I use a Lucasi Break cue One poster above summed it up. You will break much harder with a dedicated break cue with a proper tip for that job. As the result, YES it is louder.
My pool playing is also exclusively at home. Even the dog jumps and barks when I break. My table is as far away from the rest of the house as I could get it, but it's just loud.
Our solution has been that I play at the same time every evening. The family, and the dog all know that from 8 to 9:30 they will experience periodic blasting. They understand that this is important to me and that I also give them space for the hobbies and times that bring them joy. As such, I think after a while, they got to a place where they don't even notice. It's like living next to a train track. Guests notice the noise but when the train goes by after the first few days, you barely even notice it.
I hope you find a peaceful solution for your home.