That is ONE side of pool and it is a side I've always liked. But I'd hate to live that life...or have a kid of mine live it. It is not productive and thus, in the long run, will lead
away from happiness. Many here can attest to that.
But there's the other side of pool that I like, too. It is the side of honest competition, healthy environment, good food, players with a life outside of pool (i.e., they have earned money to spend, not gamble), good looking women, business conversations and appointments, etc. etc...all the stuff golf lays claim to.
I don't think this is a "either/or" choice here. Why can't we have both? I guess we do, but the good side is more hidden than the "bad" and that is the public's preception. If people want cueing arts, let's give it to 'em.
I do what I can in my small world to improve pool's image. I attempt to look halfway nice when I go play. I don't engage in fights or arguments over something stupid. I respect others. I encourage newbies to learn and grow and not give up. I also teach others what little I know so they can begin to enjoy the personal growth aspects of pool.
Example: I just convinced a customer of mine who told me he plays in a small pool league, to join the BCA league next year. He told me last night that he already has 3 people ready to play this fall. That is a step up, imho, of his perception of the quality of pool.
If you read golf books and listen to old pros talk about golf, it is made to be the greatest analogy ever in the history of man's attemtps to build great wealth and riches. I sometimes laugh, but that is the perception amongst the public. Pool holds the same power, as it requries the same thoughtful work inside of the player. This work can also result in applying similar strategies in life as on the flat plane. The public's preception would be better if this was wider known.
For that STUPID social worker that ripped one of our beloved posters kid's loves from his life: FUG 'EM! Just more indication that this beautiful game is misunderstood by "educated" idiots. And we're forced to pay for it!
Jeff Livingston