Jude, I only know you by reputation...which is EXCELLENT and you are consistently one of the most informative posters on this forum.
I think the only time you and I "locked horns" was on the issue of how long it takes to get to Hall of Fame in a subway...and whether Amsterdam is downtown from mid-town. Mostly just a good joust.
I did not know that lodini was a woman (so many guys have avatars of women in various stages of dress and undress) Had I known that and certainly had I known she is a friend of yours I would have been more "gentle." As you know, there are few on this forum who have taken more stands in favor of women than I...and I've taken MAJOR heat for that.
But being "gender-neutral" is an admirable thing, I think, and she posted the following in response to my post that you quoted.
Geez... a fun question was thrown out, and we were all having fun answering and stepping into a fantasy world for just a second of our day. I guess we could look at things your way, but at least for me, I was just trying to enjoy myself for a minute.
(Plus, maybe the OP can clarify, but I dont think that's the type of "honor" he was referring to... I think it was more like "for the glory of it")
But either way, I hope someone hugs you today.
I was just expressing an opinion and used very real and very correct examples to support my point. CLEARLY, I did not disrespect pool or any poster here IN THE SLIGHTEST and yet she dumped on me for ruining her enjoyment of the thread.
MOST importantly, as you correctly pointed out...the very sharp nature of my post was NOT directed at her but at another poster who deserved what he got...and more.
I only asked THAT poster if lodini needed someone to fight fights for him/her (now I know it's "her).
Having said all that, while I think her post to me was WAY out of line, I certainly apologize to her if she took any personal offense at comments I directed to another poster....and I admire you for sticking up for a friend.
Regards,
Jim