OK.
I'm a B+ player. Like I said before I've traveled quite a bit for work and I've gambled with strangers in more than half the states. So I've been in basically all regions of the country. I'm talking about relatively cheap stuff. I'm not talking about serious gambling. I also gamble fairly frequently with players I know around here.
Here's the core of my ethical guidelines.
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I won't lie to you.
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That doesn't mean I won't negotiate with you. That doesn't mean I won't seek to exploit what I see as your weaknesses. That doesn't mean I won't try to get an advantage.
But it does mean that I won't lose on purpose or miss a shot on purpose (defacto lies, imo) or tell you something I know to be untrue. I believe I've met a lot of people who have a similar standard.
A few weeks ago I was in Missoula, MT for one night. I got to the pool hall with my daughter (we were driving together moving her out to Oregon) just as the small (8 players, $10 entry) weekly tournament was starting. I won my first two matches and then got knocked onto the B side. The guy beat me 5-1. I judged him as pretty close in speed to me but i thought I might have the edge. I also thought he might believe he had the nuts because of the tournament match. I asked him if he wanted to play 5 a rack while we were waiting. I won six in a row and he quit. i also double dipped him (he had a 4-2 lead in the second set) and won the tournament. So I basically got $50 for the tournament win as well as the $30 he got for second place. I also made some new friends in the process, and there were no hard feelings.
In fact I can't think of a time where I left with hard feelings in either direction. There are many times I've won money in a strange place, and the players wouldn't let me pay for table time or drinks.
I'll usually go in in saying I'd like to play some $20 sets or something. I'm close to even but ahead overall. I've run into a number of players that play well above my speed. I lose a few sets--no big deal. I've never lost more than $100 to a stranger. I've won a couple hundred a few times.
I've lost to, amongst others, --
Victor Castro in San Diego
Neal Jacobs in Chicago
Jamie Fenton in Iowa
Josh Johnson in Quad cities IL
Tommy Hernandez in Quad Cities IL
Rick Stanley in Austin TX
Tyler Edey (from Alberta)
Barry Emerson (now from TX?)
....
all of whom I didn't know who they were when I played them. All these guys ran over me. None made it close or lost some early sets to get my nose open or anything like that.
In a nutshell,
1. I won't lie to you
2. I won't quit ahead without fair warning
3. I won't gamble with you if you are drunk
For example if I'm ahead three sets, and I need or want to leave soon, I'll say I'm only good for one more set. If my opponent wants to raise the bet to try to get even, I'll do it.
If I'm up 5 games playing by the game, I might say "I'm only good for five more games or so." Then if he wants to do a race to 3 for what I'm up, I'd go for it.
On the last one, I'm perfectly fine playing you if you've been drinking and you're getting a little bold because of it. But if you're actually drunk and have lost all sense, then I'm not going to gamble with you.
One time I was playing sets on a bar box in South Dakota, and I was ahead. My opponent alread switched from 8-ball to 9-ball to try to mix it up. Then, looking to turn things around, he suggested we jump on the Gabriels 9-foot table. The table happened to be the same as the table in my basement (they were bought together). I felt no obligation to volunteer this information. At the same time, I would not have said that I never play on a 9-foot table or anything like that. I might, however, point out to my opponent that he is a better shotmaker than me and that comes into play on a bigger table.
Basically the rules of advocacy are the same rules a lawyer has in the courtroom, imo. The lawyer can't lie. Nor can he put someone on the stand to elicit what he knows to be a lie. At the same time he presents information in a way most favorable to his client's position. That's what I do.
mike page
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