My dad was a fair player in his circle and day, but I first got into pool as an 8-12yr old from his Saturday 10:30am to 3pm rounds of bars as state Alcoholic Beverage Control rep and basic politicking. Three sisters, one son, I got the Saturday shot at Dad's time. Fair? Who says life is or should be fair, it just flat never was or ever may be, just ask anyone, for example my sisters. Forward.
It seems Dad needed to be there chatting with the bartender and a refreshment while I was bored and itching to go, yet... enterprising me, one could find interest in these stray balls left over on the coin-op tables after Friday night closing. Naturally right grip hand eventually meets cue butt and... After habituation, sometimes he would shoot me a quarter or two to keep me busy with a fresh rack while he partook of the sparkling liquid conversation of the day bartender and lunch patrons. I didn't quite see the full value, but appreciated the table time, making your basic lemononade from lemons.
I learned from former buddy Mark (ages 6-12, 14-16) a little something, like the fragile nature of friendships and competition the hard way. He taught me the basic chess moves in the first 3 games, then I crushed him the next 8 games that afternoon and we never ever played that game together again. We didn't know handicapping back then, it was all dark ages and mano-el-mano stuff. Mark was six months but more importantly a year younger in school through no fault of his own, so he tended to develop new friendships and allegiances quickly in that year away from elementary school to junior and high schools, so we drifted apart wistfully while I was sent off to
7th grade, then promptly met a well-to-do 6'2" handsome tall guy (unlike moi) who's parents provided a rec room and an 8ft. Sears hardwood table and we found out we both respected pool, each other, were well matched loved all games, 8-ball, rotation, straight-pool, snooker, etc. and were very pool developmentally well-matched; it came down to execution that day mostly so there was no crushing skill difference that ended the friendship (and we always made it a point to share info and develop, not to get an edge and beat up on the other) thus a lifelong pool friendship developed, and today 32 years later we still play pool and are still best friends. Hello, Chris in Lawrence, KS!
8th grade, 1973, the country is going to hell, race riots, the KU college student union is burning, Ma wants to know where her kids are, so a home rec room that my older sis Lauren dubbed the "Sullivan Resort and School of Evangelism" complete tongue-in-cheek and with wooden hand-lettered sign and Valley 7x3.5 converted freebie coin-op with Red Mali cloth was initiated.
Mom dare not open the door and really come down, she actually just wanted to know where her offspring and all the neighborhood kids and possibly associated riffraff were hanging out, doing God knows what, but she really doesn't want to know quite everything happening down there from school close to 9 or 11pm and friends must, or must not, eventually go home. Housework, dishes, and plausible deniability and it works for the parents on the other end of the extension phone if you just yell from the top of the basement stairs for them who mights or might nots be wanted to be found quite yet. You know the drill, you delinquents and my best buddies here. Sweet scent of adolescence.
Downstairs I had the upper hand on the table for the most part, like Efren (I wish) always just a bit ahead of the others but not wanting to crush their spirits so I "let them" or really ~honestly~ dogged more than a few game balls. You tell me why the one through the seven are easy, and I can tell you how to dog position on the eight to the nine, yet still end up winning by playing weak players, and BELIEVE in your heart of hearts you are honestly a "better than average player" just like all the rest of us nutcases posting here. Ciest la vie, life goes on, 85% win ratio was sufficient target enough for me back then.
For obnoxious friends of friends or other dubious choosings like Tobin that wouldn't get out of the line of the shot and quit sharking, I developed "special shots" like "break shot nail Tobin in the nuts!" call shots aforehand, warning him to move, he ignores me at his peril and ends up knees on floor both hands holding his crotch, the whole gang in absolute f*cking stitches. Position play _IS_ all memory, you see, and a quarter-ball break shot hit slightly jacked up does the trick, I had nailed the wall on that trajectory the week before. Tobin was especially very satisfying and special to me, because he then wrongly assumed it was luck not skill, and claimed I couldn't do it again. KerBLAMMO, as diagrammed. Numbnuts forever after in my mind... The Wei table, bless his soul, just never quite developed the expressiveness to capture this true event in shockwave. I lived it, loved it. Nevermind, Tobin never ever had trouble ignoring helpful instructions from me after that, it must have been a top dog thang we worked out and very satisfying in the end for me.
Back to Dad. Occasional reports of my home-court advantage and natural fabulous yet untested skills leaked out, and occasionally after his evening forays he would venture home and kick my little behind hard, showing me 3-rail banks on the case 8ball corner and side pocket shots, and other 2 and 4 cushion wonders the future yet beheld, and that my meager pool skills had quite a ways yet to go to be "there". Thanks for everything dad, and pool.
Better yet, my 9yr-old daughter wants to be with me, knows I love pool, and schedules lessons to be with me, last part more important than the game yet, but she has heart, and not a bad beginning stroke for a B player father..
Pool. Life. Continues. Great game. 600 yr history. We haven't even gotten into public rooms and unnamed opponents yet.
Billiards, Pocket Pool, Hell, I am still 16 and virtually unbeaten yet. Great thread.