Thanks for the answer
I thought stainless steel kind of had? a grain to it
Thomas, YOU are expected to follow the rules just as much as anyone else.
Right. I'm glad you brought that up, because I've been wondering about that.
I guess my question would be, what are "the rules"? What I mean by that is, if the rules are only sporadically enforced... or far worse yet, selectively enforced... then are they really "rules". Or do they become more of a "good old boys club" benefit?
For example, take a look at this very thread. Kim Walker, who dislikes me and whom I dislike in return, have engaged in some interaction. How would you judge what I have written against what he has written? From my point of view I've tempered what I would like to say to him considerably - and even evidenced that by deleting a response in its entirety.
On the other hand, what I didn't say to Walker were things like:
"I wasted my time trying to be nice [to you]"
"Once again you have shown your spots that will never change"
"You are dead to me"
"You should be banned just for your personality"
That's not to say I don't feel that way toward him - I most certainly do. But I haven't verbalized those thoughts... although he has.
So once again my question is, are the"rules" really rules [to be applied to all equally], or are they more of a stick that gets subjectively swung at the heads of those not "in the club"?
TW
Let's try this again.
Mr. Wayne, if you break the rules again you will be removed.
You're a talented guy. If you want to be here, please consider what will go against that grain before hitting enter.
It will only take one more nazi insinuation to accomplish such a feat.
Capiche??
On my word of honor I can absolutely promise you will not find me making any such insinuation, either in the future OR in the past. To be honest, I would think that removal from the forum should be standard for ANYONE making such an insinuation - even if it did happen several days ago and the thread is now vapor.
TW
(PS: Regarding your use of "Capiche"; yes, I am of Irish-Italian origin. Was that a shot?)
I think the loss of Mr. Wayne, based on the evidence, would be ridiculous.
I am a mutt...as in adopted, but I've been told I could be Russian. I AM short, so please the insults fly.. :thumbup:
Let me take the mic from Wilson here and explain ONE MORE TIME what happens here...
Thomas, yes that other thread may be the worst thing ever written. I havn't gone to look at it yet. The difference is that no one reported that thread. If it bothered you that much, THEN REPORT IT.
Neither Wilson or I read every single thread on the forums. Trust me, it is enough work to just read the ones that are reported.
So you see a thread that bothers you, you don't report it but you do let it fester in your mind, then you deal with it by taking a shot back at the original thread's poster. Others see your shot and report it, and we end up stepping in because of that reported post that you wrote. We don't see the original post that bothered you, and to be honest we can't read your mind as to what bothered you. So we deal with your post.
Then all hell breaks loose from people claiming censorship and/or biased enforcement of the rules.
It is simple. If you don't like a post and think it is out of line, REPORT IT!!
I don't want to hear about "I can fight my own battles!". This isn't a battle and no one named you Forum Police. If someone posts something out of line, it is your responsibility to report the thread. Not deal with it on your own. That is the way a COMMUNITY works.
I'm curious about this "I can deal with it myself" mentality. If you see someone breaking the law on the street, do you call the police or do you take it upon yourself to break the law by tackling the guy and beating him until you feel satisfied?
And if you do beat the guy, when the cops get there do they say "Oh, you are right. He broke the law. Good job. Be on your way"?
When I respond to a reported post, I do not send a note to the reporter telling them what I did or did not do to deal with the reported post. Until now, I have never seen someone say they expected any such notification.
Any insinuation that Wilson made can be responded to by Wilson.
As for any insinuation that I might have made, if it walks like a duck and talks like a duck...
I am sorry that your previous instances of not taking on the role of forum police did not go the way you wanted them to go. Nevertheless, it does not make it ok to hijack someone's thread so you can badger another user about something they said that was entirely unrelated to the post.
I decided to "call you out" because a user reported the thread to me. As I ask them to do when they see something getting out of hand.
Don't worry about my anger though. You will know when you anger me. It will mean you get a "you have been banned" message when you try to log on to the forums.