Thanks justadub.With all due respect (and I mean that as sincerely as possible...I respect everything you post here and look forward to seeing your posts) in a typical APA night, if you are "that guy", you will not be viewed well. And I'll tell you why. We're trying to get 5 matches done in hopefully 4 hours. And the players playing APA aren't nearly as good as you are, it takes quite a while for some matches, especially beginners.
I say all this as one who is probably a bit slower than the average in our room. I totally get where the OP is coming from. AND it's refreshing to see that he is aware of it and is concerned at some level.
The OP is deliberate, and that's how he feels comfortable shooting. I TOTALLY get it. Hopefully he can find a way to still manage his time at the table in a fashion that is comfortable to him, but perhaps a bit quicker than he has been till now. Rushing yourself won't help, you're right. But making 8-12 other people wait on a work night is a whole other type of pressure, too...and he won't be popular if his matches drag on too much. I know, it shouldn't be a popularity contest, and everyone should play in the manner they play best at, but there are some practical factors to account for, as well.
I do wish the OP well, as I have said a few times, I understand the conundrum quite well. I can be "methodical" as well.And it's both interesting and a good thing that he recognized it in an opponent, and contrasted that to his own playing style. So he's well aware of how it impacts others.
Good luck, newcuer! Rooting for ya!
There are always extreme cases. If one player is slower than everyone else, interfering with league and tournament schedules, and causing tangible negative impacts to groups of people, then yes, this needs to be dealt with.
But OP didn't say any of this. It seems to be you bringing up the extreme case to justify the rule.
What OP said was that there are a number of players he views on the slow side of the spectrum and that he is concerned because he doesn't want to be one of them. This is what I was addressing.
If you look at the amount of hatred towards slow play, the vast, vast majority of it isn't due to scheduling. Most of it is just people impatient in their chair. This is what I was addressing as well.
So I totally concede that tournaments and leagues must run on schedule, and promoters and operators should do whatever is needed to keep things moving. I hope you'd also concede that if someone is playing slow and not hurting anyone else then hostility towards that person shouldn't be permitted.
Thanks!