Grip
Grip your back hand where it seems to naturally fall, I think your grip at the back of stick should have your forarm pointing straight down. I can't and never have been able to grip my back hand fully around the stick, no movement, no swing. I played an exibition match with Mike Siegel one time and he commented I had a tea cup grip! I asked if it was wrong and he said no lots of great players use it. There is air space between my thumb and index finger of at least a half inch. Try it and notice how much movement and swinginess you get, its critical for me. If I were to fully grip the butt of the stick, which I can't anyway, it would feel like it was cemented to that butt. But thats just me, different strokes for different folks I guess.