…but it seems to me that it's the gambling aspect itself is whats turns people away.
It's intimidating for a novice to see people playing for money and knowing that if you want to be a better player, you eventually are going to be playing these guys - wich means giving them your money.
Or it could be the continued insistence on here that gambling on pool is the same as playing pool.
Pool went through some serious doldrums in this country in the 1950's, only to come back strong in the 60's and thereafter. Each succeeding generation must learn about the game all over again. And it's up to all of us to introduce it to them.
All good and valid points, and I apologize for bringing up an “older” thread, however I am catching up; I’ve been away for a bit. Kim’s point and the associated discussion of other countries is a good one. I’m from Canada (as are a few other AZBers) and pool isn’t quite the same here as in the US. Hustling and pool still go hand-in-hand in
a lot of people’s minds to this day, and that has a very negative connotation to it.
Before the gamblers get up in arms, that’s not what I’m talking about whatsoever. I’ve no problem with gambling and some of the matches I’ve seen for some decent cash are great to watch. It’s the
idea that gambling or hustling is
required that puts a bad name out there. It doesn’t even have to happen; it’s the expectation that you can’t play a game with friends without someone coming over to pester you about money.
My quick story: Sunday night I was out playing with friends, and not even playing terribly well at the time (for some reason I felt the need to add right side to every shot) and I hear, “oh yeah he’s a pool shark, I’ve seen him before.” It caught my ear but not my attention. By the 4th time he said it the two girls this guy was with started apologizing for their play to me. Now maybe it was flattering that they were worried about my opinion of their play, but the “be careful, he’s a hustler” crap was unwarranted. That I can play pool without miscues does not mean I want to steal your money.
My other quick story: Thursday before last (yeah, way back when in the 50’s) a couple asked me for some help with their game. I gave them some quick pointers about stance and stroke and then I told them they could swap tables and play next to us. Suddenly it was like I pulled out a knife; they were scared and said, “No thanks, we’re just here to have fun.” Somehow, I’d become some guy trying to trick them into betting their life savings away? The young lad came up later and said he’d play a little next time I saw him but the whole time he kept his hand over his wallet as if the money was magically going to float away. Why ask me for help if you’re frightened I’m going to hustle you?
These aren’t the only stories, but obviously, I’m not going to retell all of them. But it happens. A lot. Maybe I’m frightening because I shave my head, maybe it’s that I wear collared shirts. Dress pants? I polish my shoes, that’s some scary stuff right there. I still agree with pool’s origins, and liken it to golf; you don’t play wearing ripped jeans and your best t-shirt. Collars or stay off the course. But I’m Canadian, maybe in the US you can get onto a golf course dressed like that. In pool, I bring the same expectation of myself, if I can’t gather myself up enough to look half-decent, why bother going out at all?
For leagues; I’ve never seen a bigger peen contest than Wednesday night’s Valley league (it’s all we have, don’t tell me to join BCA; if it was here, I would). The worst part is these people think they are the best players around. I’ve been tempted but then I get hassled for side-bets. No one will play a game without, “something on the line”. The last time I got into that, I took a bet for a single shot for 1K, won it, and the little leech ran away with, “I’m too drunk, doesn’t count.” Now he retells the story as if the bet didn’t occur. I hold my tongue when I see him although I’ve been tempted to remind him he owes me money.
Finally (thank your deity of choice), Jay is on the money. We have to introduce people to pool. But if you introduce them to, “here’s how to hustle”, don’t expect them to bring the image up whatsoever.