It seems to me the answer to this question is mostly in your perspective. It appears there are a hand full or less Professionals making what I would consider a decent living. However, there is more to making a decent living than the financial metric. Are you happy? Are you enjoying life? Are you at peace with yourself? There are no shortage of wealthy people that are dissatisfied if not completely miserable. And who made the rule that success has to be measured by the traditional idea of a spouse, two cars, a couple of children, a 3 bedroom house in a nice subdivision and a steady 9 to 5 job?
I was discussing something similar to this with one of the guys this week at league. He made a great point by stating how great it would be to be one of the best in the world at what you do. How can you put a dollar figure on that?
In study of genius level IQ some of the brightest most successful and unsuccessful people in the USA were asked at the end of their lives what it took to make a good life the reply by the vast majority (something like over 90%) said that if you are on good terms with your family (whatever your family consists of) you can do anything. Your family is your foundation from which one can be successful at whatever they choose to do in life.
A road player with a family seems to be a contradiction in terms. I suspect they may have had fun for a few years but I doubt that many had good lives throughout their lives. But then road players and touring pros are not the same thing.
I have known many people on both sides of the tracks and this family as foundation idea seems to be one of the truest findings I have ever read. It is worth much effort to keep your family relations in tact.
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