I would like to say thank you to all of you and especially to Canadian Cue who spent a good deal of his Saturday on the phone with me analyzing what I was doing and where I was going wrong. I turns out the vast majority of my problem was in prep.
Now I'm not pointing fingers but when I first started I bought some videos produced by a really smart guy from Florida and I have always been stuck on cradling my cues with sand paper because that's what I saw this guy do and he made it seem effortless. Hell he could even smoke while sanding a cue, right Bob?
As a result my cues have never been perfectly flat and no matter how much finish I put on it would often sand through. Sometimes not and eventually with enough tries they came out good. Never able to detect it with your hand but a straight edge doesn't lie.
Now I have been told to block sand before but it was never explained to my pea brain exactly how and why this makes all the difference. And exactly how to go about it. Again thank you Canadian Cue.
Maybe just luck but the very first one came out perfect on the very first try. I am extremely encouraged.