accepted by those who understand this principle. To comment like you did shows how immature and young you are in your thinking and proves the simple fact that you do not have enough life experience to understand the difference between men and women. When it comes to most anything physically demanding, or sporting in nature, men have the women beat. To publicly say that though, is not necessary and should be avoided because it is a negative comment and has no real purpose. Men are external beings, and women are internal beings. Think on that.

I think between the two of us, you are showing your ass (and misperceptions) a bit more than I am :)

The only thing I think a woman can't do in this sport is hit 'em hard. You kind of imply they're weaker in other ways aside from physical strength. Like what? And you also go out of your way to say we not only have them beat this sport but ANYTHING sporting in nature. Holy crap, that's a bold and seemingly misogynistic statement!

All I can say is that there is the nature of the sexes. It's no big secret that women are physically less able than men. This goes with anything of that nature and sports are included in that nature. Men's basketball vs. women's basketball, PGA vs. the LPGA, and so on. Call me misogynistic or even chauvinistic for saying that, but I felt it was necessary to get my point across to you. I don't normally go around stating stuff like that out of the blue like you did. Why question women and men as if you didn't know unless you truly didn't? I don't understand that. You acted like you had no idea why women couldn't compete against men which gives me the impression you are either making derogatory comments about women for immature reasons, or just plain don't understand the nature between men and women. Wouldn't you think the same thing?


Of course I don't think you hate women any more than I do, and you mean well, but it's super condescending to talk to me as if you're the wise and worldly sensitive guy who gets women and understands the differences on a deeper level than I do. You're merely the guy who is more willing to throw out seemingly deep statements like "Men are external beings, and women are internal beings." The goofiness of that statement reveals a lot about you. Where I am the brash and insensentive youth who has a lot of growing up to do before he can understand women, you are the aging armchair psychoanalyst who aspires to be fully in touch with his feelings and surroundings.. someone who wants come across as wise and emotionally mature because you really hope that shtick can get you laid.

You call me condescending, but you also think I mean well. What is the only type of person in the world who you can call both? I will let you figure that one out for yourself. Let me give you a hint. it's not an aging armchair psychoanalyst... well, I am getting up there in age.....I'm sorry if I made you feel offended, but that wasn't my intention, I was simply trying to point something out.



How's it feel to be judged based on one sentence. Pretty awesome?
But in all seriousness, thought we're on the same page, you're still doing it. You're acting as if you know more about me than you do, and you're coming across as smug and superior. It's super irritating and I don't envy those around you who can't avoid it... but you're probably an alright guy otherwise

You're right, I probably do sound as you describe, and I apologize that I irritated you, but please understand that was not the object of my comments. When you figure out what my position in life is, you will understand my comments better. If you truly did understand the nature of men and women, why question it? That doesn't make sense.

Thank you for considering me as an alright guy, I feel the same way about you. As a matter of fact, I consider you to be a person of above average intellect and admire you for having the creativity of battling such extensive posts for I dunno how many hours now. Great job.
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SK: No offense taken on the "get out and bet a dollar" part of your post(s) :)

As for the part I actually got offended at... I dunno what to say. Yes, I can see there are intrinsic differences between men and women. Yeah, it's not just physical. If I wanted to generalize on the subject I'd say they're probably less competitive, and I think that's because they're hardwired to be less confrontational. And they're probably that way because they grow up with the physical limitations of a female body and they don't expect to solve problems fighting. There are fewer women (per capita) with this killer competitive mindset that you need to reach the top of this sport or any other. Maybe some top women are competitive for a different reason... like she's not out to dominate and prove she's above all the rest, she's out to prove she can hang with the boys or excel in areas that break gender stereotypes.

Still my feeling is that... even if their motivations and mindsets are different, their ability to train muscle memory, stroke a ball, and plan a runout are all the same, or close enough not to matter. I don't think it's offensive to point out that despite having these tools they haven't managed to best men in a major event.

You make it sound like I'm going out of my way to say "hey, look at the guy in the wheelchair trying to get up that ramp". I'm not pointing out a shameful weakness that is better left unmentioned. I'm genuinely wondering what the holdup is. Someone probably wondered aloud why there were no female millionaires until it happened. I think women can and should be able to get at least one title in a mixed field, or beat a top male pro even in a long race. Shane just lost to Yu Ram Cha in the Predator world 10-ball event. Even if she never beats him in a race to 100, do you truly think she can't win this even if everything clicks?

We could both "lose" this debate if that happens, and I'd be thrilled.
 
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